Here we go, the wonderful word LOVE, it can mean so much to one and so little to another, then of course we have the different variety’s of love, it comes in all shapes and sizes, love for ourselves, love for others, love of our work, love of our life, love of our home, surroundings, places and so on and so on, the list is never ending. But, do we know how to measure or realise these different types, or do we mess them all up in a big bundle and trudge on through life, never really knowing the high’s and low’s of true love, love with passion, objective love and of course pain caused by love.
We cannot measure love, like heat or strength but we feel it with great intensity, we can even go from love to hate in a second, this is only for a moment, but our emotion’s allow this to happen, once we start to reflect on these feelings, we realise this is not really possible to that degree, when we have loved, something will always remain and it does not have to be bad, no matter what experience we may have had, it is also not a good thing to only remain with the bad, as difficult as this may feel at the moment of this happening, when we live with bad feelings towards someone or a situation, we actually are hurting ourselves alot more than we realise, we have to learn to handle this in the right way, again as they say, to forgive and forget is easier said than done, some of us can, others not so easily, but we can allow as we have mentioned many times, we can allow, we can accept the outcome and this leaves us able to carry on with our life without creating excess emotional baggage, and hopefully love again, obviously we are talking about one to one personal relationships here,it is important that we see that no two people are the same, and if the pattern was to repeat itself, then we must look to ourselves to find the answer to this repetition (This is another topic, that we can look at another day)
Love is probaly one of the most difficult topics to write about, due to us all feeling on different levels, and of course we are all unique in everything we do, we all hold points of view on how and when we should love, and this does actually lead us all to one thing, we never know when love is going to flourish, with who and the why behind it, in cases they say opposite’s attract, in some they are so alike they could be one person, we all look for different things in love, a partner to travel through life with, someone who always listen’s when we speak, someone who without saying a word, know’s exactly the message we are sending just by a look, whatever it is, it does happen to everyone at some point in our life, many hold and cherish it for a lifetime and some just let it go, without a second thought, and some are so afraid they run away from the happiness that this could actually bring them, we all have different reason’s for the way we embrace or not our emotional states.
However, what we should never do, is live our life without love, whether it be for your favourite pet, parents,siblings, etc., we all deserve love, to give and to recieve, both reward us with a wonderful feeling, and we all have a right to this, never turn away from love from anyone or anything, a heart without love , is like a flower without water, when we have love in our life, we flourish in different ways,we see things in distint ways and the colour of our life is warm and endearing.
Love also should be filled with understanding and respect, without these two factors, maybe love cannot exist, unfortunately very bad things happen in the name of love, we all know that this is not love,which is why I say the name of love, you cannot physically or emotionally hurt someone or something for love, this can be used at times as a bad excuse for other underlying feelings and problems.
We all hope that in the end, love can conquer all and be spread around the world in the best way and form we know how, if we send out love we recieve love, just think of the panorama if the world were to take on this point of view, what a wonderful world we live in and even more so could be even greater, don’t wait, send out your love, more love than normal and live your life in a world of love .