Why, are we protective, caring and always pending on every small detail…as women we totally take on far too much to handle on a normal level, but we do it anyway ! This can be in our professional or personal life, but this is a double-sided blade and can be turned on us at any time, it becomes a total obsession which in time turns into total anxiety..
We go over and over our plans, nothing is left out, our thoughts cover every aspect of what we are analysing, we even cover the what if’s, this that or the other should go wrong, we always have a plan B a back up plan !! This can become so bad as an obsession, that you forget to live or how to live…….. you may have a partner you would not notice if your home floated away due to water damage….. everything to them is……..it’s ok, well, for most women it is not ok, and they go the other extreme of over worrying and carry far to many obligations.
This attitude has always been the sign since the beginning of time, women have always assumed the role of worrying regarding health, to keep the old fire burning and nearly everything for the family as a unit to survive, have you noticed that…..where as the male part of this partnership would be responsable to hunt …..so that the women could clean it and cook ! Many of yesterday’s roles are still very present today, women basically raise the children and worry about them and their welfare, food, money and of course health, and that of the partner also…the women has more contact with disease and illness and the care of family members who may be ill, this is obviously not the case in all family homes, as the male partners seem to be taking on more and more roles within the home and the children. If that is your case, congratulations, every home should have one !!
Brooke Universal Life Coach