images Dale CarnegieAny fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes  charcter and self control to be understanding and forgiving

Dale Carnegie

When we stop, for one small second and think of this quote, do you see the truth in it ? It’s takes alot of self control to conquer it, after all we are all human’s and by nature we criticize, condemn and complain, all of us, even if it is targeted at our selves. 

Until we realize what a waste of our valuable time it is and a absolute waste of our energy, were we fools, as the quote states, or maybe we just needed to learn about wasting our precious time, and come to know our self worth. When we learn our own worth we would never criticize, condemn and complain, about ourselves or others, maybe that is the part we miss out regarding others, do we know or value the worth of other’s before we pass judgement ? This does not mean we have to be best buddies with everyone we meet, but it does mean that if we feel uncomfortable with another person and you are not quite sure why, you just move on, save your time and save your energy, this strange feeling you experiment is only your inner power telling you that you and the other person are not on the same wave length (vibration/frequency) just accept it for what it is, without the need of passing judgement, some times things can change, if the other person continues to grow, just as you have. We are not fools ? Are we .  


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It's time to payback all the good in our lives,to pass to each other everything we have learned,the knowledge we have stored within, and the love we have to share. I am a fully qualified Psychologist,Life Coach,Performance Consultant & LOA Practitioner. I have shared this blog with everyone since February 2013, I have been able to help many,but also been helped by many,this I am truly grateful for and thank everyone for your support and advice.Should you wish to contact me, please feel free to do so,my email is open to you all. I look forward to hearing from you.
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7 Responses to A LITTLE THOUGHT………………….

  1. Advanced Research Technology says:

    So true, the complaint and condemnation is just addressing our own lack of comfort int the situation. The other is practically oblivious to the situation or otherwise would not be acting that way. We waste our energy in these channels
    It would b much better to save the energy and walk away. Those with negative energy upon them crave any energy they can get, positive or negative. Perhaps none would be the right remedy. If they don’t get what they want, if they don’t get anything, then maybe the message would become clear.
    As for ourselves, understanding and forgiveness goes a long way toward peace.


  2. As you say there are many little “vamps” out there, they love to take the energy of others, and if we walk away they get nothing……and I totally agree with understanding and forgiveness can bring peace, and to have inner peace is truly a gift, thank you as always for your comment.


  3. Régine says:

    Muy buen tema ! Comprension y aceptacion 2 palabras que mucha gente se olvida…..y son tan importante….


  4. exactamente, si avia mas comprension y aceptacion tambien hay mas paz, el paz interior tambien es muy importante. Gracias


  5. DaisyWillows says:

    Like you say we are only human and can’t help but judge but if we do it with a kind heart which turns the negative into a positive


  6. We have to be aware or conscious in order for us to realize what we’re doing. So many of us are still asleep. Read his book. Great post!


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