Just reading the headline of this post,is enough to scare the life out of some people, later in life you can be on your own for many years, this is a common situation, at times it is because this is what you want, you send out vibrations that is telling the whole world stay away from me ! or you could be trying so hard, your vibration just scares people away, however there is another group of people who would maybe love to have a life companion, a new partner to share their life with, but they are shy and just simply do not know how to go about it…….


When you are shy, you start to imagine different situations and the whole embarrassment of meeting someone, are you concerned that people may laugh at you, you are timid but also very afraid of the reaction you may create. 

This is all in your mind and an inferiority complex you are nursing which converts you into a negative and frightened person. 

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To help overcome this situation in your life, it would be a good idea to count on a female/male friend, who in a very natural way you could form a relationship to overcome these fears, if you find her/him attractive, even better, take yourself outside your comfort zone, with the assurance of your friendship, admit that you are afraid to be criticized or not accepted, and listen to the replies that you get, use this feed back to help you take the following steps. If you can create a link of confidence with this person, who better to help you with this task. 

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Looking for a new partner, later in life, has nothing to do with luck, mature love is more to do with intelligence, knowing what you want, what you are looking for and having confidence within yourself. Don’t ever be afraid to speak what is on your mind, nothing is taboo in mature love, feelings really should be said out loud and obviously showing our feeling is not a crime ! 


Wishing you all lots of love ❤



Brooke Universal Coach



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About theutopiauniverse

It's time to payback all the good in our lives,to pass to each other everything we have learned,the knowledge we have stored within, and the love we have to share. I am a fully qualified Psychologist,Life Coach,Performance Consultant & LOA Practitioner. I have shared this blog with everyone since February 2013, I have been able to help many,but also been helped by many,this I am truly grateful for and thank everyone for your support and advice.Should you wish to contact me, please feel free to do so,my email is open to you all. I look forward to hearing from you.
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  1. The thought has crossed my mind a few times since I may be separating from my partner. But this may be the best thing that has happened. Gotta have faith. 🙂


  2. Ana P. Rose says:

    Very true. 👍 🌹

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