Your personal growth is full of possibilities, look up, never down and never behind, grow and grow to your heart’s content, the longer we seek to learn the longer we really feel alive……….live everyday as a gift and full of joy.
Relationships in business or in your personal life hold an A1 position, they are something that can affect our whole business or family life if not both when things are not going the way we hoped or thought that they should.
Do we have a fixed idea or scheme that we stick to, regarding our relationships, and if this is the case how are they working out for you ?
The more you reach your highest of potentials, the easier it is to attract a high level partnership that can continue to grow, however it is very important that we do not lose sight of who we really are, many people fall into this trap and try to become someone else, don’t confuse this with change, change is good, it helps with your growth, but becoming someone else and losing your true essence is not what that means, when we start to evolve and grow within a relationship whether it be personal or business, we need to keep our feet firmly on the ground and remember who we are, the struggle you may of had or the loneliness, it is important that the people you are dealing with are maybe where you were and need the understanding you had or would of loved to receive.
As we go through the process of growth again in any kind of relationship, we gain and we lose, we cry and when we do we grow yet again, we fail but we keep going and all of these things bring us growth, if we take in what is happening and listen to our inner self, at times jealousy can come out again in both types of relationships, but all that does is strangle your own soul, nothing is gained.When we are looking for a lasting relationship it needs to look and feel like the most amazing thing on earth and needs to be treated in the same way.
When we start a new relationship full consideration for the other person or peoples feelings should always be respected, accepting the faults is vital and to be able to discuss and not argue your different view points,always do your best to control your feelings when you are upset about something. Self control is important.
When you can see and feel that someone loves you in a personal relationship that does not give you the excuse to stop loving yourself, this project is between you and yourself, this relationship sets the tone for every other relationship you have. It is also necessary for each relationship to be build on feelings and not just business links, yes, business is business but it is human business we are not dealing with robots, and the human touch can always make the difference making or breaking a good relationship of work or personal , when leaders appear before us we should always look to see if they abide by the 3R code, Respect for others, Respect for self,and responsibility for all the actions they take, communication and trust are two main ingredients for a successful relationship. When we lead and work with others we need to be faithful, respect them and always make them feel wanted within the team and company, others should not be given open preference making others feel less, this is not a good balanced relationship.
A great relationship is about two principle things, Appreciation, when we show we are appreciating the similarities and secondly, Respect, respecting the differences.
When we take the important decision in our life to continue growing, when we take responsibility for our Personal Growth we will be amazed at the beauty we will find within, a beauty that grows and blooms for you and all to see ❤
Does the thought of eternal growth frighten you a little, the thought of always learning something new, for some this is a frightening thought, they feel that after a certain point it is very difficult for someone to learn things that are new! The fact is that this is not true, it is true that it may and I say may, as in many cases learning is the same as always, but in a few cases it may take you a little longer to absorb the information being passed to you.
“Can an old dog, learn new tricks ” as they say, they certainly can time and time again, if the why and the want is present, if you look back over your life, how many things have you left undone or not even started, was it a language, a certain course, even learning to swim……… we all have something that just got left behind, but, with an open mind you will clearly see we can do it, now in the present………
You have to enjoy the process of learning, if not, don’t even start, it is a waste of your time and that of others…………..you will already know, that when your heart is not in what you are going to do, the pleasure has gone and it becomes a terrible commitment, when something becomes a commitment it is a up hill climb, boredom sets in and you will never find satisfaction in what you do, however when you enter into this learning journey full of passion and excitement, the time flies by and you receive nothing but pure enjoyment from your efforts, you will still find it an effort and at times difficult but it will be welcomed with a smile and inner satisfaction as opposed to a large sigh and feeling of carrying kilos on your back !
Never be afraid to take on a new challenge in life, you can do whatever you put your mind to, whether this be a new hobby or business, you are never to old, if it is something you truly want and have that full gut feeling inside, it may take you a little longer to digest all the information and details but that does not mean you will always be the last, and if you were but you are happy and have achieved personal satisfaction you have gained everything and lost nothing. Enjoy everyday ,learn all you can, but never feel afraid of learning something new, this is how we achieve eternal growth
Personal growth is like any other kind of growth, whether it be personal or business to hold good strong roots it needs time, patience and sacrifice, to truly see and feel the growth.You may see an improvement in a small amount of time but it is necessary to be consistent each day to reach your determined goal.
When you think of personal growth in your personal development, what goes through your mind ? Do you make a decision to study a little harder to open up more to your awareness, or do you feel your growth within, do you feel your personal GPS telling you, you are on the up, you are growing and your intuition is indicating all of that to you. When you go through this phase you will be defining your why, which we have mentioned on many occasions, your why is your driving force, your reason to keep going and very important to know, this in turn will help you to have clarity, you will know what and where you wish to go, we often go through times in our life, when we really cannot see anything as we have let stress and anxiety get to high and it totally clouds are vision, this is also a human thing to do, so don’t give it to much concern, it will go the same way as it came as you move along your path to personal growth, as you take these steps your plan of action will also make it’s self known.
The key contents of your Personal growth plan, all revolve around your purpose in life,when you have that clear, it is a wonderful feeling, you start to really evolve within your growth, your dreams are more achievable and you have a greater belief of yourself and yourself worth, how you value yourself is very important all of these things will guide you to your goals in life.
Now, it is very important to remember that when you plant your seed within your life, just like you would a plant/tree in your favourite pot,you can be the one to place barriers against that growth, the same as not watering your seeds in a pot, always maintain a positive vision of your plans and growth, keep it to a minimum in pursuing goals, several at a time is not advisable, you need to give it time, good time management for your growth is important, beprepared if you are unsure about something, stop and find the information you need and are looking for, its out there and easy to find and last but not least never have an inferiority complex, you are up there, just like the rest of them,you can do this and much more.
My life………….we all have one , but do you realise it is yours…we call and refer to it as my life, but do we truly treat it that way, or just make belief within ourselves that this is what it is ? If we are female, it is our life,but, that also of our children our husbands our family our work and sadly the list goes on and on, and for many men it is the same ……….but I have to say here not all, we all have the friend or family member who is married but actually has required another child !
So where do you draw the line, where does the spinning plates settle for a while and your life begin, the one you can truly call “my life” this is just not about what we call “my time” although that is a great start, if you are making time for yourself, you are going down the right track, this is about doing things just for your purpose and not others this is about your independence in every way, are you financially independent or do you have to stay in your situation because life would be to difficult if you didnt, are you unwilling to give up certain things in your life to have the independence you would like and enjoy. It is a known fact that many of us sacrifice are career, to be Mothers, to be there for our children particularly at a young age, we all have different view -points on that, and all are totally repectable. However the world is changing and so is employment, so many people now work from home, its great, you more or less get to choose your own hours, so it can fit around your other obligations,so many are achieving satisfaction by A) working B ) earning and C) gaining financial independence and being able to make your own decisions or help towards the families economical situation,it is a well known fact that the majority of homes are in some form of debt, trapped into a situation we did not even see coming, so what do we do, do we let the stress and anxiety levels rise, because by doing this it will then extend to everyone and everyone suffers, not only you, and your closet relationships will be the first to suffer, so it is important that you become your own asset and not the asset of someone else, for example the bank for the rest of your life, this moment in time is wonderful for allowing us to become independent without having to go out of our homes to do it, we are also allowed to enjoy multi-streamed incomes which is something unheard of, in previous years, the modern technologic age gives us so many things that we can adapt to, with a little interest, your knowledge in this field can be virtually nil, but if you are willing to step out of your comfort zone, you can act and then accordingly create change and achieve the independent life you would like. And “Your life” really can be yours again.