LOVE CAN ALSO HURT…..

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” Everyone says, that love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts, Rejection hurts,Losing hurts “

We have probaly all had a broken heart at some time, and for those of you that have’nt I hope you don’t, Love is a strange thing, even at times it’s difficult to really know if we are in love, it is so easy to get into the confusion of habit, and at times even from a sense of duty, we put other things first, and this helps us to stay convinced that we are happy and in love ? when there is a situation of this nature you really cannot think of others you need to come first, because as they say if you are not happy how can you make another or the people that surround you, especially if we are considering close family and children, they are the most intuative in these situations and maybe even realise the problem, before we do ourselves, close friends don’t take long to pick up on it either. When this happen’s both parties can be hurt, not just the one that is left, when people have been together over a period of time, nobody never really wants the other to suffer,because there is still a form of love, not the love you would find with your soul mate, it’s a consideration love, and some if we are lucky know that you don’t deserve to be hurt, but life must go on, and the aim is to be happy, including the other person, on the other hand, love not only hurts it can be a tremendous pain, like a train you never saw coming, this is where deception has taken place, and who you thought that you were the most special person in the world, gets thrown away like something that has broken, the following day, and even more pain is inflicted if you are left for someone else, your mind goes into over drive and along with the pain you have to add anger, you start to put things together, and sadly you those faith.

When this happens it shakes our total foundation of trust, we start the battle, the problem being is that the battle is with ourselves, we doubt everything,we even doubt love, and it is these moments of pain, hurt, betrayal we can even lose our path in live for a while,BUT, remember yourself, you know deep in that broken heart of yours that you did not deserve this, or maybe you had your blame, but you accept this, you own it and you must start to live your life again, happy, love hurts, it is risk we have to take, but love also heals and we know that, if we did’nt why does everyone keep searching for it ? think about it, yes for a while we all say never again, but when we least expect it, wow there it is again…. You can’t look for it, love will find you and your lucky new partner, they are honoured to have you, remember we are all unique, and have lots to give and receive, never cry tears for anyone who really does not deserve them. If you have had a broken heart you know that in the end, everything gets back on the path of life, if you are going through a broken heart right now, sit back, take a deep breath I know it hurts and is painfull, but you need to own this, take control, you are in control of yourself always, you are important to yourself and everyone around you, you are strong,emotionally strong and can do this, you deserve to be happy. Enjoy your life, enjoy love, no more pain, you deserve everything wonderful life has to offer.

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About theutopiauniverse

It's time to payback all the good in our lives,to pass to each other everything we have learned,the knowledge we have stored within, and the love we have to share. I am a fully qualified Psychologist,Life Coach,Performance Consultant & LOA Practitioner. I have shared this blog with everyone since February 2013, I have been able to help many,but also been helped by many,this I am truly grateful for and thank everyone for your support and advice.Should you wish to contact me, please feel free to do so,my email is open to you all. I look forward to hearing from you.
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3 Responses to LOVE CAN ALSO HURT…..

  1. It’s timely that you write this post. Love starts by loving yourself – and like you said, we all deserve to be happy! To more love around the world!! 🙂

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  2. Thank you for your comment, let’s hope we can move love around the world, what a great day

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