How would you see your life with no hope and no confidence ? we all need hope and we all need confidence to see this life through, if you are always waiting for the accident to happen,the pain to set in, the injustice to take over,the abuse to start and the illness to set in,the only thing you are doing is waiting for the process of the end to happen. But do we realise that no human is an island and that we live in a continual relationship with others, we go forward knowing that our children wait and need us,our partner, parents or a simple image in our mind or heart that takes us to see that we take a breath of air and breath and give life another opportunity, this is our confidence and optimism, that returns to us.
When we have confidence in another person, we all know how difficult it is to reach this grade of confidence, and how easy it is to destroy that gained confidence. If we see this confidence as a beautiful vase full of this confidence and it falls and breaks, it may be possible to rebuild the vase,but, the cracks will be impossible to hide,we can forgive the person who’s confidence you have lost, but to forget is just not a case of wanting to, it’s far more difficult , however if we lose the confidence……what do we have left …nothing without it we allow ourselves to abandon, to resign to allow the paranoia in
Can we trust all and everyone…not at all, the election we make as to who takes our life journey with us is down to us, our confidence is given or not, we give to those we think deserve it,we find a fine thread that keeps the trust.
Brooke Universal Life Coach