Do you believe that things happen for a reason ? Do you believe in good luck and bad luck ? Or do you feel we make our own luck, simply by the way we believe in things, when we see people who seem to have a perfect life, with everything they desire just falls into their laps, do you think they are lucky ? OR could it be that they see an opportunity and take it, without fear,they take that risk,they follow their dreams and their inner voice, they see the positive side of each situation and do not concentrate on the bad.

Every situation has a good and bad side, for however big or small the obstacle may be, it is having the ability to focus on the good that brings you the outcome you are looking or hoping for. At times situations are delayed, are overdue promotion or our tax return, when it does happen, maybe we can see why the delay occurred, is the promotion now the perfect time, because you are now more prepared,because your car is now in good shape and would have been a problem for you at the time….you have now moved and feel less stress free to cope with your new responsibilities, we never know the why till later, but if we take it from the beginning as a positive sign, as opposed to negative, you will feel better and will probably get the result we want, it is difficult to see when we have it right in front of us, but, there is always a valid reason for the initial obstacle, it could even be as simple as having more free time to care or share for someone or something, the tax refund could maybe later   be used on something far more important to you than maybe just a unimportant thing at the time, something you really want and will enjoy in another way, even when are holidays are changed at the last-minute, an important meeting is changed, there is a reason, a good reason if you take it onboard in the right way, maybe you result in obtaining an upgrade for your holiday plan, some form of compensation and your changed meeting gives you the excellent result you were hoping for, the way you thing and feel will influence the end result,your positivity will attract more positivity,like wise with negativity. The vibrations that we send out are the vibrations we receive back, it is impossible to feel happy all the time,I do not believe that anyone can be highly happy 24/7…….. we are not made that way, however we can have a positive and confident outlook and believe in ourselves, many of my blogs are associated to this, this is another way of seeing it,you are the one who shapes your destiny in life, to see the good and not all bad, there is good in every situation of our lives, and we have to apply this, look for the good and you will find it, you may not see it immediately, but you may be able to look back on previous situations as a reference and see that good did come out of it and not all the bad you maybe thought. If it did not work that way for you, try to remember how you were at that time, maybe more negative than positive, what were your believes at that time ?