What do you believe to be rejection, note I say believe….? because at the end of the day that is exactly what it is, what you believe it to be,and what would you think if rejection was really an opportunity,how different that would be, to the way we feel, act and take a rejection. When you start to see a rejection as a wonderful opportunity for something bigger and better, you immediately feel good, the stress and the tension is taken automatically out of the situation, whether it be a personal relationship or job interview, a house you want to buy,the car of your dreams, if it does not work out how you initially planned, the positive side is that this was not for you,you are being guided to a better situation that is better for you, everything has a reason,
At times we don’t actually want the (whatever) we only want the (whatever’s) to want us, in the event of a personal relationship think what the other has lost, there is nothing wrong with you, you are unique, nobody in the world is like you…. you will grow on a personal level as we are all in continual expansion,what this rejection is showing you is an opportunity to truly get what you want, job interviews are the same, if you don’t get that fabulous job you originally wanted, it will be because a magnificent job is out there waiting for, that is really for you.
This can be applied in everything we do and defining the word in a different way will help you to a happier and healthy life. You need to be free for better things, one of the secrets to this is not to just think on the jobs or relationships you did’nt get,but to think of the ones you do want,the things you really want, you should never conform with things, if they don’t fill the description of what you really want. Seeing things this way will also fill you with positive energy and that will always keep you in the right direction. There is a perfect time for everything and your time will always come by seeing the opportunities as they reveal themselves.
Brooke Universal Life Coach