I was not expecting to do this post today, and normally I would pass on such an experience, however yesterday I came across a very disturbing post, I am a very positive person as many of you will know, and I also understand that others are not me, I also apply the Law of Allowance in my life whenever I can, but appreciation and respect to me are very important. I honestly feel that I have never gone over that line, on my blog, or for that matter in my life, and again I understand that others are not me. We all have a rant from time to time, and things become larger than life, who has not experienced this, very few I would think.
I also believe that everyone is free to write and express themselves how they feel, but I have one question, can anyone, except the person concerned feel qualified to rate your pain, trauma, sadness etc.,? As far as I am aware this is an impossibility, and comparisons should not be made, what gives anyone the right to judge your experiences (If they know you had them) let’s not forget, that not everyone talks about them, it is a free decision, and if people feel relieve in taking expression as a therapy I would 100% support them, always but, I would also like to feel the same respect and appreciation to be returned. Everyone to their own right ?
I feel that certain feeling and emotions we have cannot be measured, the intensity only we know, can we measure love ? no, many of us have children, we know they are our life, but you cannot bottle that ! and pain, stress, trauma etc., is exactly the same, I feel, you feel, who feels most ? NO ONE CAN SAY !! So to do a written attack on the people or systems of people who support you in my book is a NO NO! These are the people that show on your blog page under like and comments, and are mentioned but not in name, but respect you enough to give their time and kind thoughts.
Well, that’s me, I just had to say my piece, it really, I suppose the word would be “upset”me, that I read what I read. I only hope that you all understand where I am coming from today, I know it is not my normal post, but when asked by new bloggers about blogging, I always tell them to be themselves, and today this is me!
I thank you all for reading, and most of all I thank you for your respect and appreciation that you all have for each other. I realise we don’t all live in a perfect world, if it’s good for us, that’s good enough, it takes so little to be kind to others, let’s just keep spreading the blogosphere love <3.