Do we really know who we are ? It is one of the biggest jobs we probably ever take on, it is no easy task knowing who we are, and if once we know who we are, are we happy with what we find. The best kept secret regarding happiness is being happy with who and where we are and making the most of everyday and opportunity that comes our way. We take on board what others have to say, if they don’t know you, why worry,it is not anything personal,it may come more from envy or lack of information, don’t give it any focus, you only need to focus on you and what is happening directly with you and your surrounding.
You are responsible for your happiness, never depend on anyone else to make you happy, if you are single and unhappy, you will not be any different with or without a partner, until you resolve your own inner happiness, happiness does not always mean you have everything you want, it means being happy and loving what you do have and being grateful for it. Another way of finding happiness is having the ability of letting go of what is necessary, your excess baggage and what you know is a handicap to your progress. This does not make you selfish or a person with no feelings, you just need to be more aware and never let your happiness depend on someone else.
Once you find your own life and you are happy with it, you are then in a situation to share it with people of your choice, you may come up against opposition with friends or family, but it is highly probable that they are not happy with themselves, so how can they be happy for anyone else.Just think of how many times you may have given something up, but you didn’t you kept going, happiness is a choice, not a result, nothing will make you happy until you make that decision to be happy, no one can do this for you, happiness wil not arrive on your lap, it can only come from you.
Every love story is beautiful, but yours with yourself, should be your favourite.
The health benefits of being open to the universe and using our inner power and positive thinking, from the beginning of the day can truly change the outcome of the whole day, and eventually your whole life when they form a daily habit in your life.With using positive thoughts regarding your future and how you see that future is far more important than how you saw your past, by maintaining a positive attitude (mind-set) you are giving yourself power over your circumstances, instead of your circumstances having power over you, positive thinking sets you free to be able to do everything better than negative thoughts. It has been said that positive thinking enables you to see the invisible, feel the intangible and reach the impossible.
It has also been said, The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his/her future by merely changing their attitude.
Don’t pay attention or focus on matters you cannot change, put your attention on what you can ! It is your energy, your mind-set your attitude.
Brooke – universal Coaching.