Do you feel valued, or are you one of many who feel so totally under valued , why is this, what is it that’s makes some more valued than others ? It is not about who you are, it is about how you feel about yourself,you see in many ways when one feels under valued it is because that person is prepared to be undervalued.
However, each of us have a limit, it can vary from person to person but the limit will exist no matter who we are dealing with, we should not take or allow others to take people for granted, just because a person is there all the time, it is not an excuse for them to be taken for granted.
When you are discarded by someone or led to feel under valued, simply by the power of their words, it is time to let go and move on, no matter how painful it may be, we are all valuable and no one has the right to take that away from us, no matter who they are. They are not worthy of you and what you have to offer or share, words can be very painful, you do not need to be physically attacked to feel pain, words have a power which we should know how to administrate, and causing pain is not the right way, do you let people control you by their power of words, do you let people get at you and cause pain in your sensitive side and nature. It is a known fact that if we do not love ourselves enough, we will always chase people who don’t love you either. You are important in everything you do and you should be the first to recognise this and love yourself for it.
There are times in your life when we expect more, because we give or would be willing to give more, this is not how it works, it has to be balanced that is for sure, and we should not be counting who is giving what, however !! if one part is constantly giving more, the balance will tilt so much, it never recovers, balance is never found and things will go wrong, whether this be in your personal or business life, life is a game of give and take, when this is done in a fairly even manner, life can be good. When we know we are being taken for granted and that we are not appreciated in any shape or form, we should stop doing the things we do. We can suffer from a profound sadness when the work we do is not acknowledged, here it is important to add, that we also should not do things purely to be acknowledged………..
Never lose yourself, just because you are pleasing others all the time.
Be, who you know you are, not what others tell you, you are, in the depth of your self in your inner self you know who you are, what you can become and even how you to achieve help to get there. If you are a mother and feel very unappreciated, remember you are the best mother in the world, don’t let people make you feel any different. Being a mother is one of the most difficult jobs you will ever take on, and everyone thinks they know better, and at times will try to convince you of this, don’t be taken in by this, you know your value and you know your heart.
There are people in your life that will make you smile, they will check on you to make sure you are ok and everything in your life is going moderately well, they will watch out for you, don’t let them go from your life, don’t take them for granted at times people like this are hard to find.
Brooke Universal Life Coach