Confidence…..What would life be like without hope and confidence,At times it seems that life has no sense,a complete lack of it, as we suffer pain,an unexpected death, injustice, violation of our rights, abuse and illness that grabs us, without warning,and makes us the victims of just waiting for the end.. Nothing we can say or do will ever justify the sense in life when we feel such pain.
As no human is isolated and we live in a connection to all, we know we have to keep going knowing that these dreadful things will affect one day our loved one’s, children, parents, friends and people we see everyday on the street, we know in our minds and hearts, but we have to keep breathing and we give life another opportunity. When we see it this way we need confidence, not as stupid people or an act of not seeing what is there, we are conscious of all this,it is in fact totally the opposite, Confidence is a strong thing, it does not have levels, it is like a bet, you go or you dont go, you trust or you dont you beleive or you dont beleive. If we say we trust a little, we may as well say I dont trust…this is why confidence is so hard to build and not so hard to destroy. When we lose our confidence, we can rebuild,maybe, but the cracks of the reconstrution are impossible to hide. The person that took our confidence can be forgiven, but to forget is not just an act, it is much more complex, so if we lose our confidence, what do we have left, not alot, without it we open the door to resignation, abandoment and maybe paranoid thoughts and behaviour. So can we trust one and all, the people who share your life are then crucially determined. We trust the ones we think we can trust, who deserve it who enable us to hold on to that fine little cord, the little ray of light that keeps us trusting and not to give up hope and lose faith.
Some people will look at the world around them and wonder why? others will do exactly the same and say why not ? with confidence, whether it be restored or your original version, you will go forward knowing that bad things happen to everyone, not just a few, we all have our bad life experiences, but they are experiences, on which we need to grow strength from and not let them get us down, so if you feel that your confidence is a little low, build it up, start now, dont wait, your confidence will lead you to where you want to go, dont let it hold you back, we all have the inner strength to rebuild ourselves.
Self-confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared.
It is a strong perception of yourself and has an empowering impact on how others perceive you.