You have to know in your heart that you are ready to be open to love, relationships can take a long time, it’s takes time to allow commitment to form, and the first rule you need to know is the importance of loving yourself first, because this will help you to love others. For a relationship to be strong with lots of love there has to be great communication and honesty between you and the love of your life you are looking for. While you are looking for the love of your life, don’t look to hard because they will be waiting for you, when you start to do things you love, you have to let go of the life you thought you would have had, as to have the life that is waiting for you.
Destiny always plays a role in this chance meeting of the love of your life, be in the right place at the right time, there is always a place where you feel comfortable and you let your personality shine out, you know where you like to go, just be there.And whatever you do, don’t let a past bad relationship keep you from finding the love of your life. You have to go, at times through bad days, to get to the best days of your life. Anyone can appear in your life and whisper how much they love you but it needs someone super special to stay in your life and to show how much they love you.
You have to be able to see the difference between loving a person and just loving the affection he or she shows you, also love can become a habit when your not looking, so you also have to be certain you have not fallen into a routine trap which is not a healthy habit. When we are in love it feels good, and this at times can be to strong to see true thoughts about your loved one, make sure you see their true qualities and not the one’s you wish to see. Anyone can make you smile, others can make you cry, and then the love of your life can make you smile with tears in your eyes. And also don’t panic, when you start to follow your heart you may feel you are going crazy in the process.
It is important to form an emotional link with this special person before a physical one, however if the physical bond comes first it will not stop you from having an emotional bond, it just takes a little longer and is a little more difficult, you have to let your instints help you when meeting this special person, you need to trust yourself and the decisions you make,be comfortable and patient take your time be open to new situations in what you refer to as love. On many occasions we enter relationships with baggage, if this is the case assure yourself that they will help you to unpack.
And finally if you find the love of your life, hold on tight it could be the most fantastic journey of your life.
“Being a family means you are a part of something very wonderful. It means you will love and be loved for the rest of your life”