Charisma cannot be bought, and it is heavily disputed as to whether we are born with it or not, so do you have charisma or not ?
Charisma however can become part of our personality (if it is not within our natural makeup) charisma can be nurtured within yourself. When someone is known to have charisma within them, they are generally popular people and attractive to the outside world, we are not talking about physical beauty here, charisma is something that stands out on its own……….(we touched this subject a little yesterday, but never used the word charisma) As we have said many times, we can be attractive in many ways and forms………..When we cultivate self-awareness you will know your good and bad points, this will give you strength and obviously your good points can be cultivated , this will also show that you hold a great respect for yourself, and by showing this, others will give you that respect back, people will treat as you should be treated, your self-awareness will show the world that you know what you want and have no problem in communicating those wishes. You will be known for a person who is capable of holding good conversation and holding a good posture, you will be remembered and not be one of many.
When you stand out from the crowd, (not because you are 6′ 6 inch ) but simply due to your magnetic charisma attitude that people see and feel, when you hold goals, they will be big enormous goals, why not, it is the same work to reach a small one as a big one , you will have no fear to let people know you hold these dreams, you are proud of where you are going……..you will have a positive air about you, which people are attracted to and love to be around you, positivity can be very contagious, your inner confidence is noticed. When you are a confident person you will find that envy and jealousy is not part of your vocabulary or make up, minimal unimportant things do not affect your day-to-day living, you will also complain less, as generally a person who complains a lot will be an unhappy person, it is a side of us that we allow to sneak in, to cover the wrong decisions we make along the way in life. attractive people with charisma will look at problems in another way, everyone has problems little or big hiccups along the way, but a person with charisma will see these little bumps as opportunities to find the correct solution, also they hold no fear at letting go of anything to continue moving forward in life.
People with charisma will move in a very special way, some would call it confidence that oozes from every pore, it’s a form of body language that can be seen and felt, remember that first impression’s count, you are your personal business card, they never show discomfort or fiddle with pens or buttons etc., it is also important to remember that eye contact is also very important, there is nothing worse that talking to someone who is looking over your shoulder and right past you, when you hold eye contact you are letting that other person know that you are totally focused on what they have to say and that you are listening to them and only them, you or they are not distracted by anything around them. A warm welcoming smile and eye contact will instantly form a connection. It is also important to show interest in what the other person has to say, whether this be business or their personal hobbies and interests, it is important that people feel on the same page, you always need to show the concern, interest and care you would wish to be shown to yourself.
Brooke Universal Life Coach