Here we go, the wonderful word LOVE, it can mean so much to one and so little to another, then of course we have the different variety’s of love, it comes in all shapes and sizes, love for ourselves, love for others, love of our work, love of our life, love of our home, surroundings, places and so on and so on, the list is never ending. But, do we know how to measure or realise these different types, or do we mess them all up in a big bundle and trudge on through life, never really knowing the high’s and low’s of true love, love with passion, objective love and of course pain caused by love.
We cannot measure love, like heat or strength but we feel it with great intensity, we can even go from love to hate in a second, this is only for a moment, but our emotion’s allow this to happen, once we start to reflect on these feelings, we realise this is not really possible to that degree, when we have loved, something will always remain and it does not have to be bad, no matter what experience we may have had, it is also not a good thing to only remain with the bad, as difficult as this may feel at the moment of this happening, when we live with bad feelings towards someone or a situation, we actually are hurting ourselves alot more than we realise, we have to learn to handle this in the right way, again as they say, to forgive and forget is easier said than done, some of us can, others not so easily, but we can allow as we have mentioned many times, we can allow, we can accept the outcome and this leaves us able to carry on with our life without creating excess emotional baggage, and hopefully love again, obviously we are talking about one to one personal relationships here,it is important that we see that no two people are the same, and if the pattern was to repeat itself, then we must look to ourselves to find the answer to this repetition (This is another topic, that we can look at another day)
Love is probaly one of the most difficult topics to write about, due to us all feeling on different levels, and of course we are all unique in everything we do, we all hold points of view on how and when we should love, and this does actually lead us all to one thing, we never know when love is going to flourish, with who and the why behind it, in cases they say opposite’s attract, in some they are so alike they could be one person, we all look for different things in love, a partner to travel through life with, someone who always listen’s when we speak, someone who without saying a word, know’s exactly the message we are sending just by a look, whatever it is, it does happen to everyone at some point in our life, many hold and cherish it for a lifetime and some just let it go, without a second thought, and some are so afraid they run away from the happiness that this could actually bring them, we all have different reason’s for the way we embrace or not our emotional states.
However, what we should never do, is live our life without love, whether it be for your favourite pet, parents,siblings, etc., we all deserve love, to give and to recieve, both reward us with a wonderful feeling, and we all have a right to this, never turn away from love from anyone or anything, a heart without love , is like a flower without water, when we have love in our life, we flourish in different ways,we see things in distint ways and the colour of our life is warm and endearing.
Love also should be filled with understanding and respect, without these two factors, maybe love cannot exist, unfortunately very bad things happen in the name of love, we all know that this is not love,which is why I say the name of love, you cannot physically or emotionally hurt someone or something for love, this can be used at times as a bad excuse for other underlying feelings and problems.
We all hope that in the end, love can conquer all and be spread around the world in the best way and form we know how, if we send out love we recieve love, just think of the panorama if the world were to take on this point of view, what a wonderful world we live in and even more so could be even greater, don’t wait, send out your love, more love than normal and live your life in a world of love .
Where do we find our inspiration, do we look to others, do we look at our surroundings, or our we just full of inspiration all day, everyday ! Most of us are not, inspriration is generally something that comes and goes, but is very important, it is key to keeping on track , and it should never be wasted, when we have idea’s flowing through our minds, if we do not take the necessary action, it will be lost, it will just disappear, like water down the sink… If you are a person who often has great idea’s and inspiration, I suggest a small note book, write them down straight away, before the moment is lost, this way you can go back to them at a later date, and the same inspiration will be there, as clear as the water that would of gone down the sink, we think we will remember,but we don’t, especially if you have many Ha Ha moments a day, also, by writing these idea’s down, you are in a way starting your action, this is very important, you will also find that by looking back on your idea, you probaly will be capable of expanding on it and actually making it even greater than the first flash of inspiration you had. Don’t worry if your inspiration is so big and bold it frighten’s you, or is outside your comfort zone, this is actually good, it will get you to reach into your mind even more, you have been told on numerous occasion’s don’t worry about how you will achieve it, just keep it in your mind, visualise every detail as small or as big as it may be, keep your dream alive within yourself,form new habits as if you already have your dream your goal, that you are living the life that you desire, when you experience this emotion, your vibration will rise and you will be in a position to send your message to the universe out on the correct frequency,this is when the universe will present you with the opportunities/knowledge/a way in to achieve what it is that you want. This must not be confused with fooling yourself, people who do not have the capability to believe in themselves or the guidance of the universe will instantly tell you this, YOU are not fooling yourself, you are not living a life that is not yours, YOU are experiencing through thoughts and emotion’s how your new life will be, and by doing this you are opening new roads to your personal success, no matter what it is you are wanting in your life, YOU are your creator of what is to be, the way that you feel and act is what you bring to yourself, this is what many people do not see or understand, try to look around you at people you may admire and notice how they are, how they interact with other’s, do they have a happy disposition, do you think they believe in themselves, now, take another look at the opposite end of the scale, we all know one or more of this type, when nothing is ever right, nothing please’s them and they generally do not have a happy disposition, they are stuck, blocked they procrastinate, they have no inspiration and sadly probaly no inner peace, inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control their emotions. We all need inspiration to move forward, but, remember we all move at different speeds, some people have an overload of inspiration and in this case they need to dosify, as not to live a total life of permanent fantasy if on the other hand your inspiration is slower, don’t worry work with what you have got, the flow will come, try not to force the situation, inspiration can be found in many ways, it can come from your family, your pets, a beautiful view, a busy street, inspiration is all around us, tree’s flowers people you really do not know what will spark that flow going, but believe me you have it in you, you may even be a little afraid of where it can lead you, if you feel it, if you are being guided in that direction, don’t fight it through fear or what people will say or think, you are in control, your life, your choice, ALWAYS If you truly wish to accomplish your dreams/goals now is your golden opportunity to start………….SO, what are you waiting for !!!!!!!
Happy New Year, to everyone, I hope you all enjoyed bringing in the New Year yesterday, whether you were in a Gran Fiesta, or at home with the people you love, 2016 is now oficially here !!! No more getting ready, we are at the starting line and more than ready to go, we are filled with fantastic idea’s and have set our goals, and WE are going to achieve everything in this coming year, we are not going to slip this year, (because we are all guilty of this) our intention’s are great, for the first few days, then we start to slow down and slip back into our old routines, THIS is not going to happen this year, we all deserve to get to the finishing line, and more than anything else….. We owe it to ourselves..don’t we ? I think so ….. We can all help each other, send a mail, let me know how it’s going, be strong, I am really going to try to keep you on track and motivated and you can help me with this, let me know where you are struggling and where those blocks lie, I would at this point like to thank all of you that do send me mails, and also to the new follower’s who have joined me this year, yes, I have already new follower’s in 2016, let’s keep it going, and make this year, what we all want.
Many of you will be going back to work over the next few days and the holiday season will feel light years away, however, don’t let this get you down, if you are not already doing the job you dream about, it just might be around the corner for you, go back to work, full of illusion and believe, the belief you have for yourself, knowing your mind-set is at it’s best, ready to take on the world, keep your dreams close, first thing when you wake, visualise your dream, get your vibration soaring high and set your day, and if your days are busy, do the same exercise before you sleep, keep those vibrations high, do not let any situation bring you down, remember the Law of Allowance, apply it, every time you feel it is necessary. Take your life to the next level, and enjoy every moment you have,you and only you are in control, your emotions, thoughts and reactions are contolled by you, be happy, be tolerate, be who you want to be. Looking forward to hearing from you comment here on the blog, or mail theutopiauniverse@gmail.com .
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One day away, and Santa will be preparing his sleigh to travel the world, what a wonderful thought for all those children (and adults) who eagerly await his visit.
This is a wonderful time of year for many, to enjoy the traditions and our families and friends . We are not all so lucky, and for this we must hold back a second to think of all those, who may not be as lucky as we are, and to send out a little wish of peace and love to all.
For those of you who take time out of your day to read my blog, I say THANK YOU, I am truly grateful for this, I will not be posting now until the 29th December (My afternoon posts)when I hope to give you your “12 Chimes of the New Year 2021” and hope that we all slip into the New Year full of excitement and joy, full of new goals that we will obtain…. We have a busy year ahead, but, we are all more than capable to achieve.
” I WISH YOU ALL A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS AND MAY ALL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE ”
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