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TIME TO READ…………………………………………………………………..
If you could open a book , and read how you would like things to be , what would you like to read ? …..Do you know how you would like things to be after all the turmoil ?
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If you’re in love or are totally attached to someone, you feel bad,but just can’t leave the person and relationship, you could find that you are totally dependent emotionally and are not sure how to find yourself again…..When we realise that we are in a bad relationship, we tend to blame ourselves, even without knowing we are doing this, are self-confidence takes a dive,we feel that everything we do is inadequate, and we just don’t feel that we are at the same level as our partner, and you feel sure you are going to be left for someone new.
You may also go through the stage of doing everything in your power to improve, change everything in your life, you may even lose sight of your friends and family just to please this person. You may even change the way you dress and speak, thinking that this is how your partner wants to see you, but what is really happening is you as a person, just start to disappear, falling into a bigger and bigger hole of anxiety and despair, you will forget who you are,where you came from and where you are going.You will have moments when you see the situation very clear and no that you should be out of this relationship, but then fear will overcome you and you become totally stuck within this relationship.
This is when we see emotional dependence at it’s greatest we are totally incapable to do , what we know we have to do, in these cases it is absolutely necessary that we react and act. When you know that your partner is not in love with you, people in love do not treat their partners in this way, when you have no or very little contact with your friends and family,when you go along with things that you really do not want to do,when you let go your happiness on a permanent basis and obviously if there is physical or psychological abuse.When you see these signs it is time to leave and not look back, you cannot leave this any longer, you can not allow manipulation anymore or justify these actions, the longer you leave it, the harder it is to get out.
A relationship with dependence is feeling that you need the other, that you want to change them,you feel panic, incapable to leave the relationship, even when we know it is not working, never make plans until you know the plans of the other, thinking that if we were left, life will be unbearable.
A healthy relationship would be full of admiration for the other person, respect, total acceptance, fluid communication and confidence within ourselves. And most important you will feel calm, confident and HAPPY…..
Your happiness is in your hands, not in the hands of another, you can free yourself and live the life you really want or you can suffer….. Is that really the life you want ? I would choose happiness, when you are happy, everyone around you is happy and you deserve the life you have always held a vision for yourself.
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TIME TO GET BACK AT IT…………………………………………………………
It’s time to get back at it, we are all starting to move forward, step by step……….create what you want, it’s time ! Your time………….
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OH THAT COFFEE………………………………………
What ever you are doing this morning, never forget to smell the glorious coffee, it’s Sunday, late mornings and lots of coffee, that’s the aroma of Sunday mornings……
Have a great day
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GOOD MORNING !! ……………………………………………………………………
Many of you will have been back at work, this last week. and also many of you will still be waiting to incorporate once again, into what is going to become our new normality…..so enjoy your weekend as previously and enjoy each moment…..
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SMELL THE ROSES ………………………………………………………
Life is truly beautiful, take in everything it has to offer, its amazing how much that is
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Do you really have the right mindset, or do you only think you might have or you know you do not have the mindset at all !!!!! Don’t despair, we all go through this phase until we truly believe that what you think about, you bring about, this is way your mindset is so important, we read the books, we start to get into the swing of things, then, something happens and we spin out of control……it does not have to be your world falling apart it can at times be a small little hump in the road, but it is enough for that damaging thinking to flood back into our life, it can be as simple as someone getting a parking space before you,so why do we give this silly incident so much power?
It’s mainly because we never treat the source, if we hold at the back of our minds that little doubt, you tell yourself your positive, so positive,but you hold a tiny thought of the unexpected,just waiting for it to raise it’s head….y wow there it is remember WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT,COMES ABOUT….you have to take total control of your own power, you are so powerfull,and it’s all down to you, so how do we get tapped in to our great POWER,where it is natural and not forced thinking,you have to focus on your thoughts,the negativity grows from our damaging thoughts,you see are whole body including the mouth just follow’s the brain, wherever it may go !!! We can control our thoughts, no matter what you may think at the moment,you have to start replacing these damaging thoughts with good thoughts, the second they cross your brain,purposefully replace them, at first you have to work at it, but like everything else after a time, it becomes a habit, and you will do it naturally, the whole process is reversed,everything we do is a question of habit, that’s how the damaging thoughts got there in the first place, we let them take our power, OUR POWER, would you normally give something so personal and important up, to a totally negative thought that is going to give a negative effect in your life, you see you have to realise here that this is all about you, if you eat something that did not agree with you, would you eat it again? I hope your answer was NO, well you have to see this in the same way, we don’t go to places we don’t like, we don’t socialise with people we don’t get along with…and all these decisions we make ourselves through our brain, this is exactly the same, and the outcome of chatting with these thoughts is far greater,than eating or talking to someone we don’t want to, so if we keep that in mind, to change the habit can be easier than we think,you just have to get the right mindset, you would not do anything that you did not like or could actually harm you emotionally or other wise….would you ?
AND…it is most important to mix with people who are positive, negative people will make it very hard for you to change your mindset, all they want to do is talk negative,that’s there life and there choice, NOT YOURS..and they probaly will not want to be around you if you don’t share there pure negativity, you know what they say,Birds of a feather do stick together….so start to make a list of all the things you want to change in your life,along with your damaging thoughts, and start your new train of thought,kick the old habit and get into the new one…remember WHAT YOU THINK,YOU BRING ABOUT…..Happy mindset,happy person,happy life.
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MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE…………………………………………..
We can always change the choice we make…………………………………..
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To live with fear is one of the worst things we can do, I am not talking about being left in the dark, I am talking about permanant fear,everyday because of what we are thinking,fear is one of the strongest emotions we have and at times do not realise how present it is in our lives, it can hide it’s self behind stress, anxiety illness mood swings depression and much more, when we worry about a problem we may have, instead of concentrating on resolving the problem, we let it slide into fear,this can also be seen due to our beliefs,when people suffer from jealousy possession or negativity they will experience fear, always waiting for the inevitable to strike,what they don’t see is that they are probaly calling it to them due to there thoughts,just waiting for things to go wrong,
They do not see fear as fear, until it is pointed out to them, fear disguises it self really well,fear will literally suck you down into the depths,when we associate fear with a fright are body re-acts in a certain way,but when we live our life under constant fear it is very different, as in the case of jealousy, this destroys your life and of the people around you,you are constantly watching listening,your whole life is lived in total tension and those around you again also suffer, when we worry about our children the situation is the same, every time they are out,when they drive, when they travel etc., we can not put them into a safety bubble,as much as we would like to. We need to allow and accept, we do not need to approve, but it is important for you to allow the situation or accept it, when we do this we release the tension and are more capable of finding the right solution, fear will take over your mind and your body. What if you did’nt have to be AFRAID any more
What would it feel like to have absolute control, if you incorporate acceptance and release you are in control, it is your thoughts that create the fear,you let the fear cripple your mind,it’s locks everything down and stops you from moving forward you become stagnant in your own fear,if it is necessary talk to your fear, and let it know, that you have heard the message you accept it for what it is and that you release it, free your mind for better things, you are always in control of this.fear takes it’s place when you feel that you are not in control. To achieve this you need to do two things, develop uncommon thinking and develop good mind habits,the quicker you apply this the better you will feel,put a stop to running around in circles,trapped forever within your fear. Don’t sabotage yourself anymore with depression or anxiety,recognize that you have control of your mind, that you accept and live in the present now, accept and release those inner feelings of personal traumas and insecurity,step out of your comfort zone,stress in any form steals your energy, take your life out of the fear zone and live.
Brooke Universal Life Coach
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Would love to hear your opinions and comments …………………………………….
Hi Everyone,
I have some great news, which I am so excited to share with you all, and I hope it will be of interest to yourselves or maybe someone you know.
I have a partnership with a great friend of mine Adda Hafborg, (The Umbrella of Success) and we have built a course on “The Law of Attraction combination with A Step by Step Business Formula” that we truly believe will assist you on your journey to becoming an inspiring Entrepreneur, the first steps into your Entrepreneur Lifestyle you would love or maybe you just want to be the best version of yourself, remember knowledge is always power, we can never have to much.
I wish to take this opportunity to ask you a question, would you be interested in getting a discount for a lifetime access to this kind of course?
We aim to launch this in mid- June and would love to hear what you think.
I am looking forward to hearing from you regarding this , your opinion and comments to me are so important,
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REMEMBER……………………………………………………………………….
Your total magic and much more ………………………..
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DID YOU KNOW………………………………………………………………….
We are surrounded by Power, the secret is knowing how to use you ?
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