Do you love yourself enough to go it alone, or are you afraid of taking those steps without others.
What we need to face or realise when we are on the bottom step and feel we can go no further down, when we hit rock bottom ……..we always have ourselves, and it is you that has to be repaired first, we are so tempted to think of all our baggage,that we take ever where with us, which is normal. You are no good to anyone, not even yourself we love are friends and family and want the best for them, but, at times we do not see what is the best………….when you are not happy or satisfied with yourself or your results, you are no good to anyone, you have to make the decision to start out again, to reshuffle your cards and to get back into life, but you have to do this alone, when you accomplish this, you can re-track and take others with you, on your new great journey called life, you want them to be part of it, and they also want to be part of you, but first you sort yourself out then you can help others, it cannot be done all at the same time.
They can be your why, which will keep you going on your road to recovery, but it is important that you do it alone, it is the only way, you need to come to terms with the new you, before you introduce yourself once again to your friends and family, feeling well balanced and strong. This may all seem strange to you, but if you are trying to put yourself together again, for whatever reason, just imagine trying to do it, with the worry and concern of your responsibilities (family & friends) discovering your new self is a one man show, it is deep and revealing and you need to be happy with it, not anyone else, this is also important to put your feelings and opinions first.
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Never be afraid to let go of what you are familiar or maybe over familiar with, it takes strength and courage, but the outcome is usually always beneficial to you, and never be afraid of letting go of what you do not want in your life. It is never to late to change your direction in life, if you feel this way, go for it, you have nothing to lose.
We all have the strength of the lion hidden inside, never be afraid to move out of your comfort zone………………….(its where the action and your new life starts)
Brooke Universal Life Coach