Are you with the right life partner, how will you know when you are ? At times we know what we want in our mind but the reality is at times different than what are imagination has indicated. We always see happy funny loving people who live for every second you spend together. But the real thing can be a Little more complicated than that, when you do meet the right person, it may take a while for the feelings to flourish, it is not love at first sight for everyone, you may not even feel love or lust for that person, and of course the perfect person at that moment does not mean you will be great life partners.

You need to find someone who you wish to spend time with, when you know you can spend hours talking about similar interests, or just have a great time together, enjoy each others company and have fun, you will want to spend time together. When you do spend that time together, after,  you will feel good about yourself and value the things that you know the other person has seen and values also. Respect is a very important part of any relationship, when you know you are respected for who you are and your qualities, you know that your partner can only help you to become the person you really are or wish to be. A successful and long lasting relationship is one when both parties are independent one from the other, to follow individual interests if they wish and to feel independent , but knowing your partner will always offer support and encouragement. This at times can be difficult, but a relationship needs balance and working on this  is important to have a healthy relationship. When you meet in your life, is also important, timing is everything, one may be looking for a long term relationship and the other no, love is not enough if both parties are not looking for a committed relationship.Communication is also vital, you must be able to express yourself and them to you, this will créate a strong and close relationship. There will be times when things don’t go as planned, an argument does not mean you are not good together, it is the most natural situation in the world, but, if you can’t talk about it later, on equal terms, you may not be able to go the full course, both should be able to communicate and choose to disagree if that should be the case, partners go through good and bad times, but if one is afraid to put their opinión forward, it is not a good sign, at the end of the day, this will rise to the surface and may not be understood.

No partnership is perfect, nobody is perfect, although you may think so at the beginning of a relationship, but if you can communicate and peacefully reach an agreement or not, you may have found the one, but you must be able to express how you feel regarding different situations.