THINK OF YOURSELF !………………………….

You have to think of yourself to be in a good position to think of others !

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LOVE YOUR SURROUNDINGS………………………………………………………..

I have recently received mails regarding personal situations and how difficult people find it, to implicate the advice and knowledge we share here, so my aim today is to change your view on certain areas of your life, that will in turn help you to achieve your goals.

Your mails to me indicate problems where you live,your job, your general surroundings and of course your love life, so lets break this down a little and bring some sunshine in…………. Where you live… if you are not happy with your home, at this moment, you need to look at it in a different way, you have at this moment a home, whether it is four walls or four rooms its your domain, where  you seek your  peace, it is your castle, so always be grateful for what you have and do not dwell on what you don’t have, you must try to make it as comfortable and as pleasant as you can on the budget you have, there are many ways to do this, even if you have a very small income, try to incorporate a little colour this will always lift your spirits, candles will give a cosy feeling and create a peaceful ambience, what ever your situation, make the most of it, bring out the best, and this in turn will bring out the best in you, when you feel content and comfortable it is then easier for you to work towards your goals, this is very important, because without this you will block yourself from moving forward, and you will become stuck in your own web, if you can accept where you are right now you will start to be on your path to freedom, to live your life on your terms, it is a step by step progress and you must have this very clear, one step one day at a time, be grateful for what you have, many do not have a home of any description when you accept this, your desires will have a greater effect, your mind is less cluttered and your thoughts are more clear, the way to obtain your desires will be shown to you, and you will be able to see and recognise them as they appear for you to take action.active-saturday-4

Your Job…………………If you have a job, first of all well done, that’s a great thing these days, however back to the subject at hand, if this is not your dream job, don’t worry, be grateful you have a job first of all and secondly you have a salary which in turn gives you a certain amount of security, even if you only cover the bills or some of them,always remember that someone somewhere is far worse of than you. Nobody enjoys going to work to a place where you do not want to go or obtain no pleasure or satisfaction, So you need to find a point of focus to get you through this period, maybe you are fortunate to work with good reliable people who you enjoy, as I mentioned before you are paid, maybe you meet nice people through your work, on your way to work…….you need to focus on the positive point, which ever one it may be, there will be one…………………….you need to keep this in your mind all through your day, this will change your attitude and wellbeing giving you the energy you need to get through your day and keep your spirit on the right level, don’t block yourself out of your own life, you need to be part of it, it’s yours……….the same principal applies as above, don’t concentrate on what you don’t want, you need to see this as a passing time in your life, you may meet someone in your present work place that will open the path you truly wish to follow, you may over hear an interesting piece of information, we never know how these opportunities appear,but if you are blocked, if you have closed yourself up, you will never notice that opportunity. If you don’t have full time work, make the most of this opportunity to maybe study for what you do want, you have time available to seek out information, take advantage of your time if you are not working to investigate all the avenues open to you, if you take the action your desires start to appear…………………………..

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Your surroundings……………………..If you don’t like your surroundings, the obvious answer would be to move,but not everyone can do that,so again you must make the most of all surroundings, many people in these present circumstances are living with family or friends that would not normally be the case, living a life you don’t want is not easy for anyone, but again everything has a good and bad side, if you are presently living with your family and finding it hard, try to draw out the positive and be grateful for the help you are being offered, someone out there will have no help or support system at all, think that this is time you are being offered to enjoy your family, make the most of it, our families don’t last forever…..sadly, and we just don’t realise what we have until we don’t !!!! and this can change in one day, so if you are living through a difficult situation at the moment, first, remember that this is not forever, second, think how lucky you are to have a support   system that wants to help you, get through this time. Draw strength from this and truly feel the gratitude for the unconditional love you are being offered. It is important that with all these circumstances your state of mind and wellbeing is a very important part on how you go through your life and the opportunities that present themselves. Take every situation and make the most of it, be grateful be happy.

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Your love life…………………………. This is probably the most asked question, nobody can choose your life partner for you, this is your responsibility and yours alone, however it is also down to you to know that you are worthy of happiness,security,honesty and everything else that one wants in a complete relationship, what many do not see is that many relationships go wrong because of this, if a relationship is one sided at some point it will crack, dissolve you can use whatever word you like, and not by the person who is the weakest link, a relationship has to hold balance, it is as important to both parties involved. Why do people stay in relationships that they really don’t want, could it be not to be alone, it’s convenient, better acceptance to the public in general….the list goes on and on, however, the feeling of “not complete” does not, so why stay, if we believe that everyone has someone somewhere, surely we will find them ? (Maybe not quite that easy) But surely it is better to be alone than with someone that we know deep down is not what we want, remember all the circumstances above, don’t think about what we don’t want, a lot of people are afraid of being alone, why, you have to ask yourself why, being alone gives you a wonderful opportunity to clear your mind, to know yourself and most importantly to know what you want.And, if you are in a well balanced relationship you should be grateful for your partner and yourself for knowing what you want and to with hold the balance. If you are in or out of a relationship remember that first you must know how and to love yourself, And to be grateful for whatever situation you are in,because for some reason we are in the situation, and need to be, to enable us to change and  become free, to become our true self  and move forward, Be part of your life, you have the leading role, you are the star………………………………………………

 

 

Brooke,

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GREAT START TO YOUR DAY………………………………

Yet another week, and a new start and opportunity…… start the way you wish your day to be……..it’s in your hands, or mind ………..go and grab that productive day ❤

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SLOW SUNDAY …………………………….

What a great way to repair, relax and enjoy, the day is yours ❤

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SUPER SATURDAY ! …………………………

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It’s Saturday again, so make sure you have a fabulous time, take care and be good, & love always ❤

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DO YOU COMPLICATE YOUR LIFE !

If you do, it is probably down to the value you give to difficulties and overcoming them, you feel you have to pass bad times to obtain the result you want, it’s time to learn how to value in simple terms. If you continually fall into the same trap time and time again, it’s because in your interior you have resigned to always fighting the cause, that this is the only way to obtain what we want in life, you are giving an enormous value to difficulties and over coming them.you feel that you are a better person, that you deserve better, that you deserve more attention and love, if you obtain what you want by suffering .                                People who complicate their life, have a constant fight with there interior to find the solution to there difficulties, and they do this without realising that they create it. It’s like being two people at the same time, obviously this does not work,the result is never positive, why don’t these two people not reach an agreement to make their life more easy ? 

You  need to  approach this in a more positive manner   and let the solution be more in harmony with yourself, you can then feel a better person, deserve more attention and love simply because you have obtained an easier solution to obtaining what you want, to reach your goal,you have been and become more positive, because the approach was positive at the start, not automatically started with hardship,stress,anxiety,if you change difficult for easy you and the people around you will benfit, because you love what you are doing and you love yourself. When you love yourself everything becomes easier because you feel comfortable in your own skin, you express yourself in a positive manner and look at life from a positive view point. Every problem has a solution, and you can approach  this in a difficult way or an easier way, this is now in your hands, remember we always have a choice……………………………………………….

Brooke

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Today is the day……………………..miracles happen !!

Brooke

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LIFE ON THE PANIC PEDAL !……………………………

So, how is your day today, how are YOU treating yourself, you see, how you treat yourself is usually the outcome of how you feel and show yourself to the rest of the world. (Although you may not wish to admit to this )

When we suffer from panic or total despair, we are automatically working against ourselves, if you can imagine a little hamster on his wheel, going round and round but can’t get of that wheel, for whatever reason, that is how we react to panic and despair, and the one of the biggest problems to this is, we lose all clarity, we can see nothing but fog and obstacles. And we eventually just manage to go quicker on the wheel or dig a bigger hole for ourselves.

There can be many reasons for these attacks or outbursts in our life, let’s look at a few examples, if we meet someone on a personal level, and go into instant panic mode, we press down on the panic pedal and just don’t know when to slow down, to cruise or generally how to handle things, we are acting from a place of desperation, and this will probably show, so we are portraying ourselves as someone we are not, you are not desperate, you are a person, a beautiful person looking for a relationship with another, don’t make this mistake as in many cases you will frighten that person away, not with normal fear, they are not afraid of you in that sense, but some people will feel very pressured by this behaviour, being clingy does not appeal to everyone, the sad side to this is, that both parties may miss out on a perfect relationship in many ways if you had portrayed yourself as you really are, a similar principle can be found in business, when we start a business venture or business suddenly becomes slow and your economic situation cannot withstand the circumstances, and we go into panic mode it is noticed, your clients and people in general have a sixth sense with these things, and this can have a negative affect on your business, It is difficult when you are in these situations, but the sooner we can get back on the straight and narrow the better, there are many therapies you can try, this is a question of taking a hold of yourself, look yourself in the mirror and have a good talk to yourself (have you ever tried this) it works a treat, when you speak to yourself from the heart, with all your good and bad points, you know them all, so who better than to talk it out with, take deep breaths, fill yourself with fresh air and fresh courage, it is not easy to take this situation on, but, you are stronger than you think, just remember that the moment that panic pedal goes down, you lose control of your car, your clarity goes through the window and unfortunately on many an occasion a crash is on the horizon….. we all fall from time to time and there is nothing wrong with that,learn from it, take it for what it is, you are being shown the right path, try to stay clear of that panic pedal and try a little more cruising, you will find that you will have far more success this way, in whatever you are doing or navigating at the moment, remember in the rules of the universe like attracts like, so panic will only attract more panic , and cruising will bring you more cruising straight into the road of success !

Have courage, keep going in a calm state, take a deep breath and move forward, small steps at a time, you will get there, and by pushing that panic pedal you may not.

Brooke

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HOLIDAY !!………………………………………………………………..

Wishing all my American followers a wonderful day today, enjoy your holiday !!

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SEEK WITHIN ……………………………………………

This quote is really worth reading more than once, and to think about it in depth, do you have barriers, do most of us have barriers in some form or another, for different reasons and how we interpret situations within our own lives. We need to remove these barriers , to break them down, understand them and discard them from your mind and life, if you don’t do this, it is additional baggage you are going to take with you through life, and it will get heavier and heavier as you go, it is also unfair to you and the people you share your life with, as they in a way pay a price for these barriers, it is as if you form a barrier for them between you and them, that original barrier will always hold part of you back, it is a part you will be unable to give to others, and a part not only they are missing out on, you also miss it, this means that in the end although you may feel good and happy, you are not living to your full capacity, you will fail to be 100% content or free, and this can be felt and seen, clear your barriers and start to really have the emotional life you deserve, love is a wonderful thing and can be enjoyed, no matter what you may think, everyone is different and everyone deserves a chance, and that includes you ❤

Brooke

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