This could be one of the biggest jobs, you may have, finding yourself, easier said than done………..but many of us struggle with this, we have to know ourselves, we need this for so many things and without it…….well it just is not going to work, so if you feel that you have lost yourself along the way, take five, find yourself no matter how long it takes or how hard it maybe…….the result is well worth it. Many confuse happiness and finding yourself, they are not the same, and obtaining things don’t always make us happy also, you might be living a life, where you are telling yourself that once you have that perfect job, your dream job you will be happy and complete, or it maybe a new dream home, the love of your life, you need yourself first, content in mind and heart.
Don’t look for happiness, where you lost it? When you decide to find yourself it is a commitment that you make to yourself, but it is not just that, you have to be 100% behind yourself, you have to want to do this, just like dieting or giving up smoking, if you are not ready, it is not going to work.You need to celebrate yourself, every little piece of you, you make your decisions and you do not let others make those decisions for you, remember we always have choice, start paying attention to what really attracts you, not what attracts others, when you notice for yourself, you may be on the right track to start your journey, the right path to your passion and purpose. Don’t turn away from this, have the courage to follow what you want, it takes courage but you have it! Your first and last love is self love. You don’t have to do what others want, your personal freedom lies within not having permission from anyone except yourself. Fall in love with taking care of yourself mind body and spirit.
A great start is to think for yourself and do not allow others to do it for you, when you continually do what others wish you will fill yourself with fear, while you are harbouring this fear you are in the way of your own growth and reduce your hopes of finding happiness. Be a rebel, the odd one out, be whatever you want to be, just don’t be what others want you to be or do. Take the risky road, be the raw version of yourself, you need to accept yourself not anyone else.
Find your self respect, don’t put yourself down, think of yourself as worthy, intelligent caring perfect !! Full of abilities who could possibly reject you………..you are full of confidence because you are smart, don’t judge people around you, if you do you will have no time to love them. When you set your goals make the ones that fill you with joy and have you jumping out of bed in the morning, eager to get started. Stay away from drama, hatred pain find your space with peace happiness and yourself.
You have to know yourself to know where you are going in life and where you want to go.
You, yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. Don’t change so that people will like you more, be yourself and the real people will love the real you.
The more you know who you are and what you want, the less you will let things upset you.
Find yourself and find the magic in you……………………………………