In the world that we live in now, is very different than that of days gone by when love was forever and people stayed together for a lifetime, this is now more out of the ordinary than break ups,
So what goes wrong in these modern times, do we just all have a sell by date, or are we totally unaware of the needs,emotions and understanding it takes. People have no idea of what they are going into, being in love is not the same as liking some one. A life long commitment needs the real thing,we all know how difficult it is to live with someone else,we need to find the person that is right for us, that shares the same capacity as ourselves of understanding each other and others around us, to respect and admire for who people are and how they are, when there is no respect or your admiration wears thin we walk away.
So how do people understand between themselves ? You need to be able to put yourself in the place of the other and understand how they would react, how they would express themselves, if you have this with your partner, you will obtain a deeper relationship,and could live a true real love, but this has to be both ways, it is no good if only one of you do this. Does luck have anything to do with all this, well, being born was a pretty lucky event, so who knows maybe luck is involved, maybe you were in the right place at the right time, or maybe not, maybe it was just meant to be ? We have to have the ability to find the correct person and to know what is right for us, you have to be able to see and feel that somethings are right and some are wrong, this is when you have to be strong and very truthful with yourself. Your happiness long term is at stake here, and if you are not truthful with yourself and strong enough to walk away if you know that something is not right, you will never be truly happy and in time will also take that happiness away from your partner. The more you have in common (outside your love bubble) the better, this does not mean that you have to do everything together, your own space is also valuable in a lasting relationship, but by having these interests, values, likes,dislikes will always give you a focal point,never be afraid to speak out your opinion, the art of discussion is very healthy in a partnership,please note here that we are not talking about an argument, it is here where the respect comes in, and with mutual respect, life will never be boring,you are both individuales.
Love is a wonderful thing, and if you experience this love with your partner, and you understand each other, you could have a long and happy life together…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….
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