TIME FOR A CHANGE…………………………

22a91b65e7c2ea37d80709a4322b5ae9(1)

Are you ready for your change ? Life really can be great, join now !

 

Brook 3

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

Advertisements
Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

THE IMPORTANCE OF …………………………..

good manners 3

Have you noticed that good manners seem to be falling by the way side, what is the reason for this, at one time it was something that was taught in the home and normally would never be forgotten, so what has gone wrong, do parents not have the time  anymore or do children just pass on the whole manners thing !

The concept that some parents have, is that it is down to the education they receive during school hours, this is not the responsibility of the school, sadly they just probably suffer more than most, as the child spends most of the time with them, does it really take so much to teach basic manners, we all need them, now and later in life, we do not know what our children wish to do in the future and what kind of etiquette and manners they will need.

good manners 2

How often do you see, younger or older people for that matter, opening a door or giving up a sit to an elderly or needed person, I am pleased to say that here in Spain, where I live, people still have the custom of wishing everyone a good day, and acknowledging when someone leaves a place, they may not know them, but you are always greeted coming in or going out and being passed in the street, generally this level of manners is high, I also feel that a please and thank you should always be used, why not, what I don’t understand or find hard to digest is how someone can ignore you when you have done a good gesture maybe driving or on the side-walk, some people can just look straight through you, and you have maybe stopped your vehicle for them to pass, but, if it isn’t there, it just isn’t there ! however I do think that common sense can sometimes shine through, we live with hope !!

To be sociable and to show consideration to others in general  will cost you nothing, to open a door or give up your seat, to help people along their way in any shape or form, so what has happened to our good old manners, are we all so busy with our lives nowadays that we have lost sight of this, I hope not, being polite, kind well-mannered, what ever you want to call it, can tell another person an awful lot about you, let your best side shine……………………

 

good manners 1

 

Have a great week, 

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | 2 Comments

AWESOME…………………………..

sunday awesom 1

Fooled you there !! Oh how I love my sundays and my coffee ❤

It just makes it  perfect ……………………………………

sunday awesome 2

Yet, another great day to enjoy ………………………………………………………….

 

Brook 3

Universal Life Coach

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

PUT YOUR BEST EVERYTHING FORWARD

Have you ever thought where you may be in a weeks time or maybe tomorrow, I know that in general we do not think that way, and that’s a good thing, I think, however on the other hand, I would like you to ask yourself a question, how many things do you not enjoy,create or join in because of …………………………………………………what

When you open your closet, how many things do you have hidden away in there, that are there just for that special occasion ?? when you go to your cupboards how many times do you look at your beautiful dinner service , that maybe you have never used, as you go around your home there will be many other things that you have, but never enjoy, because you are waiting for that special ……………………what

 

You are that special ………what ? Why would you not deserve to wear, use and enjoy your special things, you may never get the chance, that is a question none of us can answer, but apart from that obvious side, I think the bigger question is why do we believe that we are not worthy of such beauty elegance luxury whatever you wish to call it, the next dinner or breakfast that you prepare, take the time to place your special dishes and just look at that special presentation, even your breakfast tea or coffee in a beautiful porcelain cup will make all the difference, even the flavour changes, just think what a wonderful way to show yourself your self worth and to start your day, these are your standards and you are worth it !

use everything 2

This is not a form of showing of to the world what you have or may not have, this is merely pleasing yourself, you are taking care of yourself which you should do automatically, but many of us don’t. This is part of you putting your best self out there, first for you and later for whoever, you are the most important and don’t ever forget that.

use everything 3

When you take that special bath time and when you put on that special outfit or dress your dinning table in your special way, tell me, does that feel good ? don’t you feel special and relaxed and happy, do you not see what good you are doing for yourself, and the others around you will also benefit, so, if you love this feeling, why do you not try to do this each day,importantly using what we have, if not, when are you going to  use or enjoy your things, remember they are your things, which at one time you bought or chose for special reasons, if you never use them …………………….?

If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and your life, there are no limits there are no plateaus and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them and enjoy………………………………..<3

 

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach

 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | 4 Comments

SPECIAL DAY ………………………

saturday bonjour

Give yourself a gift today, give yourself a little, “Je ne sais quoi ” we all have it, you just need to let it flow……………………………………… Have a great day ❤

 

Brook 3

Universal Life Coach

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

GIVE THIS A THOUGHT………………………

Have you ever thought about your wishes and desires, do you have a Bucket List…..yes that’s the one which should be full of experiences or maybe achievements that you wish to have or accomplish during your lifetime.

bucket list 1.png

Have you given it any thought, have you maybe done your list in stages, maybe before your 30, then 40 and so on……..that could be a good way to break it down.  A Bucket List is usually what you desire before you die. 

bucket list 2

A Bucket List is not something to be thought of as morbid, think of it more as motivation a life long motivation, it is true we only live once, as we are anyway, and this depends on your personal beliefs. The name originated in the 17th century from the term kicking the bucket referring to death……………

bucket list 3

This is so true, it is solely your responsibility to live your life as the best we can, who else, if not you…….. and it is down to you to write and know your bucket list, no one else can do this for us, you can do it with your partner if you are both 100% of the same desire, a bucket list is to be taken seriously and hopefully as you go through life, be in a position to tick of your achievements as you reach them.

bucket list 4

To be able to accomplish anything in life you must never be afraid to step out of your comfort zone, 

bucket list 5

Now how about your Wish List, this is very different from your Bucket List, your Wish List is a list of desired things or occurrences of all the things you want, it usually consists of a list of useful changes. 

wish list 1

 

This should be a list of things you would like to happen or maybe even to be given, although these things maybe unlikely, although I would always say the bigger the wish the better, nothing is impossible.

wish list 2

You have it very clear what you want, when and how, that’s why it goes on your wish list, you can get it , if you believe it is possible for you, and why not, you are as special as anyone else. 

wish list 3

It’s great to have a plan in place, it helps you along your way and gives you guidance, focus at all times on what you want and visualise your wish coming to you and maybe the fact that you already have it………

 

Wishing-Weekend-

If you don’t have any of these lists, if I was you I would give it some thought this weekend, it is amazing how good and different you will feel when you make your list, and yes, money is on, nearly everyone’s list, so don’t ever feel bad about asking or wishing for money, there are many ways it can come to you…………………………Happy listing ❤

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

BE BRAVE………………………

change your thoughts 5

If your looking for a change, be brave, change something !!

 

Brook 3

 

Universal Life Coach 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

YOU AND YOUR WORDS !……………………..

power of words 1

Do you really honestly think before you make a statement or whisper a word ? I would imagine the answer to that as being a big NO from the majority, you see , most of us just blah blah on an automatic basis, unless we are preparing a speech or an interview of some kind, the rest of the time we are generally doing what is known as chit-chat, and it is in those moments when we do not think, it is when we are most likely to say something terrible that could truly hurt someone else, you see when we gossip the damage we do is really unforgivable and can cause a rather earth shattering consequence for another person, we can also cause the chinese whisper effect, which is where each person who repeats the story, adds a little more drama or dirt as they say……. what many do not realise is that gossip or just talk for talk for the sake of it, can destroy the person they are firing at, is this through jealousy, envy or just plain evil, they are attacking the honour of that other person .

power of words quotes New 30 best The Power Words images on Pinterest

The sad part of this, is the maybe reason behind it, some people cannot help themselves to gossip or just always be negative towards others, jealousy is a terrible thing which we can deal with under another blog, once the honour of a person has been destroyed to such an extent, it can at times be impossible to fix. Because once the anger of the person who has inflicted the pain has calmed down, the gossip and the rumours have not. We sometimes find this between couples, their relationship goes wrong and things are said, which should never even been a thought, the damage caused to a couple through a bad relationship can affect them for the rest of their life, and particularly if there are children, they should always be given the first consideration, many of them are far to young to express themselves and share the pain and hurt they may be feeling, a little thought for them should be top priority for a parent, no one should suffer from this kind of verbal abuse, but, a child should always be considered. Words hold tremendous power and can stay in the memory forever, they may at times be forgiven but not forgotten. 

 

power of words 3

When you gossip or attempt to spread rumours about someone, this will cause harm, which at times, is the prime objective of the exercise, which is a cruel thing to do, it is so important that we think before we speak, to have no control, no filters over what we say is not a good quality to have, it is always worth those few seconds it takes, to think again to find the correct way to express yourself, because when you just say the first thing that comes into your head you are attacking and taking away that other persons dignity, honor reputation and credibility which can be impossible to restore, if you give it enough thought you can visualise that you slip on the walkway, but you have managed to maintain your balance, when you have a slip of the tongue you cannot, the words are out and leaping around doing an extent of damage that you probably never intended to be, once you have calmed down again, you will see things in a different way, so try, try very hard to think before you say the first thing that pops into your head, think would I like to hear this coming at me, if the answer is no, stop yourself take a breath and then speak. 

power of words 4

I am aware that this is not an easy thing to do, but, with a little practise it is like anything else, it is far better to be remembered by the sensible things you have to say as opposed to cruel words to simply dishonor some one else.

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

CHALLENGE YOURSELF !

change your thoughts 4

Don’t you just love a challenge, you can do anything you want to now and always !

 

Brook 3

Universal Life Coach

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

THAT TIME OF YEAR ……………………………

Summer has gone and the winter is creeping in, and most of our clothes need to be packed away and the winter wollies need to come out, and it is also the perfect time to have that long dreaded sort out, we all know we need to do it, but we put it of and put it of……………..

wardrobe 3

It is possible at the moment and maybe not to far into the future, even after you have changed your seasonal wardrobe around, you will just open the wardrobe and think you have nothing to wear, and there is a reason for this, well, maybe more than one, you will be looking at clothes that for some reason or another you really like and in some ways things you really love, but, the problem may possible lay in the fact that they do not fit you, or maybe not as you would wish, there are there because you have a promise with yourself to get back into them, by losing those couple of extra pounds that separate you from the wonderful item you long to wear, I would never suggest you get rid of that item, no, you need to keep it (providing you have a possible chance) to wear it again, that is down to your judgement and only your judgement. You need to remove all the items that do not fit you, put them aside, box them away or place them in another wardrobe, you should now be looking at a beautiful wardrobe full of clothes that really fit you. 

wardrobe 1

When you take on the challenge of organising your seasonal wardrobe, because it is a challenge, try to keep certain things in mind, when you are accessing a garment for this season you need to think, do you love it ? Is it useful for you and your way of life? Is it beautiful (in your eyes) ?Would it be difficult to replace, if you had a change of thought ? Did you wear it last year? Have you worn it in the last 5 years? Does it now fit my image of now ? 

These questions, if you answer them honestly will help you choose what is what for you this winter, some times we don’t have the heart to part with things for whatever reason, but if you do there are many great places you can leave your unwanted items and they can be of a great help to others, I place all mine in a container which is collected by the local authorities to help others, but you may wish to choose the Red Cross your local church or community center, there are many to choose from.  

When rearranging your wardrobe I would suggest that you place all skirts on the same rail, trousers and blousers etc., jumpers I usually stack in colours, this way you will find it easier to put outfits together without having to rummage through stacks of clothes and general disorder. If you take up a couple of these little hints to help you through this process I am sure you will find yourself looking at a new bright wardrobe, even to the point of feeling you have a new collection of clothes, and you will never have the problem of not knowing what to wear again. 

wardrobe 2

This is a good question, if your answer is yes……………………..Do it !

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

 

Posted in Chase your dream, energy dreams success attraction, Informative, inspiration self development personal growth, Motivational, positivity, self help | Tagged , , | Leave a comment