I am sure you don’t remember the first steps you took, but if you could have thought about it, you would no doubt think it quite impossible, but we did it, we had a little help along the way, but we did it, we also learned how to talk, how to run there are so many things to mention, the point I am making is, why do we become frozen with fear when we think of new moves we would like or need to make today when if we think back, we have conquered some of the most difficult things we ever need to do, the big difference is we knew no fear, and know we do….but fear is an emotion which we create ourselves? Would you have got up and walked, if you had been aware of how many falls you were going to take !! probably not, because your fear would have taken over… when we decide to change our life in some form or totally, we have to let go of fear and hold on tight to how brave we are, the confidence we have within ourselves, and believing we can do it….
Moving forward in life or having to carry on in circumstances that are strange and may be upsetting to us have to be done, there is no time limit on this, you are in charge, it’s one foot in front of the other, each day reveals to us, how much we can do and how far we can go…everyone is different and to compare yourself with someone else or allow others to compare you in totally out of bounds, no one has the right to tell you how you feel or should feel, your success in whatever you are doing belongs to you and no one else, they should worry about there own progress, if you are offered a helping hand and it is a true helping hand then of course if you are happy to take it, but never allow anyone to force their actions onto you, you will always know what is best for you and what makes you happy.
Our happiness is something only we truly understand, and it is possible that the people around us feel we are wasting our talents or should be occupied with other things, but happiness is a choice and I would choose happiness a thousand times over, obviously, life is not always a happy place, life has it’s up’s and down’s but if we find balance and know that generally, we are happy, we are probably doing what our heart and passion wishes us to do.
Make your life amazing and a happy place to be, by taking the steps you need and wish to take…….
Brooke Universal Life & Relationship Coach