My inspiration came today, from a lovely comment I was given by a blogger I follow and admire, the comment was on my post of yesterday on My personal universe, and it went like this…… I had no idea, it’s so easy to forget we all have our struggles. You are such an inspiration, and I’m sure you have good days and not so good days, but look how you deal with it, brilliant news, so happy. …………….again my dear Daisy I send you lol……………………..
Well yes, I do have good and bad days, but, when I learned, probably the hard way,is that we cannot change things that have happened, as they belong to the past, and sadly for most of us, we tend to take a life time to understand the true meaning of the word past, but when you have carried something for a life time, and you have tried to make a wrong into a right and cannot forgive or forget and you have not been able to………………….well we need to learn the lesson!
Everything that is sent to us, is for a reason, and I know many of you will be saying, “I did not deserve that” and I agree with you and have felt the same emotion and pain, but for whatever the reason behind it, we are sent this for the good of something, so I personally now feel, after many upsets, heart breaks and downers I have stopped rutting for the bad reason and I have hopped onto the good cloud and I attempt to float away into a peaceful zone, it takes practise but it is well worth the effort, to start to live life on a different vibe.
A bad day can be any day, we are given at times no warning, other things we are aware of and take a little longer, but whichever it is, we know that we can not put it right, no matter what we do, but we can make it right within our minds, we come to a wonderful word called choice, the choice of living a good happy life or not, all the signs are there, the feelings and emotions will rise, but when we learn the impossibility to chance the outcome, we can resolve the matter within our minds, accept the situation and carry on.
The Law of acceptance is one of the wonderful universal laws, and one of my favourites, which you will know if you have followed me for a while, when we learn to incorporate this law into our life on a constant basis, it really can make a tremendous difference, you are not agreeing with your bad days (bad situations/emotions that happen) you are simply accepting them and placing them away. This allows you to continue with a good day and good future, you have sweeped the road ahead clear, and your mind is junk free there is nothing that keeps you awake at night and generally creates havoc in your life.
As the saying goes you have to know sadness to know happiness, this is the same way of thinking, we continually learn everyday, no matter what are age, we have to be open to the learning curve that life offers us,and to the opportunities that this teaching provides.Always make the most of what we have. You are responsable for filling your mind, your mind will always believe everything you tell it, feed it well,fill it full of acceptance, faith feed it with your love.
This is where we can apply choice, choose well, who would like to have a bad day ? and when you see that you are the deciding factor in this issue, how do you feel ? People and situations can aggravate you, can make you truly sad and heartbroken and an even affect your health, when you accept this fact, your next decision should be to put it behind you, accept the situation and start to move forward with all the inner strength you can find. Put your attitude into acceptance mode, and turn all your bad days into good days or not so bad days !!
Brooke Universal Coach
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