Here we are, mid January, wow where did that go, it’s amazing how quickly time flies,but the most important thing is, how are you feeling, are you still ready to make 2016 your year ? Are you still on track ? working towards your goals and what you want to achieve this year ?
Since the beginning of the year I have posted numerous blogs, most with the aim to help you with seeing things from a different view point, we have covered Inspiration, and Love (that was a tricky one) we then went over the first steps and the attempt to identify toxic friends and family, we touched on meditation which I will be going back to shortly,(once you really get the hang of it, you will get great benefit) then we went to confidence, we all need confidence, and how to build on that will be another post again in the near future, we went through the Law of Attraction, I hoped you really enjoyed that blog, we came to terms about our own power, and of course if you don’t have a go, you will never know the result, then we hopefully opened your mind for you to look inside for your purpose in life, your gift, we all have one and the last post yesterday was about the fear we feel, usually before it happens….. if you missed any of these posts or all of them, you can find them all below this post, I hope they have been or will be of help to you. As from tomorrow I will be posting my answers to all the mails and comments I have received over the last ten days, if you would like to include anything in these posts, please feel free to contact me, I will be happy to include them.
Once again I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone for your emails and comments, and hope that the next couple of days will be of interest to you.
Why is fear present in our life, how does it appear in our life, it is actualy part of our emotional pain, and you know a little fear is actually good for our own protection. We know fire can burn, so we don’t put our fingers in….Do we ?
So, we have established that you are not going to put your fingers in the fire, right …but we dont because we know we will burn ourselves, not by fear. You see we dont have to have fear, to have common sense, and we learn these things as we grow and our everyday experiences. Now if we were pushed into a corner at knife point it’s possible you will feel fear, you instantly want to get away from this situation, but this is not physcological fear , this kind of fear is set apart from any real or imediate fear. Physcological fear can be felt in many ways, worry, nerves, anxiety tension fobias etc., it is always associated with things that could happen, not something that is happening. We are in the NOW but your mind is in the future, this creates anxiety you have temporary lost your power, and within the simplicity of NOW your anxiety will continue. Although we identify this in our minds, our ego directs our life, due to our defense tools and our fantasy mind, our ego is vulnerable and not sure of its self,this makes us feel afraid continually. Emotions are created by our body/mind reaction, so the message from our ego although false is sent by our mind, we are afraid, the emotion we feel is FEAR….FEAR can be brought on by many things, our fear of failure,our fear of loss, our fear of being hurt etc., all related to our ego, many war and relationships have ended badly, by our ego, sending the message of, we have fear of………….whatever it is. When we realise this our NOW could be different, when we stop allowing our ego to send those messages, when we connect with our power again, we are back in control, and therefore can handle our fear from within and not from our ego, when we allow our ego to direct our life, we are never totally calm and at peace, you will only feel at peace for short periods when you obtain what you wish, you will always need to feed your ego through material objects, status , how you look etc., this is not really you, it is your ego at work… Do you feel fear knowing this or do you feel relieved only you can make this decision, in the NOW the closer you are to your true self and believes about yourself, the density of fear is less, the more you see yourself as someone you are not, the fear can be felt on an increase. Your ego has a lot to answer for here.
There are many ways to see a gift, everyday a new way to focus or express a gift is formed, Life is a gift, but many don’t see this, all the experiences we have positive or other wise is a gift, the people that share your life are gifts, they are presented to us to transform and fill our lifes, to be aware of what is around us and everything that is in this world, because we have the gift, we all have a gift, a purpose in life, when we know our purpose is when our gift truly shines. We do not have to be Mother Teresa or Ghandi , we all have a gift to give.
You have to believe it is not difficult to find, it is in you, and has always been with you, all your life, it is exclusively yours,unique to you and your persona, it can be described as your nature, the essence of yourself that is in harmony with the universe, your passion, your calling, your love and happiness that you share with the world. The secret is to know yourself, every part of you and your thoughts how you react to situations in and around you. Many times in our life we take a lot of our time, trying to see how another person is, what makes them tick, sometimes we get it right, but sometimes we don’t. But, do we ever really do the same for ourselves, probaly not, it is never to late to get to know your self, the important thing here, is to do it, to know yourself so well, the good, the not so good and the ugly as they say.This is the moment of truth with yourself, if you don’t know yourself to well, or if you are still searching for your true purpose, your gift, this journey is about honesty, understanding and appreciation of your personal essence. Don’t think of anything you do badly, only think of the things you are good at, don’t think of what other’s say about you,it is your opinion that counts, and only that, this is your emotions, thoughts, your gift is full of patience and if it has waited a long time to be found this is not a problem, anyone who has found their gift will tell you that you need to be strong and disciplined, and a promise to follow your heart, your inner intuition, it’s not enough to just give attention, you have to go to where this may direct you, and give enough strength to your gift for it to spring into life. We are all capable of finding our gift, maybe many things we have already realised in our life has taken us down the road to our gift, but not quite there, you can be so close, which is why you should never give up, your gift could lie in your business, that extra strength and honesty may take you that last mile to be extremley successful, it could be a hobby, do you paint, write good at interacting with others, you just never know how close you are. Accept the possibility that your gift exists and that you are special unique in every way, you can give and receive love and you are more than qualified to find your gift, your purpose in life. If you find your gift,and your purpose is something that you have never done, something totally new, don’t be afraid, get in touch with your strength, it’s waiting for you, find the knowledge you need, things will start to fall into place for you and start your journey towards your gift. Your purpose and you belong together, you will be happy and in harmony with the universe and your true self. Step up, step out and step forward.
In my last post, we went over the power of our mind,for it to act in order to get us what we want. A little proof on that would be, that at this moment in time you are reading this blog,and you know why ? you gave it that order, and that is the only reason you are reading this right now, so let’s experiment a little more, if you now request to look in front of you, you are going to do it, please try, right now… thank you for that, now give the order to rub your neck, please try it, What you have just done is really important, your body is the most wonderful machine in the universe, and it totally follows your instructions from your mind and some of the million’s of neurons have heard your order and it moved your muscles, bones everything it needs for your hand and your neck to make and feel the contact, pretty amazing when you think about it like this, now try this, close your eyes and rub your neck again with slow soft movements, concentrate on this and feel the difference in this procedure ,do this for at least a minute !!! It’s really quite nice ? Have you finished ? I hope you will see that this exercise was repeated with the concentration and your eyes closed, it felt much longer than the last time, apart from giving the same order, you added concentration and that enable your mind to open further and therefore enjoy the experience a little more, and you acheivied this by the simple fact of trying it. While you are not prepared to go for what you want, your dreams are just a hope in your sleep. To convert your dreams to reality, justify the existance, therefore to make it possible you are always required to be awake/alert.
You need to focus your intention and the tremendous energy of your nueronos in one direction, there is no room here for doubt, you are told if you want something really want something, in the end you will have it,this is luke warm, however this does serve to get your desire going, but never forget the action, if you want to hunt, go where there is game, there are many places to go, but in your garden you are not going to find it. To find what you desire, you have to ask, read, move and get as close as you can to that desire, you need to force yourself out of your comfort zone to find your opportunites, which is the meeting place between your desire and your reality. When you find your opportunity always be aware that this is the first step on your journey to where you want to go, but you must always take that opportunity time and time again, or maybe only once, that depends on where you want to go, The present is always the best moment to better your future.
From all the emails I have received, what is most referred to is regarding the Law of Attraction, first you must realise that the Law of Attraction is made of numerous Laws, but today we are going to look at the principal Law, being Attraction, “like attracts like” and I hope my explanation will be the key to you really coming to terms on how this Law works.
When you are told that you can design your life, it really is true, this is not wishful thinking, you can create the life you want, the whole process is you, this is what I personally love so much, how many times have we said, I can’t at the moment,…………………. I am waiting for……………………..whatever it maybe, we wait for the right time, the right finance, people the list is never ending, and are wanted life is always put on hold, this is not the case, it is you, and only you that you need to create the life you want! I cannot express this enough, If you really get this concept, you can be on your way to the life you want and deserve, You are totally responsable and it does not depend on any other factor. You have a choice everyday, but most of us don’t see or realise this, this is not always our fault, but we can put a stop to this, when we say No and reject certain things into our life, we are actually telling the universe yes, so we just get more of the same, WHY because we are giving these subjects alot of thought we think about them to much, whether it is through jealousy or you are just so bored and fed up with your present life, we tend to go on and on about this,when you see things that you would like in your life, open up your heart and love it, don’t see it as impossible, the job, the car, the house, the perfect partner what ever it is you desire in your life, if you see others with what you want, don’t feel bad, or feel envy or jealousy, just love what you see, because you want it in your life, this will bring it towards you and not away from you, if you have a car for example that you would love to have for yourself, when you view this car with love for yourself to own, you will start to see this car every where you go, this is the universe bringing this car closer and closer to you, beleive in yourself and beleive that you can create the life that you want, never have doubt or fear, if you are a person that is continually judging others and complaining about things, you will find it more difficult until you change this attitude, the purpose of your life is to be happy, and to love, you must know how to turn away from what you dont love. When you see things in life that you would like to incorporate into your life, you have to understand that this is a form of showing what is there by the universe, you then choose which things you want, love them and start to attract them more into your life. What ever you are struggling with, see the good, see the love that surrounds those things,by doing this, that is what you are choosing for yourself.Life will present you with all you want, don’t repell anything that you want. Feel good when you hear news of good things happening to others, the same way you would feel for yourself, this is how to attract exactly what you want, this may sound very repetative, but it is the way it is, and my objective is for us all to have the life we personally create and not created for us, when you start to see the things you want, it is because you are on the right and same frequency as those things, feel great about this, because you are creating this situation. through love you are attracting in a positive way, trying to create with jealousy by judging, bad thoughts you will only attract the same, negativity.
For all circumstances and situations, you must think of you, and only you, this is how the Law of Attraction works, the Law works with your feelings, so you are the only one, always, so this makes it the Law of You !! This is why when you judge, criticise, think or say bad things about others you are bringing those things to yourself, when you give love and appreciation to others you give it to yourself. when you reject something for your life in silence and without feelings and thought you will not include it in your life. It is what we say,feel and think that is heard by the universe, the universe hears and feels everything,we are never alone with our thoughts, what we feel and what we say, the universe is always with us and negative things have no place in your life. Everything you say yes to, you are giving it an opening into your life, if that is what you wish. There is no shortage of anything in this world, there are no limitations on anyone and everything is possible. You are on the point of starting your incredible journey, there is nothing you cannot do, or acheive, it is in your hands, write down everything you would like in your life, writing is a powerful thing, and start to notice how often these things start to appear in your life, you will see them every where and the opportunities will start to come forward, give love to whatever you want to be, do, or have and beleive in yourself always, you are worthy fo everything you desire, if you feel bad about something previous in your life, don’t worry if you take acceptance of this, for the Law of Attraction it is forgotten, the universe does not judge, it does not hold opinions, it is there purely for you.
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