So…………….Why is it that we always want something that we do not have or think that we do not have ? the great question, we are always looking for perfection , which in reality we already have, what we really do is look for imperfections within our perfection……..Let me explain, I receive so many emails regarding what you feel is wrong with each and every one of you, it can range from physical to abilities that we feel we are lacking !!

If we have straight hair, we want curly hair and vice versa, if we are blond we would like to be brunette, and the list goes on and on, let me tell you something if we all looked the same and we all wanted the same kind of physical person………………………….where would we all be ?  We are all made differently and project ourselves in distinctive ways, so why do we feel ugly or beautiful intelligent or just plain dum !!

Believe me if I were to tell you that the above statement is totally correct, how many times in life have you met someone, not necessarily in a romantic way, that you feel drawn to, you may even think that to you they are unattractive compared to the people you would normally feel an attraction for, but that draw is there, you find them very funny, great in conversation or just great to  be around, how many couples do you know and have often wondered, “What an unusual pair, I would never imagine them together” when we see or feel this, take note, you are in the presence of a person who has learnt or decided to be the best version of themselves, simply to be…… this does not have to be, creams colours and artificial whatever !! they are just happy and comfortable in their own skin, regardless to anything else, eyes, nose height weight etc., they except themselves as they are and therefore find happiness, which shows in the face of a person… when you are happy, it is also there for the world to see, just remember it is shown if you are unhappy 

No one is born knowing what they will do in life or even wish to become, but if we always have it clear that we can do whatever we put our minds to, yes believe this is possible, the only impossibility is that you may stop yourself…………we put our own blocks on ourselves, this is no longer controlled by anyone or anything, we have so much at our finger tips now, in the form of knowledge, we can educate ourselves for the price of an internet connection, we can also make ourselves look smaller or taller, wider or thinner, even our hairstyle …………but beyond everything else, you must believe in yourself, be happy inside and out, express yourself as you are, be you always be your own true version of yourself ❤

Brooke Universal Life Coach

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com