When we are truly fortunate to work with our passion, we really do feel as though we are not working, it is a pleasure to be able to think feel and realise what we love…………..

It is also a wonderful feeling to know we are growing, personal growth is so important, many associate it with years, but that is not always the case, are you aware of how your patience is never-ending, or how you now handle certain situations in your life, most of us put this down to age, but it can also be a sure sign of personal growth, as you achieve your growth your inner intuition and knowledge are aware of everything around you, you are totally connected to where you are and what you are dealing with, are you conscious of all this ?

Are you conscious of your actions and feelings, do you ever analyse yourself and your thoughts, not in a critical manner, you should be supporting and constructing what you are achieving each day, being proud of your progress, Rome was not built-in a day………..they say and we are the same, nobody came into this life, knowing everything, there are many know all’s, but that is  different , when we start to grow, it is a wonderful feeling of satisfaction. 

There may be times when you are very conscious of a way you have dealt with a situation and thought to yourself that previously your reaction would have been totally different, this is personal growth in action, at times we obtain that growth from personal experiences of our own or maybe from a personal growth course/book or Mentor/Coach , learning to deal with life and it’s problems can be an advantage, instead of waiting for them to happen and learning from the experience. 

Always welcome the opportunity of Personal Growth, however it may enter into your life, it is always beneficial to you, the more we learn the more knowledge we obtain, the more ability we have to help ourselves and others. 

Never let an opportunity pass you by

Brooke

Universal Life & Relationship Coach

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Maybe it is part of our nature to be, reserved and slightly timid,or very timid,but when you wish to succeed in what you do, you have to be prepared to step outside your comfort zone and put yourself out there, there are many ways to do this , did you know that by making new contacts and hearing different ideas around you are great confidence boosters……..when you connect with others and expand your circle your confidence expands with it. 

When you make big decisions for the future in your life, you need to try to find other people with the same mind-set, join together and study or practice or what you feel is necessary, this is called networking and can be done starting with a small group and   you may be amazed on how it can grow and you with it, you will develop further interests you may have in life. Some people get confused regarding networking , it is quite simply just making the most of the people you meet to your mutual advantage, and this in its self-will be a wonderful experience. 

When you are timid and you are present at a meeting or even a smaller dinner party, make the effort and speak to other people, just a little hello is very often all that is needed to start a conversation , always try to introduce yourself to people you do not already know,  an easy introduction is to mention a name of the person who initially invited you, it may be a point in common for both parties, also , always try to ask an open-ended question, a question that needs an answer……try to be as curious as your confidence allows you to be, stretch the conversation and step outside your comfort zone a little ! it is important that you give full attention to the reply you may be given, listen, in the way, you liked to be listened to. Never miss an opportunity where you may hear something of interest to you, to tell you or to show you or teach you. 

One of the biggest arts of networking is the ability to follow through with whatever you may have said, this is key to swap your skills or contacts, always try to help others and they will help you. Always fulfil your promises, if not you will be remembered for that. When you find you are talking to someone who has the same interests as you  and you are enjoying your conversation, never forget to get a business card or telephone number , keep that power line going and get in touch with them again with 24 hrs, when you depart never forget to mention what a pleasure it was to meet and that you will stay in touch . If you do not have a good memory, keep a little note-book with the name and their interests, and just jot it down. 

Don’t ever leave your bravery at home, be brave, introduce yourself , what is the worst outcome ? their loss …………… make the most of all opportunities.

Brooke Universal Life & Relationship Coach

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