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YOU ME & US………………………………….
Happiness and couples, what is the secret to happiness ina love story and any kind of success, I would say patience tolerance and the art to listen, yes listening is an art that few have mastered, when we truly listen, it is when we really see the person in front of us and the problem they may be sharing or the opinion they would like to state, or simply the beautiful words and sentences they have to tell you.
Here are a further few secrets we can share:-
1. When you both go to bed at the same time, it will be like in the beginning of your relationship, a habit which has no reason to be left behind (except for maybe work commitments ) you will remember that at the start of your relationship going to bed was once the highlight of your day and a time you both waited for, a time for cuddles is also important.
2. Try to share similar interests, if you do not have one from the start or now, try to cultivate one that you can enjoy together, don’t become a sports widow!! it is also important to have your own interests and hobbies, as this will make you more interesting when you come together later in the day. And you maintain your independence.
3. Walking hand in hand, or side by side always gives a happy feeling, you are also making a statement to the world, you are together happily together and not forced or feeling under obligation.
4. It is always best to have unspoken rules for each other, trust and forgiveness is far better than distrusting and begrudging.
5. It is so easy to find fault in what others do wrong, but the more we focus on what our partner does right can only lead us to more happiness to share with them
6. When you are apart, during working hours or other obligations it is important to hug each other on your return, touch is a wonderful thing and can bring sad and happy moments, our skin just like our brain has a memory of its own, a good feeling touch can bring good loving memories, a bad touch can remind us of abused moments in our life and no touch can only make us feel neglected.
7. To tell someone they are loved and to have a good day, can only bring joy and happiness and a wonderful start to your day, it lifts us up and we should try to live by this rule, a simple way to show love and affection, that can mean so much.
8. Everyday is different for all of us, some are good, some are bad and some are just so, so, however if we end our day with a goodnight to our partner we are acknowledging that no matter what has gone on during your day, or even between each other, what you have is bigger and stronger than anything else, another simple way, another simple word “Goodnight” could be the perfect end to your not so or perfect day.
9. During your day, check in with your partner, don’t become a pain or so predictable you could set your watch by you, just a quick Hi, how are you, everything ok, this could arrive at the best time during a complicated day.
10. Walk and stand tall when out with your partner, always feel proud to be at their side happy couples hold this special air between them, hold hands give hugs, you are not showing off, you just belong together and this is how you feel
If you would like to become the above couple in years to come, and feel the happiness they have together, take note of some of these tips, if you need to form new habits, don’t worry it is never to late, if you and your partner have love between you, to change a habit you only have to repeat what you want until it becomes an automatic thing in your life and relationship. And if you are still waiting for your soul mate to appear, have no fear they could be just around the corner
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THAT MOMENT
Are you ready for your moment, when the magic comes out to play, some of these moments are so magical, you will never forget them………………….
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Do you burst our own bubble, are you the problem behind your progress, are you your own little block, many of us are, and we just don’t see it, we presume that because we have defined our goal and are plan of action and that we really know what we want, which is most important, away we can sail like a boat with the necessary wind behind it, to make record time, sorry the answer is no, and it is probaly down to you, at the end of a long day, do you start to recap, going through everything you have done, giving it a once over and the why’s, if so you may also start to over think certain things and start to worry about things, that infact have no importance. But every time you do this, you actually put up a little road block on your highway to…
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A nice short week ahead, so keep those eyes wide open and seek the magic that is out there for you…………..it’s everywhere, just for you !
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MAGIC & NOW
So, what is it inside that makes us think? it’s TODAY….. and why not, do you have those days when you know, it’s time for things to change, you know you want it, and you even feel that others are getting what you want……….. well, STOP right there, because there is nothing in between you and your dream life, accept for YOU……
You have probably heard this a thousand times, but it is true, the life you have, is the life you have “chosen” you may not think that,but if you have a quiet one to one with yourself and take back all the covers you have covered yourself with and you may start to agree with me, what you believe is basically what you get, you have to find a new courage, you have to find that courage you have for others, what would you not do for your children, your parents, you see you have what it takes, but you don’t always apply it for yourself, why would you not give to yourself everything, there is nobody more deserving, but for some reason we hold back, now this can be consciously or unconsciously …..but whatever we need to let it go, and we need to go for the life we really want……… It is a perfect time, this is a month of rebirth, new beginnings and that includes us……..
You have to come to terms with the experiences you have in life,they are the thoughts and feelings you have given out, whether you know this or not, life does not just happen it is infact kinda following your thoughts and feelings, everything in your destiny is in your hands, now that is a big responsability but it is true, and this enables you to really create the life you wish, if you have the courage to do so and to believe you hold that power over your life, this is where many of us fall down, we are weak regarding the believe behind this…….and have difficulty understanding the magic we can create within our life.
If you feel that it is to late for you to make that change, you could not be more wrong, everyday is a new opportunity for us, regadless as to what as gone on previously for us, we can start again and have our new beginning, why not choose the life you really would love to have, now many of you will question this, but if I told you that maybe until now you have been judging and giving everything a name regarding the bad things in your life? You lose the notion of time and how wonderful your life could really be, sadly we tend to zoom in on the negative in life and not so much the positive, now if you could make a conscious effort of disregarding negativity as much as possible, you would see things suddenly change around you, you are blocking the things which distract you all the time, and we start to stray from our purpose in life, love has to be at the top of your list, love is a wonderful thing and is stronger than any other emotion, if you are without a partner, don’t despair, if you have love for yourself, your family friends, you have love in your life, so one good step in your life would be to choose all the things in your life that you love and don’t choose the things you don’t.
Never be afraid to seek what youwant in your life, when you see what you love, feel the love for that object, when you see it, it is life presenting it to you, how you feel in that moment is what is going to bring it into your life, if you feel envy jealousy you are taking yourself out of the possibilities to create for yourself, when life presents you with these things you are being given a choice, love it, enjoy it, it does’nt matter who has what, life will present everything to you, love it, feel the love you have inside, by doing this you are bringing the same thing to you and your new life…..
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NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE……………..
There is just one tiny secret to the possible and impossible, what we believe, anything is possible when you believe.
Your belief has to be extremely strong, for you to get what you want,you have to believe that you can and will achieve what you want. A simple little wish or urge for something will not get you what you want, it has to be felt deep within you as a core and true belief, that you will succeed, a simple wish is not believing, it is just a mere wish !
It is unimportant what you want, money a better career, to meet your soul mate have success in your personal and business life, help your family to prosper and be healthy, whatever you want, you should feel no shame or guilt attached to it, don’t forget you are worth everything and more, you can obtain everything you want, but you must believe you can do it and have it.
When you believe, you are putting yourself in total control you are mastering your mind, your subconscious mind, believing is sending a strong clear message and the option of your subconscious of doing anything else apart from bringing you exactly what you want. To be able to do this, you must think about why and how you can succeed.
What you need to do for a successful outcome is to focus 100%, to draw on all the positive aspects and never to allow doubt or fear to enter into these thoughts.
To believe in this way is the same as you believe the stars shine and the moon appears, why would you doubt it, so do not doubt yourself, this is under your control when you hold these beliefs within, your subconscious takes over and will attract the circumstances that will bring your believe into a creation, to bring you what you want today.
Anything is possible when your strength to believe is so great, never make your whats or dreams small, shoot for the stars the bigger the better, they even tell you, to frighten yourself with what you want, don’t listen to people who have no belief , you just need to believe in yourself, when you know with 100% assurance what you want, you can create it with your beliefs, and this will allow you to succeed.
I believe that you can do this…………………
Only when you truly believe that anything is possible, can anything truly happen .
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Wishing you all, a wonderful Easter time with hopefully friends and family…….. at least I am hoping that some of you recieve a well deserved rest…over this long weekend……
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This is my kind of day !! love it……….and who would’nt, it’s Friday so spoil yourself………….
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THE BEAUTY OF A CANDLE…………………..
Have you ever thought how much more than an adornment a candle is ? The same as it is the Queen or King of a relaxing moment, the essence of romance at the right moment in your most intimate of times, it can be a sign of life and a sign of death, burning away in temples, an altar or church, even on the celebration of our birthdays are they present and so center stage to the fun, being the life line of your secret birthday wish, what strength is hidden in the beautiful candle that has charmed many a person from here to eternity .
Before the soft scented glow of a candle, many of us have fallen in love, there have been famous poems written and homes have been filled with the delicate glow that wraps around our room or home. Candles are always surrounded by a mystical state a halo of mystery that traps us all within, the beauty of a candle really is magical. Who has not turned to candles when looking to make a special impact or moment, wishing for a special spell to exist for us to achieve what we desire. Candles are very present in our life, and not only for a practical moment, we turn to them on many occasion, it is said in the book ” The magic power of the candles” that with the simple act of lighting a candle we are illuminating the darkness which is around our lives with the vital energy which gives of a light which is available to us all. Because to capture this strength we do not have to be experts in mental control, meditation or yoga etc., we just need to have confidence to be loved by the flame and contribute to its strength.
From a candle we find strength to shine with our own inner light, candles have always been associated with magic, it is how we communicated with the gods, it is a symbol in many things, Feng Shui candles are the energy Yan there is enthusiasum and life, they symbolise the four elements of nature, the light of fire, which later is transformed into gas, like the air, placed in the south or southeast it can attract harmony and eliminate stress.
They can effect our state of well-being, in a hypnotic capacity and can be a tranquil flicker of a flame, it can be matched with aromas and fragrances. It can surprise us by grouping various colours together , sizes and designs, they can fill the space of an open chimney seen double through a mirror or can be hung from ledges and even trees to give the desired affect, when you have friends around for dinner, it is a lovely touch to fill your bath with floating candles, it will give your bathroom a wonderful glow and a pleasant surprise to your guests.
I hope you are all looking forward to your holiday day tomorrow, and if you are having friends around, don’t forget to light a candle, they really can make all the difference.
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Welcome to April, I hope this is going to be your month, today is the day to set your monthly goals, lift yourself to where you want to be, and how you wish to feel,
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Hoping you are having a great day, if you have a burning desire, and you have it on hold for the right time………………JUST DO IT, NOW is the PERFECT TIME ….
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More than 2.5 million people are working today compared to 15 years ago, over the age of 50, they say this is a new era and that most people of this age are the age of late 30’s & 40’s of years gone by, we are healthier ,life expectancy is far more, we eat better,exercise more and have more energy than when we were younger,so we are fitter,stronger and are better placed to take advantage of the options open to us. You have to realise that the future is yours, so it’s decision time for you, think of things that make you happy that give you the freedom you need and know you are going to enjoy, this way you could stumble across something you can build on and have the future you want.
If you have lost your job and are in panic mode, knowing it is going to be difficult to find new employment, let all your anguish and helplessness out, it’s okay to feel bad, for a little while,but then you have to make decisions important ones at that, but once the panic has gone, and the more you think in a positive way, a great idea just might come your way, which you can tackle alone or maybe with friends in a similar situation, it is never to late, if you have the courage to go for what you want, you can not do this with fear,and by what others may say as they discourage you along the way, this is a fresh start, no matter how old you are, be proud of what you are going to do, others may discourage you, simply because they do not have the courage you have, critisicm very often comes from people who could not take on anything, let a alone a new start and job or business, remember what you have to offer, experience, this can never be taken away from you you have worldly knowledge that many do not, you are a positive addition and do not have room for negativity or inmaturity.
Many times we stop ourselves from doing what we wish,because of comments from other people and also from our own fears, fear can sometimes be our own lack of confidence,why, we have got to where we are,and I am sure with some regrets,but most importantly is that we learn from those regrets, whether they be major or minor,this gives us yet more experience to go out and do what we generally would like to do most, a business based on this will be much easier as you will be receiving such great satisfaction from what you are doing, knowing you are doing it well and this will raise your self confidence from the start, value yourself above everything else,because as you do, others will also value you.Everything starts as a dream or an idea which comes to you, there are many ways that this can realise itself, and it is not always down to money, never let your age be the brakes,get yourself into first gear and go, step by step.
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