If you stop and think about love, we actually give it to most things in our life, and that is also within our relationships. You can even feel a form of love for someone you do not know, it does not have to be someone we know well, it can be a complete stranger. The force or the power of love doesn’t care if you are referring to a work partner, boss parent child or any person you encounter in your daily routine, these people are either receiving your love or not. And never forget that what you give is what you will receive.

Relationships are our biggest way of giving love and how we go about this can change your life completely simply by how you give love out in your relationships. Relationships can also work the opposite way for you, as we can often use it as an excuse for not giving love out. remember what you give to others, you give to yourself.

When we give love through many of its different ways, kindness, encouragement support and of course gratitude, anything that gives a good feeling to you or others, this comes back to you ten fold it multiplies into your life every area possible, this of course includes wealth, health your career and happiness. When you give out and surround yourself with negativity that is also what you will get back ten fold in every aspect of your life, it will also multiply and affect the rest of your life. It is not always the other person, this is an easy way out for us at times,if you look at your present relationship and it is good, it means you are giving more love than negativity, however if your relationship is a challenge and you encounter many difficulties you are giving out more negativity than love.  Many people feel if a relationship is going good or bad, it is due to the other person, but that is not the case, it is not a question of, if I receive I will give, you will never receive anything if you do not give first, whatever you give, you receive, so you can see it has nothing to do with another person. It is all about you ! what you give out and the way you are feeling. If you are looking to change your relationship, you can, right now, simply by looking for the things you love, appreciate and are grateful for in that other person. When you make a conscious effort to look for these things the less the negativity comes through, and this is when a miracle can happen, it will appear to you as if the other person has made a complete transformation, but it is purely your force of love, because it ignores negativity and you see the qualities and positive points of that person, you just have to be brave enough to take hold of the power of your love by looking for the things you love in that person, and everything will change in the relationship. Many relationships can be saved by the power of love, Love means freedom……. there is always a difficult little side to giving love in a relationship, and it is one thing that has prevented many people from having the love they deserve, and this is due to misunderstanding what giving love to others mean…………to have this crystal clear you have to know what it means to give love to others, and what it means not to give love to others. Trying to change another person is not giving love, when you think you know best, always for that other person is not love, whether this be your partner or child, always think what love really is before you act, when you feel you are always right and the other wrong is also not giving love, always being negative about what another person does or says or acts is not giving love, we are all different and all unique and we all have points that can be loved in a positive way. 

We should never understand love by thinking, that to give love to some one else, we must let them do and say as they wish, this is not the case at all, when you allow another person to use or abuse you, does not help you or that other person. Love is not all sweet and pleasure, love can be hard and tough, but this is how we learn and grow into wonderful human being, it is a law of life and very much a part of it. When you find yourself in a bad relationship when someone is using you, you need to get yourself onto a high vibration (frequency) and allow the love to resolve the problem for you.

The secret to relationships, you will have heard many times that we always have a choice in life, life presents you with situations that you can choose to love, within that gift of life are included people, where you can also choose what you love about each one or not, in the event of this, just turn away from these people, you do not need to criticize  or blame them  and of course never try to change them, when you choose to do these things you are not showing or giving love.

Remember, that we all have good and bad days, we can be really happy or really sad, there are so many versions of ourselves and when we are in a relationship always remember that the other person is just like us in their form of many versions………when you are happy, then only the happy version of other people can come into your life, but you have to be happy to receive the happy version of other people. Do not understand this as it being your responsibility for the happiness of others, we are all responsable for ourselves and our lives, it means that when you feel happy yourself, the Law of Attraction will do the rest, remember like attracts like. 

                        Happiness depends upon ourselves

Brooke Universal Life Coach 

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com