It is so true, and I have said it many times, everyday is a new opportunity for us to start our life again, new projects, new place new friends etc., this is all well and good and as I say very true, but, if we continue to take our past with us wherever we go, we will block ourselves every step of the way. Our thoughts create the situation of no advance…. they keep you rooted to the place where you are, thoughts regarding our past, have gone, they are finished we cannot bring those moments back or replace them.
One of the things we should realise is that the past is a place of reference, not of residence, so why do we wish to stay there, or go back time and time again in our minds, do we find comfort, were we happier then, is this what we think, maybe this is due to being unable to move forward to find future experiences that please us and allow us to live. When we make the decision to move forward you may find you need to forgive, when we forgive is to set a prisoner free and of course we can at times sadly find that the prisoner was ourselves.
Many of us seek happiness, but it must be understood that happiness is when what you think what you say and what you do are in harmony, this is when we also find that harmony that we need to live happy healthy lives. Unless you make these moves, and forgive what went in previously you cannot move forward, you will hold yourself back. The past cannot be changed, but the future is still within your power to make what you want.
You should never take for granted any situation that you have in life, but be grateful always as we never know how long it is going to last, no matter who or what you have in your life, no one can be sure it will be forever, in all areas of your life. It is also a known fact that everybody experiences relationship issues sooner or later through their life, and as you know an unhealthy relationship may affect you badly. No one who really lives in this world escapes ups and downs, they are all manageable but the secret is within the capacity to let things go, the longer you hold on to things the longer you suffer, when you let things go, it lets you go to live with no bad thoughts, guilt or unhappiness, it leaves you free………………..