IT’S FOR REAL……………………………………..

This is your life and you need to be very conscious of that fact, many of us do not give the respect and time that we should to this, the one thing that is the same for us all is that time can pass by at an alarming speed, we blink and we are 10 years ahead, when you are young you maybe don’t notice this so much, but the moment you have children in your life, time gallops away, I don’t know where but it flies by !! So, how much effort do you think we should put into directing our life, wanting the best kind of life we can and know how to get your life under control.

You will have learnt over the years that we cannot control a storm, the thunder the rain the wind, but we can control how to direct and control our life, it is whether we are brave enough to forfil that task, and if it were the case, why don’t we………again we refer to our old friend fear, removing fear from our everyday life, really is important, most of the time with fear, if we don’t do what we propose we will never know, if we don’t open that door, we will never know what is on the other side, if we don’t take that direction, we will never know the experience and if we don’t eat something or another we will never know the taste, and this goes on and on with everything we fear, fear is generally something unknown to us, no more no less, so how can we be open to opportunities in life, if we let fear hold us back on most things, that is not being in control, quite the opposite, we are letting fear control us.

You are the director of this show, you and no one else, the director of your life…..always, if you don’t control your life, you can lose your way, you can hurt yourself and don’t know where to go, and, it is then. taken out of your hands and circumstances will then decide for you.Nothing happens by accident, there is always a reason for what happens whether it be good or bad, it is another lesson in the journey of life, instinct guides us through rough patches if we listen to our inner voice, never ignore this little voice, for it will no doubt be giving you guidance and good advice the worst thing we can do when confronting bad times is to not accept what is being served to us, no matter how unjust it may seem, when we accept things it places us in a position to be more calm and to be able to evaluate the circumstances and what is going on around us,to accept something does not mean you are in agreement, but when we accept circumstances into our life, we are able to adjust better to what this has brought with it. We should always accept what comes to us, live to the fullest and find and focus on positivity.

When you visualise your life, see it through your eyes and not that of someone else, you need to see that vision and it needs to be what you truly want in your life, what way we accomplish in our life is due to our vision and our thoughts, if we truly started to pay attention and belief to this, things can change in an amazing way. When we allow our mind to be calm and quiet we are able to hear intuition over fear.

Brooke Universal Life Coach

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LIVE NOW !……………………………………………

You just need to live it everyday, and enjoy every second, we only have one shot at it ! Your happiness is important to you and to those who love you ❤

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SUNNY SUNDAY………………………………………………………….

Whatever you choose to do today, have a great time it is a glorious day !!

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WHAT KIND OF DAY IS IT FOR YOU ?…………………………..

Things can turn round really quick !!!! Have a great day ❤

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YOU AND YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH……………………



Good question, can you answer it, of course the answer should be theirs, you and your growth is not about being the best at something it is about doing your best, no one can ask more of you and you will have the personal satisfaction as you know what is your best. We all seek to be the first, the best , perfection, but by striving for this, we can make ourselves very unhappy and others also, you will get to where you wish to go by doing your best, never doubt your capabilities, you may remember yesterday we spoke about fear, and here we are again doing our best and stepping forward, you will either step forward into your own personal growth or you will step backward into safety and your comfort zone, be brave step out and be your best self.










What a beautiful saying, stand still and flow,this will also bring out the best of yourself, when you flow into the situation you desire, when you make happiness and personal growth a priority in your life, things happen, the more you take care of yourself , the more you can take care of others, this is a known fact…….to grow yourself you really need to know yourself, knowing yourself is a big part of the secret to success.


As we go through our life, we hit good times and bad times, I really don’t think anyone can say they have not known the bad times, and you may also notice that most people you suffer bad moments in their life, in the end have happy lives and feel satisfaction in what they are doing and even success, as I mentioned the other day, never give up as we really do not know how close we are to where we wish to go. At times a change in the way we look at things, the things we look at change. If we pass through life full of negativity and leave it all around us, leaving little crumbs everywhere we go,can you really wonder why you’ve got the life that you have, growth is a wonderful experience, it is also an ideal opportunity to pass through a detoxifying process in which things will surface and need to come out and looked at before they are released.

To give up, is to fail yourself, never do this, keep going always, dedicate the time you need to yourself and your personal growth.

Brooke

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CHANGE/GROWTH HAND IN HAND…………………

Try changing a few things you do or add to them, if we don’t change, we don’t grow,if we don’t grow …………..we are not really living!! Get on board, change grow and live……….<3

Have a great week-end

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PERSONAL GROWTH & EVERYDAY LIFE……………………




At times it is difficult for us to realise that we experiment Personal Growth as we go through our everyday life, it can be obvious, when we sit and study or decide to take a course etc., but otherwise we sail through our days and life and maybe never give it a thought, however if we think hard enough and want to make a change of some sort within our life we can do it, over a period of time, when we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves, if we stopped and realised how much we complained about things and we stopped that, and started to appreciate how lucky we are everyday. There are times in our life when we feel lonely, but if we were to learn how to embrace that lonliness and reinvent ourselves in the process, we could learn so much…when we start to remove the people in our life that we do not need the people that only bring us negativity or drain you of your positive energy.







Consider your life with less TV and set internet controls upon your self, take that time to do other things, think of a skill you would like to learn and cultivate, go ahead and get into it, put the effort into the developing it, commit to the goal you set and never look back. Try to exercise each day and work up that sweat, it really boosts your mood, keep going forward and learn from every mistake you make.

When you leave these old habits and thoughts behind, you really can start to become a better you everyday, it is not a diffcult task, when we start to become more observant, notice everything that surrounds you, be attentive and eager to know what is there, the world is full of wonderful things, it is also a great thing to collect your thoughts and ideas, we try to store them in our head, but normally we tend to forget some if not all of them by the end of the day, however if we get into the routine of writing them down, we always have a record to fall back on, always keep a little note pad close by,reading is also a wonderful way to grow, if you can read 30 mins everyday you will form a habit that you will not regret, reading can give us so much, if we start to carry a book with us, we will soon fall into the habit of reading when the moment allows it. Writing is also a great advantage for us, when we write on a regular basis it will help us with discipline of thinking, our thoughts become more organised and we lose the crazy jumpy mind ! and finally at the end of the day, dedicate 10mins to yourself and run through your day, think about what you did well and what mistakes you made and how you could improve things in the future.

Finally we come to that big change and a subject we have written about many times, FEAR it is so responsable for so many things, do not let fear stand in your way, it really is not that bad, and always remember the wonderful future of new things that are coming into your life, and how you can grow and grow in the process, your personal growth is important through the whole of your life, everyday growth is beneficial to all of us.

Brooke

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HOW BIG DO YOU WANT TO GROW…………….

Your personal growth is full of possibilities, look up, never down and never behind, grow and grow to your heart’s content, the longer we seek to learn the longer we really feel alive……….live everyday as a gift and full of joy.


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RELATIONSHIPS & PERSONAL GROWTH…………………..

Relationships in business or in your personal life hold an A1 position, they are something that can affect our whole business or family life if not both when things are not going the way we hoped or thought that they should.

Do we have a fixed idea or scheme that we stick to, regarding our relationships, and if this is the case how are they working out for you ?

The more you reach your highest of potentials, the easier it is to attract a high level partnership that can continue to grow, however it is very important that we do not lose sight of who we really are, many people fall into this trap and try to become someone else, don’t confuse this with change, change is good, it helps with your growth, but becoming someone else and losing your true essence is not what that means, when we start to evolve and grow within a relationship whether it be personal or business, we need to keep our feet firmly on the ground and remember who we are, the struggle you may of had or the loneliness, it is important that the people you are dealing with are maybe where you were and need the understanding you had or would of loved to receive.

As we go through the process of growth again in any kind of relationship, we gain and we lose, we cry and when we do we grow yet again, we fail but we keep going and all of these things bring us growth, if we take in what is happening and listen to our inner self, at times jealousy can come out again in both types of relationships, but all that does is strangle your own soul, nothing is gained.When we are looking for a lasting relationship it needs to look and feel like the most amazing thing on earth and needs to be treated in the same way.

When we start a new relationship full consideration for the other person or peoples feelings should always be respected, accepting the faults is vital and to be able to discuss and not argue your different view points,always do your best to control your feelings when you are upset about something. Self control is important.

When you can see and feel that someone loves you in a personal relationship that does not give you the excuse to stop loving yourself, this project is between you and yourself, this relationship sets the tone for every other relationship you have. It is also necessary for each relationship to be build on feelings and not just business links, yes, business is business but it is human business we are not dealing with robots, and the human touch can always make the difference making or breaking a good relationship of work or personal , when leaders appear before us we should always look to see if they abide by the 3R code, Respect for others, Respect for self,and responsibility for all the actions they take, communication and trust are two main ingredients for a successful relationship. When we lead and work with others we need to be faithful, respect them and always make them feel wanted within the team and company, others should not be given open preference making others feel less, this is not a good balanced relationship.

A great relationship is about two principle things, Appreciation, when we show we are appreciating the similarities and secondly, Respect, respecting the differences.

Brooke Universal Life Coach

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THE BEAUTY WITHIN GROWTH…………………………..

When we take the important decision in our life to continue growing, when we take responsibility for our Personal Growth we will be amazed at the beauty we will find within, a beauty that grows and blooms for you and all to see ❤

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