Do you ever feel that you are off track, that you feel lost all of a sudden,at times the more you hide your feelings, you actually show them more, and the more you deny your feelings they surely will grow more, this is very true, so to talk to someone, who will understand you, can help, don’t let this opportunity pass you by if it presents itself or you can always seek them out yourself. When you have these feelings they are obviously triggered by something or someone, if you spend your life living in the past, as if it matters more than living in the now, in this moment, when you live in the now, you can learn from the mistakes of yesterday, and avoid this moment of not knowing where you are going.
As strange as it may sound, getting lost is sometimes a great way of finding yourself,at times it is not about what we want to become, what we are fighting for, it could be more about being the person you were, un-learning everything that is not really you, when you see this for yourself, you will become free to be who you were meant to be in the first place. I also realise that to discover who you are can be hard when part of you is missing, but you cannot start a new chapter in your life, if you insist on re-reading the last one time and time again.
You need to trust yourself, you know more about yourself, you hold the key, and you need to look inside, you need to do a little inner search to open up that lock, that is keeping you on a road you don’t know, you know more than you think you do, you need a one to one with yourself, dig deep, write it down if necessary, this is good for you.
As adults we tend to lose the innocence of the child, you struggle more with feeling happiness and will make things more complicated,who spreads the suffering more, who is afraid of being happy, and who, because it is easier, will just go back to sleep and try to forget, that does not work, look for the inner child, it is there, we never lose our inner child, when we use our intelligence we are the happy inner child,and can rebuild, nothing is ever lost on someone who wants to grow, nothing is wasted when you are preparing for life by keeping eyes, mind and heart open these experiences will serve you in unexpected moments.
When we doubt ourselves and hesitate, we are lost…..if we always remember that our present situation is not our final destination, there can be no one more lost than someone lost within their own busy highways of their own lonely mind.
” The prettiest smile can hide the deepest secrets, The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears and the kindest heart have felt the most pain”
Brooke Universal Life Coach