A house is made from bricks and wood, a home is made of love, so what is it that gets us so attached to our home, why does it take on such a symbolic role, as we grow from little children into young teenagers this house that has been our shelter, now becomes our home, we feel safe and secure within the walls, everything is familiar to us, we are comfortable, it is home to our pets, family and we house all our worldly goods within.
For some it is a place where the family lives as a unit, or you may live alone, but if you have love, if you have filled your house with love then it is a home. It is stability to us, our rock, and when it is in danger for whatever reason, it is normal for us to feel panic and upset, here we have feelings of security, we have a feeling of well-being. It protects us from the outside world, it shelters us from the rain !
It is questioned many times, that if you live alone, the house cannot be filled with love, this is so untrue, everyone is different that is for sure, but normally a home is built up over the years, by adding objects, pictures, your stamp is on it, these things are generally bought with love, so every little thing is loved in its own way, some people can feel the love in a home, as soon as they step over the door way, it is a feeling that engulfs them, it is a home cared for with love.
A home can be reconstructed in another house, there is no question about this, but the emotional attachment we find we have can be very strong, although it is always exciting to move to another new house, your job is then to make it into a home, a loving home where you feel at ease and happy.
Your home is also filled with happy memories, of family that maybe are no longer with us, of times we have laughed and danced with joy, even times we have cried, and our pets who are part of our family team have also gone to further pastures, but we always have the memories, we take them with us in our heart, but fond memories are very often relived when we can look out maybe onto a garden or pool where those events have taken place. Leaving a true home is never easy, it is emotional and heart-felt.
When we are in our home, we are the King or Queen of the castle, you can build on your stability and success and you will continue to grow.
Brooke Universal Coach
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