The world changes around us when we open our heart’s, your world can change also, if we know how……
We first have to change many things we believe to be true, that even science have admitted to have changed over the years, everything we have stored regarding our beliefs were told to us in good faith, but it came from someone else, making it there belief and not yours, when we are in a situation or we think of maybe something new, we tend to instantly think ” What can I get out of this ?” it’s normal don’t worry about this, but, if we were to think “What can I share with this ?” The outcome is totally different, you agree ?
The thing is we look at things with our head (our ego) but if we pass it to our soul and spiritual heart, you will become aware you will discover awareness, and you will love awareness, it gives you clarity and it gives you a complete shift, you will feel the identification from ego to your spiritual heart, this pours love, you see things with love, love for where you are, for what you have, for what you can give and for who you are, With love in your spiritual heart you will easily be able to explore the reasons behind (the why) you feel hurt, anger, despair because of your new found clarity you will explore yourself, you need these answers because these are your blocks, this is what is stopping you from being aligned with the direction you want to take.
When you know yourself, you can expand and become who you really know you are. We all go through traumas and strong situations none of us get away from this, but I know that some suffer more than others, however when we realise and see this in the correct manner it was sent, you know we are never sent anything that we can’t handle, even if you think differently you are never alone , no one is alone, the universe is always working with you, although you may not see it that way, we are being told we need to learn something from this ? When you accept the situation and not see yourself as a victim, you start to organise yourself and see the light at the end of the tunnel, when you have this ability you start to relate and this is when the hardest part comes, you have to work through this, if you imagine yourself as an onion, you need to start to peel of what you have carried for to long, you need to express yourself this can be with tears, if you need to cry do it,this will release the energy that is not good energy (this could be your victim energy) but you have to release it, peel it away just like a band aid, it may hurtt, but when released you are going to feel free, you can talk, write what ever method works best for you, you will start to feel safe again, when you shed these energies doors will start to open for you, things will come your way and you will see things in a different way. If you need to forgive someone, do it with your spiritual heart, if you don’t you are going back down the rabbit hole, and onto the level of the one who needs forgiveness, you don’t have to face anyone to do this, just do it with your heart. Remember the universe is on your side – ask the why’, see the solution and work with the universe- then you will find and feel your shift.The universe conspires with you not against you (you are not a victim) You need to embrace your problem.
You have to create your vision of what you want in your new life, to be able to leave behind what you don’t want.This is not just a mind thought, you have to feel it in your heart, it’s an emotion , which will flow from your heart, by unlocking your problems, you remove your blocks and you can heal yourself.
Our first step to finding our purpose in life is to peel of everything you don’t want, then you are free and can find your true life purpose. You need strength to believe in yourself and the doors and situations you need will start to open for you , use your spiritual heart and find love in everything you do.
Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes charcter and self control to be understanding and forgiving
Dale Carnegie
When we stop, for one small second and think of this quote, do you see the truth in it ? It’s takes alot of self control to conquer it, after all we are all human’s and by nature we criticize, condemn and complain, all of us, even if it is targeted at our selves.
Until we realize what a waste of our valuable time it is and a absolute waste of our energy, were we fools, as the quote states, or maybe we just needed to learn about wasting our precious time, and come to know our self worth. When we learn our own worth we would never criticize, condemn and complain, about ourselves or others, maybe that is the part we miss out regarding others, do we know or value the worth of other’s before we pass judgement ? This does not mean we have to be best buddies with everyone we meet, but it does mean that if we feel uncomfortable with another person and you are not quite sure why, you just move on, save your time and save your energy, this strange feeling you experiment is only your inner power telling you that you and the other person are not on the same wave length (vibration/frequency) just accept it for what it is, without the need of passing judgement, some times things can change, if the other person continues to grow, just as you have. We are not fools ? Are we .
PISCES 20th February – 20th March
Pisces are found to be compassionate people, this is one of the most known characteristic’s of their sign. They are the kind that would pull over on the road if a person needs help or a poor animal has lost it’s way or is in danger, do you know anyone like this ? Are they true to their star sign.
Their compassionate nature is in great demand by their friends, family and co-workers, so does it ring any bells ? And if they are in any kind of distress, the simple fact that you are around will make them feel really calm and assured..
So, although we always show support to all our friends, if you have a pisces friend always remember the fact that just by being around will mean everything to them, they may not ask for help, but you will know different……..just like all our friends……right?
Think about this, because it’s perfectly true, we always have tomorrow, and every new day is a new opportunity, a chance to make another choice, it is never to late for change,it’s never to late to act……..but the sooner you do the happier you will be, so make this month your month.
Now, if you decide to impliment changes, or choose to take on that new role, job or whatever it is you want to do, just take on what you can handle, it’s good to move out of your comfort zone, but, don’t over do it, remember sleep and food need to be part of your plan also.
So take things one step at a time, but steps you can handle, not like the one’s below, that obviously cause alot of strain. Remember if you look after your body, your body will look after you…………….
Always know what you are capable of, we can do anything we set our minds to, we just have to believe in yourself. When you hold this belief you really do not know what is going to happen next, some can be pretty amazing !!!!!
So March is here all 31 days, no short cuts this month, so it’s make you mind up time, what are your goals for this month ? write them down, writing them down is very powerful, and get going !!!! have a good month…………
This is our next challenge, so join in …………….
What a Magical Monday I am having, for those of you that follow my blog, you will know that I am a positive person, but I was not expecting this, I cannot express how grateful I am to Amanda – The Road to There , for my nomination I am totally blown away and feel very honoured to be nominated by a fellow blogger who has taken time to read my posts. I appreciate all of you for giving a part of your day to me, I know how precious that can be, I really am delighted.
Now, I believe I need to tell you a few things about myself, let’s see
- I am beyond anything else a very proud mother of two boys, who are my life, when they were small I would tell them that I loved them to the stars and back and nothing has changed and never will. They inspire me everyday.
- I am an animal lover, and have two dog’s, they see me through high’s and low’s they listen to me, comfort me and care for me. I have unconditional love for them (And they never answer back or disagree with me ……… it’s great ! )
- I speak English and Spanish, I love music, all types and reading, one of my all time favourites is “La Sombra del Viento” by Carlos Ruiz Zafon (English version- The Shadow of the Wind ) I would highly recommend. I also enjoy a vast about of Personal Growth books, far to many to mention here.The one thing I have in abundance in my home is books.
- I have been fortunate to have travelled a great deal in my life, and enjoyed every second. I’m quite adventurous with my food (Russia Siberia and Outer Mongolia) was an eye opener, but a great experience, I like to try the local cuisine but living in Spain, I have to say the meditterranean food is hard to beat.
- I love to educate myself as much as possible, my grandfather use to tell me, never go to bed without learning something new ! I’ve tried ….however this little box I am using now (computer) escapes me…….I’m all thumbs and no fingers, but I struggle on, nothing like a challenge..it speaks a language I’ve never heard before ! Although I love this world “blogosphere” and I manage to get my words onto the blog.
- I love to cook, and have family and friends for dinner, I love to decorate my table, my home, my space in general, I am a slight control freak so like to keep everything just how I like it and know where everything is.
- I love one of my more recent titles “Author” I have five published books,and presently waiting to publish them into two other languages, I am hoping to finish my first novel by the end of this year.I love to share and meet new people, I am a friend to my friends and always do as much as possible to help, assist and be there whatever the circumstances may be, and consider myself very fortunate and very grateful for what I have in my life.
So there you have it, you now know a little more about me, while recently doing my first “Blogging University Writing 201” I have come across vry impressive blogs and very interesting posts and people. I love this world………..to be able to express and connect.
Now for the hard part, my nomination list as requested, (this is so difficult)
Moreofmore
Infinite living- http://www.pragalbhadosi.com
Life,lemons & Tequilla-anonymouspuzzle.wordpress.com
meloheartsite.wordpress.com
AdvancedResearchTechnology.org
Katie-StuffYouThinkAbout
Carol Anne-Therapybits.wordpress.com
zwesto-weirdtoogenuine.wordpress.com
rtallwin.wordpress.com
I hope everyone has had such a Magical Monday as I have, thank you to everyone and be happy.
It’s that great day again, how soon it come’s round, nearly as quick as Monday !
So, what’s your plan for today, relax, maybe a nice walk, a good read, or is it a pj’s day, Oh lucky you, whatever you decide, I just hope you enjoy and do what you want to do, it’s a no duty day hopefully, and anything you do venture into, you are doing because that’s what you want……………………………
Have a great day, restore your power, get those batteries charged, enjoy your coffee, maybe a little chocolate put your feet up and take it easy.
Every great dream begins with a dreamer, Always
remember, you have within you the strength the
patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to
change the world.
We all like a happy ending to a story or circumstances, but at times we first have a few lessons we need to learn along the way, We are right in the middle of a problem, do we believe you are going to be happy again, at times it seems light years away. However at times,for the best,nightmares can get smaller as time and distance makes it’s way in your life.
We all have problems at some point in our life regarding (e.g.) the body image we project, our love life, our finances, our business and of course parenting….
We worry about how people see us, but the people who care about us our family and friends at times do more for our self-esteem than the way they look.The lesson to be learnt here is worry about the things you can change, not those you can’t.
We worry about being left on the shelf, that we will never find the love of our life, we see our friends getting married and forming families, others find there soul mate and we are still there waiting… The lesson to be learnt is What your friends do they do,don’t get on that hamster wheel, just focus on yourself and your own happiness.
We worry about money, can I afford this and that, it’s not practical it’s considered as a treat, a little something for yourself or your partner or your family, the fact is we don’t know what is around the corner, The lesson is don’t ever worry about spending money on things that are tied to memories (which money can never buy again)
We constantly worry about our children, (no matter what age they are) they do crazy things, things that we probaly all did but!! we will not mention that now, The lesson here is to let them make mistakes and believe in their ability to come through them.
We worry about our business, if our dream job does not appear, we take wrong turns in business and things generally don’t go as we want them to, The lesson to be learnt here is that one of these little errors could lead you to a better place and where you are supposed to be.
These are situations that any of us can come across in our life, but here is an example of turning negative into positive, it’s a positive result. So we can have our Happy Ending with the advantage of learning on the way.
Do you love your work ? or are you a workaholic ? Compulsively working is a sure sign, your team mates or yourself may imply that you just generally love your work, there is a difference, it can imply that you feel compelled to do it, dedication and a wish to get on is not feeling compelled, can you control the impulse to never stop, or does it control you ?. There is no certified medical condition that defines a workaholic, although conditions such as stress, impulse control disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder can be related, do you fit into any of these catergories. Working hard is not the same either as a workaholic.
The workaholic will have different types of behavioural problems, and each one is valued in different ways. On a positive note it can be seen in people who are devoted in wishing to express their worth to their career of choice. This is usually linked to a paying job, but it may also refer to an independant venture, music, art, science sports. However, it is more commonly used in the negative term, and negative behavioural problems, there is a pattern which can easily be seen, a person that spends excessive amounts of time at work, a compulsion to work hard and harder all the time, they will neglect their families and any other social relations. They have no buzz, doing anything except work. We all understand that our jobs should be given 100% and if you love your work even more so, but this does not mean we surrender our life to this, my father always told me, “work hard Play hard” It’s great advice, because if we don’t have things in the right perpective we lose our balance, which we need for our well being, to be happy, to incorporate what should be in our life, into our life, our families, our friends, our interests and never forget ourselves. It is so easy to fall into the trap of work, work, work maybe you even live on your own and feel it’s fine to do this, it takes up your hours and your days pass quickly, NO this is not the answer, you need to change, incorporate other things into your life, sport, art, your family even a nice stroll is great to blow the cobwebs away,and maybe the most important, learn how to relax and enjoy your own company, you certainly dont know anyone better than yourself !!
So this is where, you really need to get to know yourself, and decide if you love your work or are you a workaholic. Do you need to change your daily habits and routines, incorporate other aspects that bring you pleasure that is not work related. Try it, you just might like it, go for your goals and dreams always, keep focused always and work and take action for everything you want always, but dont forget to play and enjoy, by keeping balanced you will get to your goal and maybe even quicker, the secret recipe is to have a well being within yourself, to believe in yourself and to use your inner power incorporating everything good that life has to offer.
Three years today…………….Thank you wordpress !
I am so pleased to be here, three years of enjoyment, I hope everyone that stops by takes a little bit of something away with them, that is my aim to help where possible and to give pleasure to those who read my blog.
Thank you to everyone who visits and follows my blog.
Here we are again, Monday, magical Monday, if you want it to be, how did you start your day, on a good foot or a bad one ! You see this is down to you, yes you, it’s another one of those things that we need to take responsability for !!
You see, it is truly down to you, the minute we open our eyes and take that first stretch, still under the warm covers are mind starts, we can either sigh heavily and just think of staying where we are, dreading the day ahead, or, we can really stretch breath deeply and amaze at the great week we have before us, wondering what wonderful opportunity is going to present itself to us, what great person are we going to meet and all the fantastic things we are going to learn, what challenge will we face and love resolving, the pure satisfaction we are going to feel, not to mention we are alive to live moments we will never forget. Now if on the other hand we start to think of the job we dont enjoy with the people we share nothing with and have no interest in mixing with as they have nothing to offer us anyway,the problems we need to confront and that nothing new is going to happen ……….You can see for yourself this is like day and night, so you have to decide do you want the light and sunshine of the day or the cold damp air of the night. Even if you dislike your job and everything that goes with it, you can still see the good….Please, look, at the moment you have a salary, you can eat and enjoy small pleasures in life, you are not a taker, so people around your work place just might be very interesting, just because they work within somewhere you dislike, dont discard them for that, would you like it if they did that to you ? All the problems coming your way and a repeat performance of last week, could be an opportunity to learn new abilities and something could open up to you due to this.
You see, we close ourselves of from so many things and sadly some of us are totally unaware of this fact, our attitude, our outlook on life is in need of a change if this is the case, if you choose to look into the dark all the time, that is what you will see, darkness and only darkness, we need light to see the great things that are out there for us, we all have bad days and bad situations thats the ups and downs of life, but how we act upon this, will and can make the world of difference, you decide, this is your right and will always be. Why spend a terrible day or week or life, when you can change that, just by your attitude and how you see life, look for the light always, turn downs into ups !! negatives into positives, I had a prime example last week, I had an email from someone who had lost their job, and was not happy at all, I asked if they enjoyed their home, they replied that they never had time for that or for their children,that work took those pleasures away, so to me it was obvious, what a wonderful opportunity to enjoy the comfort of their home, see to those silly little changes they wanted to do and never had time, and to really enjoy the time to spend with their children and family . Although they will have to look for another job, in the mean time, what a great opportunity to do things people really want to do, this is taking a negative situation into a positive one. It also helps you to change your attitude, if you are looking for a job, under stress and a bad attitude, it shows, it will let the darkness out and people pick up on that, now if you are happy (children, home, hobby etc.,) your daylight will be shinning bright, your attitude is balanced and your job hunting will bring far better results. So make your Mondays, and everyday a great day, live in the light.
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