Personality – Is a patterned body of habits, traits, attitudes and ideas of an individual. Character or behaviour, that are peculiar to a specific person.
Personality – The visible aspect of one’s character as it impresses others. A set of emotional qualities, ways of behaving that makes a person different from other people. Personality has to do with individual differences among people in behaviour patterns, cognition. ” Personality is the type of person you are, shown by the way you behave, feel and think “
Personality – Is the product of social interaction in group life. It refers to the habits, attitudes, find it’s types, traits and personality development.
When we look at personalities, we tend to focus on two area’s, sociability and irritability and seeing how the different parts come together as a whole. Everyone is different as we have mentioned many times, personalities can be formed on past history, genetics, abuse and many more factors. A big personality factor can be fear, on a positive note it can be love, happiness, security however, what ever personality we may have, we can have enough love for ourselves to seek help, or take help when it is offered to take control of a problem, if one appears in our personality.
No two people are truly alike, we do not share experiences in the same way, we do not share the same mind or perspective of things. Between common humanity and unique individuality – lives your personality. Through human nature we all share basics but we have different ways of thinking, feeling and acting. Are you talkative and outgoing or are you quiet and reserved, what ever personality you may have, it is important that it is representing you in it’s best possible light, you cannot change your basic personality but you can certainly enhance it, by bringing in personal growth and your experiences, by treating people how you would like to be treated and to remember that everyone is different, some are quicker than others, some live by detail, they can be academic or totally creative, but no one is less than another, we all are capable of putting in our little seed to grow wonderful things, we can gain more patience, become more caring, all these things and many more are within our possibilities and can be incorporated into our daily life. When we meet someone for the first time, our image and our personality is are visiting card, it is what they will remember and judge us by, whether this is fair or not is a good subject for a debate, but it is true, so, let your personality shine along with you as a whole, give that ever lasting impression, just think what you would like to see and receive. You are not changing your personality, you were born with it, but, you can make the most of it and enhance the areas you would like to, the same as you enhance your best body features, this will give you the perfect presentation card.
Brooke Universal Life Coach
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Obligation – Something by which a person is bound or obliged to do certain things, and which arises out of a sense of duty or results from custom, law etc., A duty or commitment.
A social, legal or moral requirement such as a duty, contract or promise that compels one to follow or avoid a particular course of action. Bond on moral duty (whether of necessity of one’s own choosing) that tie’s two or more parties together.
Obligation – As a mother, father,sister, brother, grandparent, wife, husband, son, daughter, employee, employer and everyday citizen, BUT do you see yourself on this list, as a person in body and soul just you, without an added title… you should be number 1, because to be any of the above, your obligation to yourself sets the key to all the rest. Unfortunately while dealing with the tasks of the above, we totally forget ourselves, in many ways, we get bogged down being great for everyone else.
When we with hold the same obligation to ourselves, respect, wellbeing, cared for we become a better version of ourselves, we are healthier, more understanding and considerate, as we live it in the first person. If you do not hold this obligation for yourself, who will ? At times we cannot explain why we do things, but just feel that we have to,this is an obligation that you really do not want, we can never avoid some obligation’s whether we want them or not, but certainly feel compelled to do them. I know you will know which these are, but lets get back to ourselves, the obligation we have for ourselves is to always do the best we can for ourselves, however, on many occasions we tend to put our own needs on the back burner, due to obligations we feel are more pressing, this is not right, your first obligation lies with you, you are not second to anyone or anything, this is not being selfish, it is consideration to yourself, it is the love you feel within for yourself, how you absorb knowledge on a daily basis, and grow on a continual day to day learning curve, whether it be academic or everyday life experiences, without this we have nothing to pass on to the people who surround us, people who maybe need our obligation to them and also need to grow within their own right and see their obligations in the right way. We all have obligations, we cannot get away from that fact, but when we really understand an obligation they can be a little easier to carry, first start with yourself and work from the inside out.
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