So, what happens when we fall in love, a difficult one to answer, as we have emotions that are at times ,somewhat unexplainable ! but you know we can and many do fall in love with the least unexpected person at the most unexpected time. People say, I fell in love with you, I don’t know how or why I just did…….falling in love is awesome, and you only feel your in love when you find yourself totally into that other person.
Of course you have to make falling in love be for all the right reasons, because you can’t just help living without that person. You never know if it will work out, but you have to give it a go, you have to pull on all your courage,and step on your fear, because it could be the best adventure ever. When your full of fear, which many people are, and all for different reasons, you have to have one thing clear,and that is you will only love again, when you fall in love again, you can’t help who you fall in love with, you love who you love, it just is what it is. We have no control who we fall in love with, even when you are in the most sad and confused time of your life, you fall in love because it just happens, you can’t program true love, you may kid yourself if you wish, but when you are hit by true love full on, you will have very little say in it.
When you fall hopelessly in love, which is usually the way for most, we find we just want to share everything we do , so many things good and bad, most of your time you wish to be with that person, you think of them all day long, and you want to make them happy and of course love more than anyone else in the world .
When you fall in love, the most natural thing to do ,if you have fallen in love for the right reasons, is to give yourself to that person and what that love is to you, that’s what most people think, it’s just a form of sincerity.
When people are in love, it shows they are happier they smile more and laugh, the general feeling of hurt or being alone vanishes and it is replaced by feeling safe and loved. You have to take special care as to not fall in love with someone who makes you feel unwanted at any time.
There are times when we realise that when you started to love again, that you have never loved anyone like this before. You find that your mind wanders and you get totally lost in thoughts of you and the other person .
Life is a journey, and if you fall in love with the journey, you will be in love forever.
Brooke, Universal Life Coach