Have you ever had one of these type of people in your life, whether it be through a personal relationship or friendship, you will remember it well, because it probably hurt !! it would be hard for it not to have, these type of people seem to rotate around the world partly thinking they own most of it and are totally unaware of a wonderful emotion we have called feelings, they are the kind that we ponder on “do they have a heart”……do these people ever cry over a Christmas advert or love film…………..I don’t think so ! but hey you never know ?
At times you may even think it could be cool to be this way, float through life and nothing effects you or ruffles your little feathers, but only hold on to that for a second…………you would not like it, if you are used to feeling most things including beauty as well as the sadness being totally insensitive would not appeal to you at all. So, how do people become this way, have they had a hard up bringing and struggle with showing emotion, have they never had a moment of raw true feelings and possible a feeling of love ? Do they feel worthless and are incapable to acknowledge worth in others, the list is endless, however when we are on the receiving end of this type of person the ending is not good for us, this kind of person has another talent that we have not mentioned, they are weak………yes weak….the reason I say this is due to the fact that they listen to everything that is said around them regarding in this moment YOU the one who feels the brunt of all this bad talk, when a person is jealous, unhappy, desperate etc., they will do anything in their power to destroy the happiness and general well-being another may have, this is many times done through talking badly about someone, and of course most of it will be lies, things that are made up just to make YOU look bad, the result is usually a break up of that personal relationship or that friendship or even a business partnership, I use the word weak because they are not strong enough to not take this all on board when they know deep down you don’t fit that description, these people are very emotionally unstable and go with the flow of others to feel part of what is going on and to be popular and at times to play the victim, which on many occasions is their favourite role. Those of you who have received this judgement I hope you ran the course knowing that the truth in the end always comes out, this at times can take years , the damage has been done and many of you will have paid the price for this malice act for maybe many years, but the most important thing however hard it has been, is you hold the truth within and this can and will give you some inner relief and peace, never go to the level of the another person if your first explanation or meeting is not successful don’t carry on with it, you are not weak and have the strength to walk away and not involve yourself anymore.
Never forget to care for the real people who love you and be strong enough to let the other one’s go…………………..your happiness depends on you, never give that control to others ❤
Brooke Universal Life Coach