MISUNDERSTOOD ?

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Misunderstood, what a word ! Do you know how many emotions can be involved in the meaning of misunderstood, we all feel misunderstood at some point in our life, it can bring, frustration, hurt, pain, even love.

Misunderstood, is usually when the other person/s hears you,but does not listen, misunderstood is not some one shouting out I’m right, quite the opposite it is having the goodness of heart to see another’s point of view and respecting that, the same as you, to understand is not to agree, this is when you see the true person in front of you, and at times we don’t see the person we know, we see someone we don’t know, we all look for good in another, but, at times, some people lose that, they lose their heart, it just is not big enough to love and comprehend that of the person they are confronting

The quote above has an excellent truth in it, have you ever thought of this in this way, maybe this closed of heart that maybe is being directed at you, has far more issues than you. This is not your problem, and you should not take this responsibility on, it’s not your’s it’s their’s. This may sound harsh, but at times life is. When you have experienced being misunderstood, and have gone through your frustration, hurt, pain and many more emotions, a moment will come when you remember yourself, and not the one you are trying desperately to communicate with, you know a square won’t go into a circle, right,,something somewhere will be broken, when we drop a beautiful vase, the first time maybe can be repaired, but the more we drop it, the more difficult it is to fix, so it has to be removed, because it is not pretty enough to be on display, we try with human relationships not to be so drastic but at times the inevitable is the inevitable and you need to care for yourself, before you become the broken vase, you owe it to yourself to be whole, half or pieces of you are not good enough, you are worth more, and a piece of you deep down will know that, look for that, find it and rise, restore yourself, the issue is not you, you have tried, you have done your best, for good or bad results, nothing more than your best, you cannot do more and should not feel that this is all down to you, it is not.Sometimes we just have to realise that the other has greater issues than you, which only they can resolve and if they do, your heart will be bigger and stronger to make decisions, where their’s were not. 

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About theutopiauniverse

It's time to payback all the good in our lives,to pass to each other everything we have learned,the knowledge we have stored within, and the love we have to share. I am a fully qualified Psychologist,Life Coach,Performance Consultant & LOA Practitioner. I have shared this blog with everyone since February 2013, I have been able to help many,but also been helped by many,this I am truly grateful for and thank everyone for your support and advice.Should you wish to contact me, please feel free to do so,my email is open to you all. I look forward to hearing from you.
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2 Responses to MISUNDERSTOOD ?

  1. Miriam says:

    So true, being misunderstood can lead to so much heartache if we don’t fix it.

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  2. So true, this is where my inspiration came from xx

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