Are you loved or are you part of an obsession, many people believe that they are the same! But for those that have truly loved and are loved will know the difference with no hesitation, love, true love is full of trust, it gives you freedom and is based on everyday reality, love is free and wants to be shared, and gives, love wants the best for you.
On the other hand, Obsession is full of jealousy and insecurities, they wish to possess you and is a fantasy and not in a good way, obsession is clingy and uncomfortable, it is needy and just wants you.
Manic lovers are obsessive, over jealous about anything and everything, obsessive partners are irrational and treat you as a possession they are constantly consumed by thoughts of their partner as to what they are doing and where they are unable to live in peace, they need constant attention and affection and the feel of togetherness, but not that of a loving couple! Their kind of “love” is intense.
They are always looking to put their love to the test, they push way beyond the boundaries established by a normal loving couple, this is all for the sake of assurance on their part. They cannot take any form of criticism from their partner, they are very hypersensitive and can at times act with violence and are always on the defense, their reaction to separation even if it is for working purpose can be that of instant panic……………
As you can imagine, life and living with a person dealing with an obsession is extremely difficult and in fact takes half of your life away, a feeling of total suffocation takes over and the whole experience is a continual struggle, which builds up a feeling of total rejection for the other person, you do not wish to spend time with them and feel this claustrophobic lifestyle, where every movement and gesture is analyzed by them.
Stepping into the world of love, full of positive people and attitudes is a breath of fresh air, away from the negativity and the world of obsession.
Wishing you a happy free-loving life
Brooke Universal Life Coach
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