Jealousy – is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity,fear and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something you love.

Jealousy can be extremely destructive and dangerous to all it affects and those that are the jealous person. It is an emotion that destroys couples, you also find that the jealous person will have very little self-esteem and the jealousy  will leave deep scars. To be a jealous person, shows a lot regarding your personality, low self-esteem, insecurity and the belief that you own the person you show your jealousy to, the jealous person can also create jealous situations.

A jealous person will also control every move their partner makes, they do not trust them, they ,control what they wear and behave they will spy on their partner and make demands as to where they have been and who they talk to, even in their work place, and local supermarket . These people can have pathological jealousy and can totally lose control of the situation, this behaviour can over load a partner and destroy the relationship. Jealousy will make a person suffer and will finally finish any kind of relationship, people do not like to be mistrusted or have to explain every move or conversation they may have.

A person suffering from jealousy must learn to manage and eliminate the jealousy, it is essential to be happy.

Jealousy is made up of two factors (emotions) feelings and attitude. They crash together when that person feels they may lose what they have (imaginary or not) When the partner gives time to another person, who is not them, they want them exclusively to themselves. When they feel threatened (this is not always reality and the way a jealous person will handle it even less) The attitude in a jealous person will be that of a victim, that others are better than them,unable to accept criticism and will look for revenge. Jealous people will scream, cry,threat,hurt and take revenge on people who the jealousy is focused on, in extreme cases they can even hurt people or take action that later will be explained as not intentional this is usually the way out they will look for.

So, as I mentioned before.- You have to learn to manage and eliminate your jealousy, it is essential to be HAPPY…………