GO AHEAD CREATE ………………………………………………………………….

Go ahead, this is your best opportunity to create a new life for you and your loved one’s

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GET OUT OF MY WAY !!!!……….

Just get out of my way, go, don’t look back, never show your face around here again……I said get out of my way, your voice goes on and on ! Can you ever imagine talking to yourself in this way, well if you feel blocked, that you have procrastinated long enough, maybe you should. If you tend to blame others for your situation, the financial aspect, your own qualifications for what you want to do, whatever excuse you put forward, let me tell you, you are wrong, yes sorry about that, but if you stay with me a second, I will explain, as we are all guilty of the above, not just you. When we make these excuses we are really hiding behind our own fear, fear can be a strange thing and comes in many sizes, it does not have to be shaky hands and a cold sweat, we can fear our own abilities to become who we want to be,or how we want to be  well, again, not quite true, it’s that little voice inside that jumps in telling us we can’t, oh yes we can………….but we have to have faith.

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When we have faith in ourselves and the powers to be, be it for you the Universe, God, or the name you choose, we can do it, let go of that little voice called fear and send it packing, this is your life and it does not have a right to direct your life, that is your job, so don’t you think its time you take responsibility for it, whatever you may want to do, most skills, information and what you need to learn is available on the internet, that for a while takes care of the financial aspect, you can learn so much at no cost, (Unless of course, you want to be a brain surgeon!!) we would need to think about that in a different post ! we all have a skill to offer to others, and a passion we would all like to follow, what always holds you back is yourself, I am not suggesting anybody be reckless here, everyone wants a pay check, but you can combine a job and starting what you really want, if you REALLY want it. You are much stronger than fear, and until you can look it in the eye and identify it is there, you will not move forward, have faith, is there really anyone you can trust as much as yourself, you owe this to yourself, you are worthy of this and when you partner with God, The Universe with your person, you know they will never let you down, ever, but  you must have that faith in yourself and your powerful partner. I know of people with highly successful businesses and successes themselves that never studied what they are doing now in their school years, we all have it in us, face the fear, face yourself and move on, but don’t be the one that stops you ! get-out-of-the-way-1

So, think about this, and when you realise that you are stopping yourself, get out of the way………….move forward, see it, feel it, do it! Start now towards what you want, your faith, your powerful partner will help you all the way, the openings will come, the opportunity will present itself, and as you know, when you close that door on the old you with fear, a new enormous door will open with fearless written all over it. 

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TIME TO READ…………………………………………………………………..

If you could open a book , and read how you would like things to be , what would you like to read ? …..Do you know how you would like things to be after all the turmoil ?

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EMOCIONAL (IN) DEPENDANCE…………………..

If you’re in love or are totally attached to someone, you feel bad,but just can’t leave the person and relationship, you could find that you are totally dependent emotionally and are not sure how to find yourself again…..When we realise that we are in a bad relationship, we tend to blame ourselves, even without knowing we are doing this, are self-confidence takes a dive,we feel that everything we do is inadequate, and we just don’t feel that we are at the same level as our partner, and you feel sure you are going to be left for someone new.

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You may also go through the stage of doing everything in your power to improve, change everything in your life, you may even lose sight of your friends and family just to please this person. You may even change the way you dress and speak, thinking that this is how your partner wants to see you, but what is really happening is you as a person, just start to disappear, falling into a bigger and bigger hole of anxiety and despair, you will forget who you are,where you came from and where you are going.You will have moments when you see the situation very clear and no that you should be out of this relationship, but then fear will overcome you and you become totally stuck within this relationship.

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This is when we see emotional dependence at it’s greatest we are totally incapable to do , what we know we have to do, in these cases it is absolutely necessary that we react and act. When you know that your partner is not in love with you, people in love do not treat their partners in this way, when you have no or very little contact with your friends and family,when you go along with things that you really do not want to do,when you let go your happiness on a permanent basis and obviously if there is physical or psychological abuse.When you see these signs it is time to leave and not look back, you cannot leave this any longer, you can not allow manipulation anymore or justify these actions, the longer you leave it, the harder it is to get out.

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A relationship with dependence is feeling that you need the other, that you want to change them,you feel panic, incapable to leave the relationship, even when we know it is not working, never make plans until you know the plans of the other, thinking that if we were left, life will be unbearable.

A healthy relationship would be full of admiration for the other person, respect, total acceptance, fluid communication and confidence within ourselves. And most important you will feel calm, confident and HAPPY…..

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Your happiness is in your hands, not in the hands of another, you can free yourself and live the life you really want or you can suffer….. Is that really the life you want ? I would choose happiness, when you are happy, everyone around you is happy and you deserve the life you have always held a vision  for yourself.

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TIME TO GET BACK AT IT…………………………………………………………

It’s time to get back at it, we are all starting to move forward, step by step……….create what you want, it’s time ! Your time………….

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OH THAT COFFEE………………………………………

What ever you are doing this morning, never forget to smell the glorious coffee, it’s Sunday, late mornings and lots of coffee, that’s the aroma of Sunday mornings……

Have a great day

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GOOD MORNING !! ……………………………………………………………………

Many of you will have been back at work, this last week. and also many of you will still be waiting to incorporate once again, into what is going to become our new normality…..so enjoy your weekend as previously and enjoy each moment…..

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SMELL THE ROSES ………………………………………………………

Life is truly beautiful, take in everything it has to offer, its amazing how much that is

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HAVE YOU GOT THE MINDSET ?…………………………………………

Do you really have the right mindset, or do you only think you might have or you know you do not have the mindset at all !!!!! Don’t despair, we all go through this phase until we truly believe that what you think about, you bring about, this is way your mindset is so important, we read the books, we start to get into the swing of things, then, something happens and we spin out of control……it does not have to be your world falling apart it can at times be a small little hump in the road, but it is enough for that damaging thinking to flood back into our life, it can be as simple as someone getting a parking space before you,so why do we give this silly incident so much power?

It’s mainly because we never treat the source, if we hold at the back of our minds that little doubt, you tell yourself your positive, so positive,but you hold a tiny thought of the unexpected,just waiting for it to raise it’s head….y wow there it is remember WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT,COMES ABOUT….you have to take total control of your own power, you are so powerfull,and it’s all down to you, so how do we get tapped in to our great POWER,where it is natural and not forced thinking,you have to focus on your thoughts,the negativity grows from our damaging thoughts,you see are whole body including the mouth just follow’s the brain, wherever it may go !!! We can control our thoughts, no matter what you may think at the moment,you have to start replacing these damaging thoughts with good thoughts, the second they cross your brain,purposefully replace them, at first you have to work at it, but like everything else after a time, it becomes a habit, and you will do it naturally, the whole process is reversed,everything we do is a question of habit, that’s how the damaging thoughts got there in the first place, we let them take our power, OUR POWER, would you normally give something so personal and important up, to a totally negative thought that is going to give a negative effect in your life, you see you have to realise here that this is all about you, if you eat something that did not agree with you, would you eat it again? I hope your answer was NO, well you have to see this in the same way, we don’t go to places we don’t like, we don’t socialise with people we don’t get along with…and all these decisions we make ourselves through our brain, this is exactly the same, and the outcome of chatting with these thoughts is far greater,than eating or talking to someone we don’t want to, so if we keep that in mind, to change the habit can be easier than we think,you just have to get the right mindset, you would not do anything that you did not like or could actually harm you emotionally or other wise….would you ?

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AND…it is most important to mix with people who are positive, negative people will make it very hard for you to change your mindset, all they want to do is talk negative,that’s there life and there choice, NOT YOURS..and they probaly will not want to be around you if you don’t share there pure negativity, you know what they say,Birds of a feather do stick together….so start to make a list of all the things you want to change in your life,along with your damaging thoughts, and start your new train of thought,kick the old habit and get into the new one…remember WHAT YOU THINK,YOU BRING ABOUT…..Happy mindset,happy person,happy life.

Brooke, Universal Life Coach

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MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE…………………………………………..

We can always change the choice we make…………………………………..

Brooke Universal Life Coach

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