At times, we think we know it all, well not quite, but we feel pretty confident about what is going on out there, but we tend to overlook the most known fact, we are born and we die ? you are probably now thinking of course we do, well, I choose to disagree, I don’t think we do, it is something we have no control over, and we take a lot for granted, if we really gave it thought, would we not make the most of every second we have, would we not argue over silly insignificant things, we would not waste time, we would not complain 24/7 over things that have little importance, an if it is something of great importance, can we change it  if the answer is NO, then I ask why complain, why don’t we accept it and keep moving forward, regardless, really no matter what it may be, we may have to change many aspects of our life, are daily routines, but we are here, to watch and love are loved one’s, grow and develop into wonderful people. we breathe each day, we eat and we can feel and sense everyday life and living. 

My message today is to get out there and enjoy your life, as we become older, we should not and YOU should not put yourself on a shelf, many feel that age is a restriction, the restriction is your mind, your belief, age is just numbers, you are still you, and it is you that dictates the rules, nobody else, this is something else we don’t think about, we let society make decisions for us, we may be older a little slower maybe not so agile, but there are a lot of young people you can fit this bill also. It can sometimes depend on sheer lazy or they are just not built that way, and do other things to compensate their time here, which is why we should make are time, good, peaceful and for filling, we come this way but once, even if you believe in many lives, you will never be you again, so why don’t you enjoy it the best you can, we do not all get served excellent cards in life, but the secret here is to learn from each bad card we receive, and take it forward with us, this then becomes experience which we can use for ourselves and also be used to help others. When we go through a bad experience we need to find are inner strength your inner power, it is there for you , if you are strong enough to let it out, and hang onto it to override your storm, whats the worst that can happen, you may feel uncertain for a little while, which is far better than forever, we all tend to shy away from problems,confrontations etc., but the sooner we learn to deal with these things, the sooner things improve,if they are not given time to escalate and you don’t need to give it that time, time is important to all of us, its precious and should be used with that in mind. Remember always the golden rule, accept and allow, as I tell you this does not mean you are in agreement, with whatever it maybe, but when we accept and allow these things into our life, we are in a better situation within ourselves.

You need to feel comfortable with who you are, where you are going and with what you want.

Brooke – Universal Coaching.