CROSSROADS IN LIFE………………………………………….

Do we recognise when we hit a crossroads in our life, does it jump out at you, or does it take a little longer for things to sink in, and you actually realise at which point you are at, maybe even which crossroad, major or minor. We face all types during our life time, and handle them all in different ways, there are two types, one being emotional and the other not, when we are not emotionally involved, we tend to work through them in a different way, practicality comes in and we work to a strategic plan avoiding the pot holes and finally crossing the hurdles or in this case crossroads.

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However when we are emotionally entangled we some times do not see the wood for the trees, the damage that is caused and the unrepairable road we leave behind, do we ever recover from a broken heart for example, i think not, but I do think that if we can learn to accept the broken heart, it maybe can’t break anymore, if we accept the crossroads put before us, we are not fighting it, we are not looking  for a different route to avoid the pot hole, the pot hole is there so except that fact,the time we give to the pot hole is time lost, when you accept, you are able to reconstruct your life again, you find your new path and maybe even your calling, maybe the pot hole had previously held you back from being who you really wanted to be, maybe our old believes are turned into new ones, we need to change our standing point and even maybe a new life, you are released of that heavy load, and realise that you are important, it is now your turn to be put first, until we hit the pot hole we are not conscious of our own importance,

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We totally focus on the welfare of others, and forget to nurture and love ourselves, so the change is at times even harder,but well worth the journey to  finding the acceptance, we can choose to suffer forever, or take your acceptance and move on in your life, this is your worth, you are a valuable person and it is important that you value yourself in this way. Every crossroad that life brings you is unpleasant,ugly,painful and traumatic, but your strength of value will see you through,what we do not always acknowledge is that our thoughts can sabotage our every day living,but our thoughts can also take us from sadness to happiness.   So if you feel that you are at the bottom of that pot hole or looking down on your crossroad,take a step back, breath deep and separate your emotion, do not replace it with anger or frustration (blaming others is not the solution) take control, pick up all the little pieces that you think you are in and accept that this is the way it is now, the value you give yourself will give you the strength to move forward and take with both hands the opportunities that life will offer you.

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YOU ARE THIS AND MORE…………………………………………….

This is called living and being alive everyday, repeating this affirmation is going to set you on a fabulous day…………………………

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RECHARGE -TAKE CHARGE

Are you in charge ?

How many times do we give control of our lives to others ? Recently on a personal level I decided to Recharge – Take charge,I really never had given the consideration needed to this subject, you see we go through our daily life, giving everything we have to our families (this we do with love but you need to remember yourself as well) our jobs,our homes,our obligations .

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You see, we do most of this because we want to and receive  pleasure from doing so,our home and families are generally our main concern,and should be ,they are probably the biggest treasure we will ever have in our life,but with this we sometimes make decisions, or not,that if we were in charge we would not make. Problems and obstacles come  most days of our lives,some are trivial and we deal with more or less automatically,but at times we are confronted with a major problem and this is where we lose the control,(the charge) and most of the time it is to fear.Today we are going to recharge to take charge, fear is a feeling,which we create in our minds,but this creation stops us from doing many things or decisions that we would make if fear was not present.

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As this is created in our minds,we could also decide not to create it, this comes down to simple mind over matter and what we think of ourselves,if we truly value our selves we would not allow this,we are worth more,we are worth everything we desire,in any field you wish to choose……this is purely a question of how we see ourselves,or better said how we think of ourselves,and feeling fear should not be included in how we see ourselves, if we have to confront our boss,employees,teachers,banker,doctors ? why should we feel fear,they are people just like our selves, however we  often are very fearful of this experience,so where does that come from………….yourself, you are telling yourself that you do not feel easy with this future conversation or situation,if you told yourself  this is a normal everyday experience would you feel different ? The answer is yes, this is something that by taking charge of,can change a lot of things in your life,you need to believe that you are in charge of everything that goes on in your life.You are responsible for the good and the bad,you create these daily events, if you hold a positive attitude and keep in charge of your thinking, you will gradually see the changes taking place in your everyday life ……….so take charge and put yourself in the driving seat of your life.

 

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At long last, you realize that you choose, the choice is yours, make that choice today in everything you do, happiness, positivity joy etc., and you could have one of the best days of your life…………………..be positive and create the life you would love to have…..

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TIDY ? ………………………………………………

How tidy are you ? Are you aware that tidiness is key to efficiency….. when we live and work in an organised space, we are far more productive and creative, I also have to say that on many occasions a person with a creative mind, is not always a number one tidy person that  we know…………! 

When we are hoping for new things to manifest into our life, we have to make the road to it as smooth as possible, for example if we wished to have more clothes or shoes etc., it is important that our wardrobe space is neat and tidy, and the most important thing would be for it to have enough space for new things to fit in !! 

How about your handbag or brief-case, is it tidy, is it presentable, or do you live in fear  of it falling and your whole world falls onto the office floor, or where ever you may be……it can be very embarrassing to exhibit your personal items to everyone, or to open a brief-case looking for a folder that is mixed in with all kinds of papers and documents, the impression is very bad, but it is not good for you, you will become nervous and you are breaking the natural flow of successful things to come, you are placing obstacle blocks all along the road, …

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It is exactly the same with our minds, if we hold a thousand and one things in our mind, with no organisation or correct space, imagine how confused it would look in there and how you would try to decipher things for you to sound competent, confident and calm. When we organise and clean are minds, at times we have difficulty letting go of things whether that be a physical object or a thought, when this happens it is one of two things, it could be an attachment from the past or it can be a fear for the future, which ever it is important that we learn to let go, it is good for us to feel free and to be able to move forward in what you want to do. 

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Most of us, would like to manifest more money, am I right ? well, what is your bag and more important purse or wallet looking like, is it organised, and ready to receive this money you would like to appear, if you are the kind of person that keeps receipts and bits of paper in your purse all mixed up with bank notes and  vouchers, it is time to clear out the purse and wallet, let the universe know you are ready, so ready to recieve what you are asking for.

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So we now have a little job for the week-end, remember that clutter smothers and simplicity allows us to breathe.

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Wishing you all a great week-end ❤

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

 

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FULL CONTROL AHEAD……………………………………

Take control of your life, it is so possible? When you are in control, you begin to create your own life, on your terms and conditions……………………………..No matter where you are now…..

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FRIENDSHIP……………………..

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Friendship, what does this word mean to you ? Does

it fill you with happiness and lovely memories of now and maybe times gone by, or does it fill you with sadness and betrayal. Friendship can cover so many people and experiences in our life, good, bad and indifferent, friendship comes in all shapes and sizes, and if we are aware of these shapes and sizes, we have it covered……

But, sadly, not all of us know the rules !! or are not corresponded in the friendship way, during our life we have many friends, work friends, leisure/hobby friends, school friends, social friends the list can go on and on,then we have one or two special friends, this is not always a life long friendship, you could meet someone today, and for what ever reason a friendship begins and will   last a life time. So, what are those deciding factors ? that make a friendship, the friendship ! First, always remember that we are all different and unique, so nothing is set in stone here, it’s what works for you and the friend, however, Loyalty should be high on your list, will this friend be loyal to you always? they may think different to you, but is the loyalty strong, would they support you in any decision you make ? would they betray your loyalty to a third person ? can you trust them with anything that affects you directly ? if you hesitate to answering any of these questions, then your intuition is telling you the correct answer. 

Do you wear your heart on your sleeve, and trust to easily or are over-cautious, both can be a problem. Do you find the whole friendship theme difficult ? due to past experiences or do you trust your friend with anything regarding you and your life. Also, maybe you have the best friend in the world, but keep things back from them, that only you share with yourself.

 

 

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ALL ABOUT YOU……………………………………….

It’s Monday……and this is where it all starts, with YOU…….when you realize that everything in life can change, if you make that change and start to work with yourself within, caring for yourself and your well-being will give spectacular changes that you may be looking for……………

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OH HAPPY DAY !!…………………………………………………………..

Sunday mornings are for taking things slow and enjoying that morning stretch and coffee…………………..

Good Morning to you all, wishing you all a beautiful day

Brooke, Universal Life Coach

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IT'S SATURDAY…………………………………………………..

A smile is always a great way to start your day, so today is smiling Saturday……love is still in the air, it’s a Valentine weekend……..so go ahead smile smile and smile ……..

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