LIVE LONGER AND AGE LESS …………………

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If one of your promises or goals this year is to have a healthier fitter life style this year, start looking into anti stress methods, if you have not already done so, these are great ways to protect your health, enjoyable exercises, a good pace, nothing that leaves you totally breathless, have enough sleep, recuperate now if you are behind., do away with any habits that can actually be doing you harm. These are things that can be done and be beneficial for your health and ageing.

Obviously when you take on any health regime, regardless of the degree of the impact it is important to take certain things into consideration your age and your actual state of health, never put yourself in danger so give some thought to your blood pressure, check out your cholesterol and glucose levels etc.,

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Stay well clear of alcohol, nicotine and depriving yourself of sleep you need to follow your biological rhythm, you need to make little changes that can have a great impact on your body and health in general. 

When you consider stopping yourself from smoking, it is important to want to do this and secondly to suffer as little as possible.. the habit of smoking is sadly connected to serious health issues, as in lung cancer and heart problems and many more, the negative side  of this habit, is it is not easy to give this habit up, and the positive side is that most countries now have help on hand via the public health service…but as an ex smoker, the main point in my opinion is that you want to give up this habit, this excels your will power a thousand times over, make your decision and stick to it……………so, visit your local doctor for a little help, choose the day you are going to kick the habit and stick to it, start to prepare yourself mentally before hand and look for a little support from your family if possible or your circle of friends, obviously this is much better if your family and friends are none smokers….if they do smoke and you know you are going to find it hard, ask them to please not smoke in front of you, make a list of the reasons you have to give up this habit, in your weak moments take your list and go through it, this is your WHY so make the points good and important to you. Try to identify what smoking means to you and when you feel you need to smoke the most, or situations maybe, if you do this you will find that you may be able to eliminate these things from your life and not put temptation in your way. Once your chosen date has arrived, think to yourself”,today I don’t smoke” do not think “I will not smoke during the whole of today,” there is a difference and it can make a big difference to you. You have to be prepared to be stronger than the desire to smoke, you have to know that when you have these weak moments this feeling will leave you within a few minutes and each time it will become less and less and eventually you will lose all desire to smoke. The secret is to think of something totally different at that moment you would normally reach for a cigarette, and also remember why you wish to leave this habit behind. It is a good time to leave coffee alone and take more relaxing drinks and do exercise. If you then feel more tired you will sleep more hours, all this is better for your health and smoking will only age you more, it shows in your skin, your teeth and of course in your wrinkles!!

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When you look after your heart, did you know that a women over 50, a smoker and has more than 250 mg of cholesterol in the blood stream, will have a vascular age of 65 , fifteen years is a lot on top of your actual age, so again giving up smoking is well worth the effort ? The heart would also be very grateful if you gave up salt and sugar, the ideal level you should be looking at should be around 5 to 7 gr a day, to be able to do this it is advisable to not eat manufactured products, cold meats and tinned foods, cured cheese and precooked prepared foods. by following these simple rules you can reduce your intake of salt by 60%, to avoid sugar, you need to leave sugared fruit juices and fizzy drinks in general this will reduce your sugar intake greatly and obviously not to eat to many sweet things, it is also very favourable for you not to stop moving, walking  or swimming are fabulous ways to exercise at least 35/40 mins a day , maybe 3 or 5 times a week, if you are concerned about your blood pressure, the optimum tension reading would be anything below 120 over 80, anything over 130-139-and 85-89, there is a chance of high blood pressure in future years, it is possible to control blood pressure without medical help,with a few changes in your habits, less salt, a little exercise and correcting any over weight problems you may have. living longer 3

When we care for ourselves, we are giving permission for us to live a little longer and possible even look a little younger due to all the loving care we have for ourselves, you will also find that when you apply this way of living into your life style you will feel all the benefits and in time this life style will be that of your family or friends that are around you, healthy living is very contagious, when you follow these points above you are avoiding vascular problems later on in your life, healthy people do not present a high risk factor. 

The importance of recuperating your sleep……. many people have trouble in finding a perfect sleeping pattern, the problem with this is we are not aware of how much damage low quality sleep can do to our physical  mental and emotional health, as we recuperate 80% of our immune system during the time that we sleep. If you have a problem with sleeping, there are foods that can damage are sleeping pattern and others that can help ! We should whenever possible have a light meal in the evening , with a protein and vegetable base, with foods rich in calcium and try to end your day with a tea special for relaxing and inducing sleep. Avoid sugary or spicy food any time after 3 in the afternoon, also avoid alcohol and smoking 4 hours before going to bed. Keeping a good timetable for your meals also helps, breakfast is always good between 7 and 9 in the morning, lunch between 12 and 2 and the evening meal between 7 and 9, it is important to realise that an organised  food intake is capable to order and synchronise are whole body, and also are sleeping patterns. We should also sleep in the appropriate circumstances the darker the room the better, this is due to the hormone melatonin that induces sleep, are body will not produce this if are eyes detect sun light, this is why we are advised to have no phones, laptops or unnecessary lights in are bedrooms, as it affects are quality of sleep, having a routine for sleeping is essential if you can keep to similar times for going to sleep and waking, also if you take a siesta during the day it is advisable that it be no longer than 45 mins. 

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Exercise is always good for a healthy life, however it is always better to do moderate exercise in the place of intense exercise and more frequent, walking, swimming bicycle are ideal exercises that can be done 2 or 3 times a week, along with a few stretches will keep you in great health and your skin will acquire a healthy glow, top that of with a relaxing bath time before you go to bed, and you will sleep well and maintain all your muscles relaxed allowing you to drift of to wonderful dreams…………………..

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

DO YOU KNOW THAT …………………………

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So, today is Wednesday half way through the week, we made it, so do you see now that everything happens for a reason, maybe you have had a good week or maybe not so good, but, with time you will see the positive reason for whatever has gone, we are who we are and everything happens for a reason !!……….Enjoy the rest of the week 

Love yourself always ❤

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

ARE YOU ON BOARD ……………………………..

So we make new goals, make promises and of we go, full of good intent, however there are people in the world who just watch the world and their life pass by………..They wake up, go to work, eat, sleep and start again the following day, how boring can that be, to an active body or mind, it must feel like being dazed all the time ! We take on dynamics in our lifestyle that really does do away with our dreams and goals, things that we just go along with for the sake of thinking it is the right thing to do at the time, on a subject or person…..always trying to please another person, this can be our partner or parents our work enviroment or just friends. What we think is expected of us ? No we should turn life around and if it’s possible allow ourselves to turn with it…..question a little more the problems that come along, after all that is what life is all about, nobody is totally free of this, everyone is confronted with this, when this happens solve them, one way or another and get over them. This year 2018, take away the pressure which you personally have imposed on yourself  and are totally unnecessary, we were not born with chains, so why should we live as though we were. 

Think that you have finished with one stage of your life and we are about to start another new stage, you have a complete new year in front of you. So as you go towards your new goals and dreams, don’t forget to check in with yourself from time to time, analyse what and where you are going and have come from, take stock, look at yourself, are you balanced enough , should you be doing more or less, are you still on the right track and never forget or doubt to take advise from a professional if you think you need it, a little help is always welcome. Don’t try to be perfect, because we  are not, there is no need to be over serious, laughing is good and enjoying life is essential, do more of what you really want to do, find that time you feel you are missing and always make time for yourself, you time is vital in everyone’s life…..no matter who you are or what you do !! we all need that little time to breathe in and breathe out, the time is there so dig deep and find it..Remember to live in the now, and remember that you set the pace and you set the goals, don’t let others do that for you,  you will only succeed when you really want to do it, when you want it……………….

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Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

ALWAYS LOVE YOURSELF……………………

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Now here is a good long list of what we should be doing to show ourselves how much we love ourselves……………..we may not be able to fulfill all of these, but just take a look and lets see what we can do !!

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

NEVER JUDGE…………………………………..

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Welcome to another week, as we do not know what is in store for us this week and who we may be fortunate to meet, never judge someone, before you know them, we can all be a wonderful surprise, always offer the opportunity you would like to be given ❤

Have a great week

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

JANUARY ROLLER COASTER

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Do you ever feel stressed stuck blocked on your path to wherever you are going, we have survived the Christmas and New Year period and we are struggling through one of the most difficult months of the year, we have spent so much time preparing for Christmas and its activities, and within 2/3 days it is finished gone until next year………..however in this short period of time we have put ourselves under great pressure, both emotional and financial, we also promise ourselves and others of all the wonderful things we are going to do and change this year, and this creates a situation of not knowing where we are going, we lose track of our direction and generally a little lost, this roller coaster month has us not knowing what to do or where to go, this can happen to any of us, so I thought this afternoon I would help us all by choosing a fabulous meditation video that will help us to set ourselves free and release all the blockages we may have, you need to find a space for yourself, feel warm and comfortable and enjoy this video, try to obtain as much benefit as you can from this, recharge those batteries ready for Monday morning  ❤

 

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

SUNDAY BLISS…………………..

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Have a fabulous Sunday, don’t forget this is your day to enjoy from the beginning to the end, the more you give out, the more you will receive back whether this be love, kindness gratitude whatever you choose ❤

 

Happy day …………………………..

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

LISTEN TO THIS !

 

Find a quiet corner and treat yourself today, this will change you and how you feel, the Law of Attraction at its best !

 

I hope you enjoy and benefit totally from this video  ❤

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

 

 

DO THIS TODAY………………………

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I wish you all of this and much more, have a great day, remember……this is down to you ! A happy attitude and a happy day ❤

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach

 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

COZY CORNER……………………….

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Welcome once again to my cozy corner, thank you so much for your participation I am so thrilled you are enjoying this section, I can see this by the response, thank you, I really appreciate the  mails, without them we could not get together with our coffee and chat, I have had a lot of mails regarding The Law of Attraction, so I have decided next week to go into more mails and do a complete section on this, so if you wish to be included or there is something in particular you would like to know or understand better let me know early in the week. So today I have selected two very different mails, which I have been asked about more than once.

 

Dear Brooke,

I recently lost my partner in a very unexpected accident, and I really feel I cannot get over this, I have tried so hard but feel that all my illusions in life have fallen away along with all our dreams and hopes of things we wished to do in our future life together. I just feel that I can not go on alone, what can I do ?

 

Dear Friend,

The loss of a loved one, can be very over whelming, but it is normal and also a sign of good mental health. The loss of your loved one explains your level of pain, confusion loneliness and total disconnection with the world as you knew it. Think that as wounds we receive to the body, heal are wounds to our soul also can be cured, but for us to let the scar heal over we need time and care. It is a great thing to be able to talk, share your pain and loss with others, it is also good to feel the connection with other people who feel this way. Exercise is also good for you, to let your mind be focused and a little fresh air are always good, I know it is difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but it is there, I promise, but you also need to look for it and want to find it,you will slowly return to your life and the illusion life can bring. And always remember that your loved one, would always want you to be happy.

Dear Brooke,

I have been divorced for two years, and have a child of 8 years old, some months back I started to see some one and things are looking good for us and we have discussed maybe living together, he is also divorced with three children, the big problem is that my child does not accept him or his children ? And I do not know how to make him understand the situation.

Dear Friend,

No child is prepared for their parents to separate and therefore are not prepared for this situation. You will probably find that your child has a right to protest and worry about this situation, you see for them there is no advantage, on the contrary before the situation, your child would have had you to themselves and know they find that you are to be shared with your new partner and maybe also his children, maybe the fear of your child lies in the thought of you being taken away and the child losing their place in your life. I would suggest that during this transition period, you give as much attention as you can to your child and in simple words that the child understands that you will always be his mother, that  they will continue to be the most important person in your life, and that no one will be taking you away. Although I do not know the situation with the Father, it is important that the child knows that no one will be taking the place of his father. It is important during the process and after a divorce that couples show affection for each other, even if this is purely respect, and the children should never be used in a tug of war, just to get what you want, the child is more important and should come first always, most children live through a divorce well if it is handled by both parents from the beginning. Nobody enjoys a divorce, but it can be simplified for children if parents want this. 

 

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

 

 

FUNDAY……………………

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HAVE A GREAT WEEK-END ❤ ❤ ❤

 

 

Brooke – Universal Life Coach

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

WHY DO WE HAVE TO BE WOMEN -10/10

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Why, are we protective, caring and always pending on every small detail…as women we totally take on far too much to handle on a normal level, but we do it anyway ! This can be in our professional or personal life, but this is a double-sided blade and can be turned on us at any time, it becomes a total obsession which in time turns into total anxiety..

We go over and over our plans, nothing is left out, our thoughts cover every aspect of what we are analysing, we even cover the what if’s, this that or the other should go wrong, we always have a plan B a back up plan !! This can become so bad as an obsession, that you forget to live or how to live…….. you may have a partner you would not notice if your home floated away due to water damage….. everything to them is……..it’s ok, well, for most women it is not ok, and they go the other extreme of over worrying and carry far to many obligations. 

This attitude has always been the sign since the beginning of time, women have always assumed the role of worrying regarding health, to keep the old fire burning and nearly everything for the family as a unit to survive, have you noticed that…..where as the male part of this partnership would be responsable to hunt …..so that the women could clean it and cook ! Many of yesterday’s roles are still very present today, women basically raise the children and worry about them and their welfare, food, money and of course health, and that of the partner also…the women has more contact with disease and illness and the care of family members who may be ill, this is obviously not the case in all family homes, as the male partners seem to be taking on more and more roles within the home and the children. If that is your case, congratulations, every home should have one !!

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Brooke Universal Life Coach 

 

 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com