Do you ever have days when you feel very drab, very boring and not good company, do you feel unattractive and have no passion, do you feel old and wish to turn the clock back, or would you simply just like to reinvent yourself. You can reinvent yourself as may times as you wish, but you have to be brave enough to do so, to have courage and confidence within yourself, it is great to reinvent yourself, it will give you a new lease of life, maybe you just need that change, always remember that how you see yourself and only you, will make you feel the way you do, if you feel any of the above it is because you think you are !
You are never to late to reinvent, or to dream for what you wish, when you decide to reinvent yourself, and you want everyday of your life to be, wonderful, fascinating, interesting, creative what are you going to do to make it happen.
When you make this decision it is important that you have a very sincere one to one conversation with yourself, the answers you give to yourself will help you with this change in your life, have you always kept an open mind, to you see things from most points of view and accept changes and circumstances as they come along, have you learnt how to listen to your heart and follow your intuition, a gift for you that never lets you down, are you totally honest with yourself, do you recognise your good and your bad points, when you are right and when you are wrong, have you or do you make a difference in the world that you live in, do you make a difference around you, are you happy with yourself and feel complete, you don’t need anyone else to give you that feeling, to share is wonderful but, you are happy within yourself. Have you always been brave enough to be vulnerable, to go through the difficulties of life, do you know how to forgive and forgiven, have you fought your way up after a drowning situation, do you live with no regrets ?……………….
To reinvent yourself is not a declaration of running away from something, it is simply another opportunity for you to live your life how you wish, on your terms, at times circumstances in our life allow us to follow this road, some of us feel bad about this and easily conduct this sensation into a victim type attitude, this is not the case, we should look at every drastic change in our life as a an opportunity a wonderful chance to change everything that made us discontent or unhappy, it can be many reasons, but the outcome can be the most rewarding of our life time. Never be afraid to take those steps towards a reinvention, always stay in the motion of life and move forward to the best of your ability.
When you are free, from the situations that have to be changed whether we want to or not, we start to grow as people are confidence returns to us and we develop into what we want and where we want to go, aging is inevitable, but, growth is optional, a reinvention is a wonderful combination.
Brooke Universal Life Coach