What would you have in your wish jar? How much of it, would you spread around, imagine the lovely thought of spreading love and joy for all to recieve
This is what, Christmas is all about……
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Relationships – A connection, association or involvement. Relationships – The way in which people relate to one and another. Long Term Relationships – Intimate interpersonal relationship, people together for a long period of time. When a relationship is serious, it’s common to define it as a long term in order to qualify it’s significance. Forms of committed relationships are close friends, courtships etc.,
Long term relationships – Are based on many things, we have many different kinds of relationships during our life, parents, brothers, sisters, family in general, work, hobby etc., but, probaly the most important to us is our most personal relationship with our life partner, for this to be successful various factors have to be right, Trust is high on the list, if you do not feel 100% trust, then maybe this is not the right relationship for you, trust incorporates honesty to be who you really are, and not the person the other would like to see, honesty to express what we truly feel and say, you should be able to express yourself freely and not with fear or anxiety, many people can do this in their place of work, but in their home space, never express themselves how they would like to be heard, this is a bad situation, because this will accumilate and finally explode in one place or another, and affect the relationship. Compatability is of the same importance, this comes within a block of four physical/Intellectual/Emotional and shared activities, What type of person are you within this relationship ? does the communication between you, make you feel good and happy or doe’s it place you in the depth’s of despair, How do you handle conflict within the relationships, do you block and hope it just disappears under the carpet, do you talk it out and reach your conclusions, maybe not agreeing, but freely expose how you feel about the matter, and are still good together, because the respect for your opinion is considered at all times, the same applies here with external adversity, you can both take care of each other, but with different opinions on various subjects, and of course we must not forget compatible financial values or do you have to hide when you spend without the consent of the other, do you have seperate accounts as well as one in common, to avoid such conflicts, where you share all out going expenses and have the freedom with anything beyond that. When we consider a relationship, many times we do not think of the above items, but they need to be looked at, beyond the inicial love and passion a relationship can bring, at the beginning of a relationship everything is looked at as fine and wonderful, when real life takes over and obligations kick in, the better your base for this, the better the relationship can be and stay. Hoping for great relationships in 2021
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CHRISTMAS OH CHRISTMAS!!………………..
Well here we are, Christmas again, how does it come round so fast, is it really nearly 365 days ago that we were at this point, however there is a strange thing about Christmas we do it year after year, yet we never quite seem prepared…….. how does that happen, so this year lets really make a plan and stick to it and slide into Christmas, happy stress free and ready to enjoy……even if the whole family is coming to you, it can be done even if we work everyday
This is definitely a list project, so pen in hand and away we go, this is my way ….. I have a list with my Christmas Menu and everything I need to buy for that, some things I buy way in advance and other products nearer the date, include everything here including serviette and candles etc., I then make another list of what I wish my table to have this year, its theme and what I need to prepare or clean beforehand, and of course I have my Santa list, with all the presents I would like to give…. now the secret here is not to tackle everything at the same time

As you purchase, food decorations or gifts etc., I cross them off as I go, obviously the sooner you start this the better, I have to admit I am probably around 90 % done, this also includes a list of what I wish to do with my home, everything goes on my list……I find it great for me, as I do not forget anything and it enables me to work at my own pace, it will work for you as long as you don¡t write your list 2 days before christmas… the sooner you start the sooner you finish and your nervous system will be very grateful, when we put ourselves up against the wall it is the worst feeling in the world and generally under great stress things do not go as we wish, another little secret I have is when present buying is the person in question, we need to buy from their point of view and maybe even what they have suggested, they do this for a reason, it is something they need or if they are children, they have their heart set on it, so if we buy what we think !! they are not going to be very happy …… and disappointed thinking Santa has not heard their wish, although I also feel that most people are very grateful for any gift that we give if it is given from the heart, especially little gifts we make ourselves. So there you have it, try when possible to prepare in advance as much as you can, enjoy this time of year including the preparation, keep calm, relaxed and have fun.

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IT’S CHRISTMAS TIME !
Always remember the people around you at Christmas time, there are many people with needs that you may not be aware of, so keep your eyes and heart wide open, just one kind word can make a big difference to someone’s day,….
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Sunday is the perfect day to go with the flow, just drift and follow your energies where ever they take you…………….relax and drift………
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Bring a perfect world and beautiful life into your living, let it start the moment you open your eyes………………
Have a super Saturday……….smile be happy and love
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You know, you maybe have a beautiful smile………….so show the world today, be happy and let others be happy also
Have a great day
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THE SHINY OBJECT SYNDROME………………………………

Do you suffer from this syndrome, are you attracted to shiny objects, for those of you that are not familiar with this term, it basically is referring to you losing focus on what you are doing, and are easily distracted by people and ideas that are planned to stir you away from what you are doing, they are always nice objects with a lucrative reward, do you have problems finding your clarity and maybe courage to say NO…. it is the number one Entrepreneur weakness, so remember stay focused and stop getting distracted, there is nothing wrong with seeking multitream incomes, I am in great favor of that, but we cannot have a finger in every pie and be successful, it is I would say not advisable and very difficult, you see this really gives are monkey mind a fabulous reason to perform, as it adores shiny objects !!!
It is so easy when we first start out to be distracted by almost everything around us and of course those shiny objects, those wonderful business deals which offer us everything and more, do we fall for them or not ! at the beginning you very well might, and more so if it is introduced through a friend or person known to you, you are constantly thinking there is something else you should be doing…. while what we really should be doing is tuning into ourselves and focus hard on what you do well or enjoy to do. There is nothing worse than those shiny objects that allow you to be distracted from the core of your business.
You need to be aware of what is going on around you and in which direction you wish to go, some days it is difficult to find are motivation…………but don’t panic when this happens and it does, our motivation finds us……out of no where it will bounce back……………when you look at marketers, don’t look for quick financial gain, the expert marketers know that farming and there business has a lot in common, you need to plant,tend,plough,fertilise,weed and repeat, let someone else run around after shiny objects, you stick to your course and keep going, this is why you find such an extreme turn over in Network Marketing….. most people just can’t keep the pace, it’s not a case of losing your motivation, you just totally stopped focusing on what you are fighting for……YOUR WHY

When you are pondering through all these shiny objects, never lose sight of your relationship with yourself, it is the most important one you will have in your life, when you know you have achieved a remarkable relationship with yourself, when you have that, then any relationship is a plus and not a must.
When you finally let go of wanting that shiny alluring thing, you can then focus your attention on the things that will help and serve you the best, do one thing at a time, others may tell you they can do numerous things at the same time, swirling plates as a busy female is one thing but business is different and to which degree you wish to go, you need to be fully present, complete each task before you move on, maybe choose a few social platforms but not them all……
And finally, nothing that is worthwhile is easy………………remember that
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LOVE LOVE LOVE
Good morning to you all, can you now look into the mirror and see the beautiful reflection looking back at you and know, just how much you love yourself, ………….do this every day!
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HOLIDAY ALIGNMENT………
HO HO HO ….It is that time of year again, how time passes really quick, some of you may be a little bit closer to your goals, some of you not, and some of you will have obtained everything you really wanted.If that is the case, congratulations keep doing what your doing, the reason you have obtained this is due to you taking action, at the opening of your opportunity, and your alignment……….. that great word that everyone talks about, but not what everyone gets, it is important and you do need to fully understand, we all want to get on have abundance and prosperity in our life’s, but, we have to understand that this is not only wealth, it can be your relationships your connection’s to other’s, your life connection in general.

Holiday’s are alway’s a time when we feel the true meaning of connection, people feel lonely more than any other time of the year and we long to be in a loving caring relationship, we feel sad because maybe we want to give and share and deal with all the normal household bills etc., as well, so when we send our message out to the universe you are probaly doing it from a place of lack, and your wish becomes a plea, this is a sure sign of coming from lack, can you understand this ? So when you are ready to send out your wish or wishes, wait until you are in the perfect situation, this can be when you are happy, you feel inner joy, maybe you are watching a film, that might set the mood, you can remember a funny situation with friends which brings a smile to your face, any experience that makes you feel good, is an ideal time to throw that wish out to the universe, it is not only what you say or think it is the energy you are feeling as well, by now you probaly feel a close connection with the universe, so talk to the universe as you would a friend, “don’t you think it would be great to, (have, be,love ) your desire” “I would love to (have, be ) your desire” There is no lack of anything in this conversation it is a normal one to one conversation, you would feel relaxed and at ease, giving out a good energy (vibration). This is your chance to finish the year on your terms, you will lose absolutely nothing by giving it a try, you know and believe you can do it, so what are you waiting for……….Here’s to a happy life in every sense of the word.
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Exciting time to hang those socks, let’s hope they are filled to the brim !
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WORDS
Are you aware of words and the power they hold, one word can change another person’s or your own whole day…. words can be so extremly strong that they can create or they can also destroy, so the importance of us choosing the words we use are priority, I have mentioned many times, once they are out there we cannot retrive them…… your words can help or harm how another person see’s you or themselves… we all encounter different types of situations and people and at times those situations can lend perfectly to words we have to say and at other times our silence will equally explain what we feel, silence can explain many things, and not one word is spoken.
At times we need to suit the action to the word or the word to the action, one word can mean so many things…. however we are surrounded by people who will not hear you regardless of how much, how loud, how truthful, how loving or how profound you speak, wish them well and let them go……….
Now, how good and explicit are the above words, think before you speak…….your words are yours……
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