This is the best change we can give ourselves by far, when we see that problems are meant to be solved and that problems are like the homework in life, we learn with every single one, but the biggest and best teaching is within the change. Many of you will become anxious with problems and will lose the normal calm and control you have about you, some will instantly freeze and have no way of resolving the said problem, most of the time that is because it is what you believe or have always seen to be the way to resolve, when we make that change , are mental change of how we view problems, will we gain control and a better method of dealing with them, it will not give us magical abilities to take the problem away, but when you change your view, that a problem is just that, a block in the road, a obstacule to get around a hurdle to jump which ever way you view,it is possible to eliminate it from your daily life, when we push it to the back of our minds or just keep pushing it away, we are delaying the day we have to deal with it and we allow it to torment us until we make that decision, at times it is hard, not everything is in our hands, but when possible the sooner you deal with it, the better you will feel, remember that by remaining calm, you keep your objectivity and clarity, you can even at times take yourself out of the equation and not feel the personal direct connection if there is one. When we mix emotion panic fear and many more feelings and thoughts we have an explosive outcome, which is not clear for anyone.
When you are next confronted with a problem, big or small !! Change your way of viewing this, a problem is sent to be solved, it is not something to send you into a tizzy and panic…..take a deep breath and if necessary write down the options of a solution you have, keep calm and choose the best plan for you and then take the action required to rectify or resolve the problem at hand. Remember that with every problem we are learning something, it is up to you to establish that learning curve and to take the opportunity that is being offered to you, don’t bury your head in the sand.
Brooke- Universal Coach