When you choose your life partner, you have to choose really well, this is not an easy decision for anyone, nobody ever know’s, but from this decision depends a lot, it is said that it can be 90% happiness or misery. It is essential that you marry for love, other interests should not be considered, you should always be prepared to make sacrifices and know how to forgive, forgiveness is a big part of making a parnership work long-term, everyone is human and can make mistakes, no one is exempt from that.
Falling in love is also essential, for as you go through your life, you will need to fall in love many times,always with the same person, each stage of our lives bring changes and you will need your love through all this. Your home should always be a happy place, it does not matter what goes on outside, but the harmony and the balance of your home should always be right, happiness within is very important, enjoy your meals together, don’t make them a discussion point about problems within your workplace,and never forget the word forgiveness, when there is a disagreement, which there will be, it does not matter who is right or wrong, always apologize, say the magic words “I’m sorry” this cannot come always from just one of you, this is something you must both know how to say and mean.
At times you will see if you are doing well, by the happiness of your partner and the respect given to you by them, respect is an important aspect of any partnership, we all need to be appreciated from the smallest to the largest thing we do,whatever it may be. Family traditions are also important, they are to be respected and never broken,don’t ever start to take your partner for granted, or friends or family you are all attached by a bond of love.
When choosing your partner, it was once said that if you chose a good partner you will be happy, if you chose a bad one you will be a philosopher (Socrates) on a humourous note, they also say two bathrooms, two bank accounts !! Space is important, we all enjoy our own space, living in a pocket of someone can be very claustrophobic
Generally a good partnership, is based on commitment and not-self convenience, a relationship should be based on the love for each other and not the need for each other, the love you have as young people can be superficial compared to love you will experience in later years, a good strong partnership needs to be built on everyday, don’t forget this, a fire left all to its self will go out ! Love, a great love and to obtain great achievements involve great risks, never be afraid to do that,and above all always be your partner’s best friend.
Never let an opportunity go by,
to tell the people who you care for that you love them.