A beautiful person this makes you ! When we live within this ring of happiness , take life as it comes grow learn and always enjoy ❤

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What a great way to start the day ❤

Universal Life Coach

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http://www.facebookcom/brookesmitham

Once you make that decision, everything wonderful is going to happen…… Are you ready, are you kind to yourself, and I really hope you stop finding and counting all the mistakes you make, and start adding up all of your accomplishments. These are some of the things you need to prepare to open up that great door to a new life, you have to be brave, but, why would you be afraid of yourself, you would not, right, we imagine we are afraid of other things, but it is what we think, which in turn makes us feel anxious and yes afraid, now, if we change the way we think about these things and see joy, food maybe even a challenge if you wish,but, you are not looking at fear…………………………..

You have to realise, how fortunate you are to make this decision, not everyone has it in them to go for a new life, and we have to admit not everyone wants to, many people are happy in their lives and this we should always respect, but if you wish to turn your life around and have another go, why not, where is the golden rule written that says NO, it is all back to how we were educated in our early years, on how to run our lives, but things go wrong, they don’t work out how we wish, sometimes we don’t choose to change our lives, it is changed for us, but these are circumstances that we must learn to accept, and then adapt and enjoy our new life, our new journey that we were not expecting, wallowing in self pity and what would of been, is not going to give you a happy life, and even if the most tragic circumstances brought us to this point,you must be brave enough to sit and think, is this what others would want for us, I think deep down we all know the answer to this question………………………and we have to accept it,taking in all situations and sadness, life can be enjoyed again, everyday can bring something different, you just have to be brave enough to look at it.

When we make this great decision to start a new life, this new chapter is more down to you than ever, if you think about previously, we are all our own masters, but at times we are guided by parents, family, friends and partners in life, but when we suddenly decide to start a fresh, you are the only author, do it,how you would wish it to be, whether you are seeking, peace, a new relationship, job or even country, or maybe at first you are not even sure, give yourself the time you need to adapt and to follow your gut, your instinct, your own intuition and personal GPS, usually the first step is a new surrounding, a new home, this can be very intimidating as our home is where we feel safe and special to ourselves, and moving away from that, can be a traumatic experience for many, try as hard as you can to see this as just bricks (easy to say, difficult to digest) and that a home is what you do, what you express within those walls and it is you that can rekindle that feeling and ambience, not anyone else,you have that power and you are your own great creator, this is your first step completed,know you have to seek your security,maybe this is via a new job or even working from home, which seems to be very the mode, in this day and age, try to find the perfect fit for you, remember you are writing these chapters so try to get things as near as perfect to what you want as possible, you can now for maybe the first time in a long time, spread your wings and feel calm, at times, once we make the decision we are looking for, a calm instantly takes over our mind and body, this is when we realise the torment we have been putting ourselves under, and you also realise you do it all by yourself, we really do not need any outside help to turn our lives upside down, we are very capable of doing it ourselves, and when it is from the outside, we usually add and add to the pain and hardship of how to deal with it all, as we close our space for clarity and to be able to think clearly.

This is a great quote, and so true, because at some point we cannot fix what is broken, it breaks so many times it is impossible, and we are just left with a complex mess of a thousand pieces, this is not and should not be our life, we can start again and learn from our mistakes if necessary, Never be afraid or ashamed to start a new life, we all deserve the best and we don’t always find it at the moment, we have to wait for the right moment to come along, everything we do in life, is for a reason, at times we find this hard to comprehend, but somewhere, somehow there is a lesson to be learnt from what we go through, no matter how hard it may be at the time, you do not need to find this instantly, take your time let your thoughts and intuition work for you, just remember that when you choose a new path, a new journey, keep going one step at a time……………………….

Brooke Universal Life Coach

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Well, this was my last choice, I really needed a Sunday office…………….can’t complain really nice view, natural air-con and coffee close by, what more could I ask for, even if I do work on a Sunday !!

Have a great day ❤

Universal Life Coach

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

http://www.facebookcom/brookesmitham

Time to take a break, get out of the house and into the countryside or nearest park, have a one to one with nature, breath in breath out and return totally refreshed !

Have a great Saturday ❤

Do you feel comfortable being yourself, and do you think you are yourself when you meet people or some one new, or even just people in general ……….or are we always trying to be someone else, maybe someone we admire and really want to be,you know, even if you could change yourself piece for piece to be like someone else,you will never be them, we are unique which I have talked about many times, over and over, and our personality, charisma talents whatever you wish to call it is what attracts other people to you, yes we like to think we are attractive on the outside and we should look after the way we style and groom ourselves, but who you are at the core should be what truly attracts another person.

There are many stunning people in this world but if we base our choice, just on that, we may find the person inside has nothing in common with ourselves at all !! Then what do we do, our perfect partner just drifts away, goes up in smoke or simply becomes a stranger to us, with no connection at all, when we choose our partner, there are many things that need to line up, by this I do not mean we should spend time, simply looking for all the plus signs, this would only lead to a very mechanical relationships built on perfect partnerships, things need to flow between two people, a connection needs to be made, this does not mean either that you both have to love doing all the same things, to have different interests is not a bad thing ,this is only a problem when a lack of maturity is in the relationship and jealousy steps in, this is one of the worst enemies within a couple, as jealousy can kill anything and does, sooner or later.

To form a perfect partnership, you have to be sure of yourself, to know who you are and where you wish to go, when you feel confident within yourself you can be open and show exactly who you are, be proud of that and never hide away from yourself, no matter what it is you fear, when you are in a serious relationship, you have to face it……………………………….and remember your self worth, you are entering into a relationship where you represent half, 50%, there are always days when your input maybe more or less, but you have to find a balance where both parties are happy, and that the relationships work on a fair and level basis.

Never feel that your intellect must not shine through, those days really are behind our society of today, many people are loved for their intelligence and how they conduct themselves within certain events and circumstances,all of these things make up who we are and can attract people to us, how many times have you heard the comment, I don’t know what it is about that person, but they attract people to them everytime they appear……………………. this is when their charisma or what we wish to call it comes through, it can even be what we wear, you may remember a long time ago I wrote a blog regarding ourselves as our presentation card, and this is so true, people form opinions on what they see and hear, and first impressions count……..always feel comfortable in your own skin and who you are.

Brooke Universal Life Coach

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

http://www.facebookcom/brookesmitham

Never forget, this guy, knew his stuff !! Believe in what he says, it’s all good advice ❤

Universal Life Coach

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

http://www.facebookcom/brookesmitham

This is how we realise the importance of our attitude, it simply makes up everything !! Always remember to have your best attitude with you at all times, it could mean the difference to a happy or not so happy life ❤

Universal Life Coach

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

http://www.facebookcom/brookesmitham

Do you know how lucky we are, to be able to say Good Morning everyday to our friends and the people we love, step out breath in and feel good, it’s great to be alive !

Universal Life Coach

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

http://www.facebookcom/brookesmitham