Oh, these little hands, how they fill our hearts, at times I wonder how can something so tiny and unknown to us,mean so much to us within a second of meeting ! Wow it is a second to fall in love, the love of our lives, alove that never ends, no matter what. It is true when they say that the most precious jewel we wear around our neck are the arms of our loving children. How we long to feel that hug, no matter how big they now are, to young mothers I would say hug and hug all day if you feel it, the time goes so quickly, you blink your eyes and your baby or babies are no longer……… the strange thing about the role of a Mother is that you think about your children day and night, it never eases up, even if they are not with you, you will love them in a way they will never understand, until maybe they are parents themselves. And then they must be ready as being a parent means loving your children more than you’ve ever loved yourself…………
It is important that your children always know how they were wished for and longed for and certainly wanted long before their arrival, the one thing most parents have in common is our wish for them to know how much they are loved, this is something that cannot be measured or seen,it is an emotion that is felt and cannot be calculated, they need to know that no matter what happens in their life, the ups and downs that we all have, you are always there for them, no matter what………Do children really see and believe how much we love them ? it is not a habit that we collect along the way, they are and should realise that they are the best thing that ever happened to us in this lifetime or any other.
Are you conscious of how much strength we can gain through our children and that many times even when they are older and young adults, they are probably still your WHY to many goals and wishes you have. There is nothing in this world more precious to us than our children, you wish with all your heart that when they think of you they remember you for your love and how you cherish them, not for the material things you provided. Quality time does not mean what you spend,you can show love by your behaviour for and with them. Motherhood is a choice, you make everyday to put someone else’s happiness and well being ahead of yours. Our children will be our children always, we will love them and support them no matter what.
Never miss an opportunity to tell them how much you love them………………….our love for them is totally unconditional ❤
Brooke Universal Life Coach