Happiness, is to be found within your own life, in your thoughts at this very moment. You are responsable to surface your happiness,to bring it to the surface, you plant the seeds and only you can get them to flourish. What is the happiness you seek ? Do you know what happiness means, it matters because it’s hard to be happy if you don’t know what it is.
Life is made up of small pleasures, Happiness is made up of those tiny successes. The big one’s come too infrequently. And if you don’t collect all these tiny successes, the big one’s don’t really mean anything.
Norman Lear – Don’t confuse pleasure with happiness, you see experiences,a good meal,a great party or even sex can be pleasure, but the happiness factor is short term. Happiness is when you are satisfied with your life, content that your life is right, that you are doing what you want and are going in the direction that you have chosen, that you have found your true purpose and live life to the full, this is when you find happiness in full. Everyone is different, as you know we are all unique, and feel and live things in different ways with different levels of emotion. Another major factor to happiness is your enviroment, is it where you want to be, your well being in total, your outlook on life and the people you have around you, your relationships, are they what you really want or are you just comfortable and in a good routine ? your success and your elasticity, this is about how quick you can bounce back from the experiences that are sent to you on your way through life. Happiness is not to be looked for, it is within you and knowing what you want in life, it is all part of our abilities, believe, change, denial, energy,fear and how we give to others, is happiness on your list for Christmas……14 days…………………………………………………………………………………
The true meaning of giving is better found in what you are willing to take from yourself. What is to give – to offer something to someone.
To do something voluntarily and without expecting compensation.
When we work with the Universal Laws, you will know that the more you give the more you will receive, we are not always talking about material things here, think of the boomerang affect, when you are kind and understanding with someone, would you not like to receive this back, what we give as everyday people from the heart, through our thoughts and actions, is what appears most in our life’s, like attracts like, it is important that we give to others, it can be our time, a listening ear, a shoulder to lean on, to be a good unconditional friend, anything we can do to help others through there problems or everyday life, the more support we can give, the more support we will receive when we are in a situation in our life’s, or just knowing that support is always around you in your day to day, to feel protected, cared for and loved are important to all of us, you must try to put yourself in the situation of the other, and think how you would want to be treated, all this is giving part of yourself, and is totally free, to give and to receive, the only value you need is human value, our financial situation does not come into this, it’s just pure thoughts and heart, expressed by giving your time to be considerate and caring. Christmas time, is always special regarding giving, but unfortunately many people only concentrate on a physical gift in the giving process, everyone enjoys to receive a gift, but we should always remember that giving, true giving from the heart, can mean much more, to those who give and to those who receive.
FEAR – A destressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain etc., whether the threat is real or imagined, the feeling or condition of being afraid.
The definition of fear is an emotion caused by anxiety or the uneasiness of being afraid .
Fear can be one of the biggest blocks we have and not even realise that it is there, we can hide it in shyness, introvert, we stay in the background, speak quietly and live invisible life’s, and there is nothing wrong with that, if that is who we are, but if we take on this role because we are so afraid to be who we really are, because of what people may say, what people think, how people will respond to us,to expose ourselves as we truly are, OR because of what we carry in our luggage from the influences of people in our life’s, if this is the case that we carry our parents,teachers,family fears etc., you really need to let go of them,because they are not your’s to hold on to. When you have fear inside of you it is difficult to embrace things in life from a place of love, with fear it is more difficult to connect, it also drains you, as you are constantly on guard, you fight harder for everything,fear will always hold you back. Shed the fear be who you want to be, the less inner fear you feel the better person you will become, your heart will start to expand and you will show a form of tenderness, not to be mistaken with weakness, this is an inner feeling that you will have the full benefit, your energy (vibration) will raise and life will feel and become better. You will feel the shift from within,and the essence of yourself will start to show, the stale energy which blocks us, will be removed and who you want to surface, will do so in a natural manner.
” You are the master of your life – you are the master of your mind – you have the power to change the way you feel.
You have the power in you to achieve your goals, to become the person you want to be, and to live the life of your dreams”
Zlatoslava Petrak.
Energy – In physics energy is a property of objects which can be transferred to other objects or converted into different forms, but cannot be created or destroyed. The “ability of a system to perform work” is a common description, but it is difficult to give one single comprehensive definition of energy because of it’s many forms.
Are you aware of your energy, the way you carry it with you, and the effect it may have on other people. your energy (Vibration) is what allows you to converse one on one with the universe, if your frequency is right. This I am sure you already know, it’s the basics to the Law of Attraction, ( if you don’t I suggest you read my book “The basic recipe to the Law of Attraction- Amazon B0147FX9Y2 ) When you incorporate your ability, believe, changes and remove your denial, your Energy will be raising all the time, enabling you to achieve what ever you wish from the universe, you can cosmos order at your desire, people who generally are successful and happy in their life will have a good energy level, they will be confident in what they do and there general appearance, they know how to work with the universe,and the universe loves to work with them, you share the same frequency,like the genie in the lamp ” your wish is there command” but, as I have said many times before, you must do your part, you have to take the steps necessary to reach this level, and always take action when the universe presents you with an opportunity. Have you ever been in a situation when you don’t feel right, something makes you feel uncomfortable with the surroundings or the people present, it could be even a restaurant, when you have this feeling, it is a good indicater that the energy levels are not the same. when you feel comfortable with your surroundings or a person you are on a similar frequency.So keep working on A B C & D and get your energy level to where it needs to be, 17 days to go. Remember you always recieve back what you give out, this is known as the boomerang effect.
Denial – A refusal to comply with or satisfy a request. A refusal to grant the truth of a statement or allegation, a contradiction. In the psychological world, denial consists of the refusal to accept a past or present reality and is most commonly employed to protect.
So, 18 days to Christmas, is your block denial, are you in denial ? and maybe are not aware of it, You hopefully have found your ability, you believe anything is possible and you are ready to change, but, again are you in denial ?, if this is the case, the work you have done on the previous A B & C, will not help you to move forward, if you are in a deny mode, why would you you deny yourself your right to be successful and happy, it is your birthright, to have everything you desire in your life, but if you are blocking yourself due to denial, because you feel you are not good enough, that the competition is to great, because others are better than you, you have to have it very clear that you are totally unique, in everything you do and are, your abilities,belief’s and what you change are all unique to you, your competition does not have what you have, your determination, your will power and your inner power are all exclusive to you, and when used in the correct way, can bring to you exactly what you are looking for. so you have to put aside your denial, why should you deny to grant the truth to your life, the truth that you want to achieve in your life, it is your’s, and you are always in control regardless of your circumstances, today, right now. everything can change, your abilities can be more developed or you can find them for the first time, and when you believe that you really can do this, whatever it may be, you will remove the denial, because it becomes a puff of smoke that just disapears into thin air. Do you see how this works ? do you now start to see that you control all of these things, through how you see yourself and the thoughts that you have in relationship to that, if you are looking for the perfect soul mate, a stable financial situation, a better job, what ever it maybe, if you think of yourself as not being good enough to have these things, you are dennying yourself of those things,you block yourself every inch of the way, the frequency that you operate on; (your vibration) is sending out the wrong message, it is sending out what you think and feel deep down, so you recieve pretty much the same, time and time again. You hold the power to change all that, you are unique in every way and worthy of anything you set your mind to, no matter what that is. Take note, and let’s see who is around at Christmas, your old self, or this strong confident person you have been waiting for, to get you where you want to be in 2016.
“They say that time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself”
Andy Warhol.
What is change – to exchange one thing for another thing. To become different somehow compared to what it is at present. To give a completely different form or appearance, to transform .
So, in other words if you are unsatisfied with your abilities and beliefs we need to Change, to become satisfied ….. Change is important for all of us, we need to be able to change, to fit into our ever changing life and situations, it is a part of growth, our personal growth. Many people fight change, why, maybe because we hold belief’s from the past, that we have breed into us from childhood, and some just do not like change on any level, but it is inevitable, for us to move forward in our workplace, home, relationships, even down to driving a new car, we need to change our way of driving, because the car is different . So, as you can see, we really can’t get away from change, we need to look at it as a welcome thing in our life’s, when we use new skills we change our approach, when we fall and twist our ankle, we change the way we move for a while, so why is it so difficult to change our views on things, the reason is our minds , we use our minds to make any kind of change, drive, walk, are done on an automatic level, and we will use them all our life, however when we need to change our way of thinking to create our abilities and believe that we can achieve what we want in our life, we need to overide our existing thoughts and create new one’s, new pathways into our mind, over a period of time, our new thoughts will become automatic, it takes time and concentration but, when it becomes automatic to you, it will just form part of your life, and your life will change, you will become the person you want to be, with your abilities and beliefs. Remember we are on a Christmas count down, so what are you waiting for to change the things in your life, that you want to change…….
Sometimes the person you love, just does not
understand how much you love them.
Yes, we still have 20 great days to build ourselves up and ready for our new life. Yesterday we covered our ability or abilities, some have many,today we are going to look at what we Believe, at times we really do believe in the wrong things, we tend to take on the believe of others that can have a negative influence in our happiness and life’s. However, if we fall so easily into these situation’s, using a similar energy we can believe anything we want to, that will give us a positive influence on our happiness and life’s. What is Believe, to think that something is true, correct or real. To have confidence in the truth, the existence, or the reliability of something, although without absolute proof that one is right in doing so.So what are your belief’s, do you believe in yourself ?, you really should because you will never know anyone as well as you know yourself, and your Abilities, the problem is that as we grow into adults our believes tend to grow smaller as everyday living, takes our believes slowly away from us. We become fixed on our newly acquired responsibilities and forget our belief’s,even ourselves at times. It is never to late to restore your self believe, if you believed as a child you could be a film star or President of your country, why don’t you still believe that what happens with your life, is down to your belief’s, to believe in your self, to think out of the box, that you your self have put yourself in, this may not sit well with you at first, but, give it a thought, If we expect others to believe in us, you must believe in yourself first, and that belief should be your ability to do what ever you set your mind to. Believe in yourself,Believe in your dreams and Believe that you have the ability to accomplish what ever it is you desire,health,wealth and happiness.
We are on the countdown to Christmas, only 21 days to wait for Father Christmas !!! Holidays and for some a little well needed rest, for others maybe they work the most, preparing for these special days to share with friends and family.
We still have 21 days to prepare for the step into 2016, one week later so let’s make the most of 2015, and let’s get really ready,prepared and full of energy for what is to come.
A is for Ability – Our power of capacity to do or act physically, mentally, legally, morally, financially to the best of our competence in the activity or occupation that we choose, do we need our power of capacity, our ability to heal ourselves from illness or pain we feel we are in or going through, for this we need our physical and mental ability to be clear and totally focused.Here we need to use our reasoning ability within ourselves, on every level, remember that what we think about most (focus on) is what we get more of in our life’s, so your ability to be positive and strong are essential.
Ability is having the quality of being able to do something, to accomplish your goal, the ability to communicate effectively to be able to hold the ability to research what you don’t yet already know, the ability to read or write great articles, reports,emails to be able to under take the occupation where your skills can shine.
Ability is an acquired or natural capacity or talent that enables an individual to perform a particular task using their abilities.
Do you have the ability to achieve what you want from this year and the next, it is you and your power of capacity that is going to take you there, build on your abilities and build the life that you deserve,build your universal knowledge.
Are you aware of your abilities, and are you using them to your best advantage ?
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