We all like a happy ending to a story or circumstances, but at times we first have a few lessons we need to learn along the way, We are right in the middle of a problem, do we believe you are going to be happy again, at times it seems light years away. However at times,for the best,nightmares can get smaller as time and distance makes it’s way in your life.
We all have problems at some point in our life regarding (e.g.) the body image we project, our love life, our finances, our business and of course parenting….
We worry about how people see us, but the people who care about us our family and friends at times do more for our self-esteem than the way they look.The lesson to be learnt here is worry about the things you can change, not those you can’t.
We worry about being left on the shelf, that we will never find the love of our life, we see our friends getting married and forming families, others find there soul mate and we are still there waiting… The lesson to be learnt is What your friends do they do,don’t get on that hamster wheel, just focus on yourself and your own happiness.
We worry about money, can I afford this and that, it’s not practical it’s considered as a treat, a little something for yourself or your partner or your family, the fact is we don’t know what is around the corner, The lesson is don’t ever worry about spending money on things that are tied to memories (which money can never buy again)
We constantly worry about our children, (no matter what age they are) they do crazy things, things that we probaly all did but!! we will not mention that now, The lesson here is to let them make mistakes and believe in their ability to come through them.
We worry about our business, if our dream job does not appear, we take wrong turns in business and things generally don’t go as we want them to, The lesson to be learnt here is that one of these little errors could lead you to a better place and where you are supposed to be.
These are situations that any of us can come across in our life, but here is an example of turning negative into positive, it’s a positive result. So we can have our Happy Ending with the advantage of learning on the way.